Even though we have been on fab for a while now, I still consider us to be relatively new to swinging. I (shy) am genuinely a wee bit reserved and more used to receiving than given. Years of experience tells me how to read Fly and figuring out what he enjoys.
So my question is what non-verbal clues do you look for during a meet to tell if someone is enjoying what you are doing to them?
Shy x
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"Even though we have been on fab for a while now, I still consider us to be relatively new to swinging. I (shy) am genuinely a wee bit reserved and more used to receiving than given. Years of experience tells me how to read Fly and figuring out what he enjoys.
So my question is what non-verbal clues do you look for during a meet to tell if someone is enjoying what you are doing to them?
Shy x
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Spotted the sleepy typo - I obviously meant giving, not given!
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
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"Even though we have been on fab for a while now, I still consider us to be relatively new to swinging. I (shy) am genuinely a wee bit reserved and more used to receiving than given. Years of experience tells me how to read Fly and figuring out what he enjoys.
So my question is what non-verbal clues do you look for during a meet to tell if someone is enjoying what you are doing to them?
Shy x
Spotted the sleepy typo - I obviously meant giving, not given!
Shy x"
Hey, it could have been worse - there could have been 100s of full stops   |
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A n eagreness to carry on a conversation from messages, meeting witu a kiss on the cheek and still sitting close to each other. Constant eye contact and cheeky grins.......like, you know its on!....maybe not that night but meet two is gonnae be a trip to the moon!
Smiles all round is good, unless youve met up to push each others limits a bit. Love a bit of deliberate tension to build up a rough n tumble later  |
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"Even though we have been on fab for a while now, I still consider us to be relatively new to swinging. I (shy) am genuinely a wee bit reserved and more used to receiving than given. Years of experience tells me how to read Fly and figuring out what he enjoys.
So my question is what non-verbal clues do you look for during a meet to tell if someone is enjoying what you are doing to them?
Shy x
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I think the biggest clues are the Moans of pleasure lol  |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"that is a great question
relaxed body language, eye contact & laughter, hopefully
Thanks View that is helpful
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Body language, how the other person is talking, how relaxed they are and eye contact are definitely things I'm aware of. I can usually sense when someone's enjoying something but a little bit of reassurance by looking at them is good.
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"Even though we have been on fab for a while now, I still consider us to be relatively new to swinging. I (shy) am genuinely a wee bit reserved and more used to receiving than given. Years of experience tells me how to read Fly and figuring out what he enjoys.
So my question is what non-verbal clues do you look for during a meet to tell if someone is enjoying what you are doing to them?
Shy x
Spotted the sleepy typo - I obviously meant giving, not given!
Shy x
Hey, it could have been worse - there could have been 100s of full stops "
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I have to say I much prefer to be with a person who vocalises their enjoyment. I think its very arousing and indeed encouraging to be told how good what I'm doing feels but I also appreciate that everyone doesn't feel able to do that. I would agree that eye contact and a generally relaxed atmosphere would be a good indication that things were on track. Bodies have a habit of being very honest in arousal though...I think I'd kind of guess if I was getting it wrong..... |
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Totally agree, a wee moan here and there or a bit of swearing when it heats up is like the icing on the cake
No need to scream the street down but if you gotta let it out .. |
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Few things for me -
How their body reacts .
Whether they're totally focused on you or distracted , noises , eye contact and how they kiss and touch you . Also how they are afterwards , for me says a lot .  |
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"Few things for me -
How their body reacts .
Whether they're totally focused on you or distracted , noises , eye contact and how they kiss and touch you . Also how they are afterwards , for me says a lot . "
True reactions says a lot on how people are in the moment. |
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