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Made to feel unwelcome at clubs?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just to get others _iews on attending swingers clubs for first time, we have been told that newbies can be made to feel unwelcome when first attending clubs which we personally find hard to believe. Would be nice to hear of others experiences of first time club meets as we are considering attending a club soon as we feel this will be the best way for us to meet other swingers and get over the nerves of our first meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just to get others _iews on attending swingers clubs for first time, we have been told that newbies can be made to feel unwelcome when first attending clubs which we personally find hard to believe. Would be nice to hear of others experiences of first time club meets as we are considering attending a club soon as we feel this will be the best way for us to meet other swingers and get over the nerves of our first meet."
get your bums down to cj's this saturday,trust me you will definately not be made to feel unwelcome,in fact the very opposite  |
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This Saturday is not possible but we will most certainly attend very soon, from what we hear and read about CJ's it seems like a great night with a great crowd. I'm guessing the people that told us its unwelcoming aren't very sociable or confident within themselves either socially or sexually. If I'm honest I'm totally shitting myself but that's part of the excitement,everyone must be nervous first time |
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"This Saturday is not possible but we will most certainly attend very soon, from what we hear and read about CJ's it seems like a great night with a great crowd. I'm guessing the people that told us its unwelcoming aren't very sociable or confident within themselves either socially or sexually. If I'm honest I'm totally shitting myself but that's part of the excitement,everyone must be nervous first time"
and thats normal,couple of drinks and ten minutes and youll wonder what you worried about |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I went my first time to cjs last month I never once felt unwelcome infact it was the complete opposite hope you both pluck up the courage to go you'll wonder what all the worry was about  |
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Cj's is brilliant and the folk I met were lovely, it's the same as everything else in life .... It's what you make it
If you chat folk will chat back, I loved my first visit and going back the 23 rd  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Cjs is ok for newbies
Someone will chat to you
We went down to infusion and thank god we went with another cpl as we felt really out if place there
Not very friendly
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"Cj's is brilliant and the folk I met were lovely, it's the same as everything else in life .... It's what you make it
If you chat folk will chat back, I loved my first visit and going back the 23 rd "
So am I, just got the confirmation email through there just now........yayyyyyyyyy!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So do we need to pre book to go to CJ's excuse the ignorance and how do we go about it?"
go to the club re_iew section,and look for cj's and send an email and express an interest in attending and they will get back to you with details of location,costs etc |
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We go to after 8 quite regularly, although not as often as we used to, always had a good time, I think it depends on yourselves if you are quite chatty then I think you'll be fine, never been to cj but would like to try it soon. |
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