How hard is it to get a meet here that suit all? If it's not family, work,or just the lack of interest. Only ever had soft swing before and although we're looking for more we now have a couple of party invites that we'd really like to attend but I(Mrs) would rather just be with another couple. (lol,for now anyway). X |
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"How hard is it to get a meet here that suit all? If it's not family, work,or just the lack of interest. Only ever had soft swing before and although we're looking for more we now have a couple of party invites that we'd really like to attend but I(Mrs) would rather just be with another couple. (lol,for now anyway). X"
Yeah but nerves are good i reckon
Nice cam the other day very hot |
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It’s always tough making arrangements that suit everybody involved - three or four people are much trickier to organise around calendars than just the two! (And that’s *after* you finally find a connection with people you like!)
Stick at it. Perseverance pays off. Don’t give up. Etc.
Good luck to you, is basically what I’m saying! |
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"How hard is it to get a meet here that suit all? If it's not family, work,or just the lack of interest. Only ever had soft swing before and although we're looking for more we now have a couple of party invites that we'd really like to attend but I(Mrs) would rather just be with another couple. (lol,for now anyway). X
Yeah but nerves are good i reckon
Nice cam the other day very hot "
Glad you liked it, Will be repeating it again soon. X |
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"Think folk underestimate how hard it is for couples. Can be very difficult finding 4 people who all get on " Its hard to find 2 people that get on on here never mind 4 |
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"Think folk underestimate how hard it is for couples. Can be very difficult finding 4 people who all get on "
yea we know, first few meets we had were only socials lol n no way was it gonna go any further. X |
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"It’s always tough making arrangements that suit everybody involved - three or four people are much trickier to organise around calendars than just the two! (And that’s *after* you finally find a connection with people you like!)
Stick at it. Perseverance pays
off. Don’t give up. Etc.
Good luck to you, is basically what I’m saying!"
Yea we plan on sticking with it for now, we don't let it take over either,, thanks. X |
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"How hard is it to get a meet here that suit all? If it's not family, work,or just the lack of interest. Only ever had soft swing before and although we're looking for more we now have a couple of party invites that we'd really like to attend but I(Mrs) would rather just be with another couple. (lol,for now anyway). X" maybe try a club or social they are great for meeting people with no added pressure.. Good luck x |
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"How hard is it to get a meet here that suit all? If it's not family, work,or just the lack of interest. Only ever had soft swing before and although we're looking for more we now have a couple of party invites that we'd really like to attend but I(Mrs) would rather just be with another couple. (lol,for now anyway).x maybe try a club or social they are great for meeting people with no added pressure.. Good luck x "
Yea, unsure of clubs tho, but going to the Stirling social in October, looking forward to it. X |
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Having standards is a good thing, we all have to start somewhere , social meets are always good , and fun relaxed nights on the actual meet will ease the nerves and make it go a lot smoother .
Go at your own pace relax and enjoy |
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"Having standards is a good thing, we all have to start somewhere , social meets are always good , and fun relaxed nights on the actual meet will ease the nerves and make it go a lot smoother .
Go at your own pace relax and enjoy "
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By *ndykayMan
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It's hard as a singleton but having been part of a swinging couple in the past, I know it can be almost impossible to find another couple that 'fit'
But when you do, it's soooo worth it.
So don't let nerves get the better of you, they are natural. Just learn to set them to one side |
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Nerves are good its only natural to be nervous and as stated further up if the nerves or butterflies stop then time to give it a rest for a bit,
A decent conversation to settle down with soon puts nerves to bed
Can meet same person a few times and still have a little nerves |
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