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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No it is horrible.
Having done it once years ago it fatally poisoned my relationship, made me feel like a low life scumbag & keep me awake at night with stress.
On the other hand if you are a sociopath who is comfortable with deception and has no empathy to understand the pain you are causing loved ones it is great fun. |
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"No it is horrible.
Having done it once years ago it fatally poisoned my relationship, made me feel like a low life scumbag & keep me awake at night with stress.
On the other hand if you are a sociopath who is comfortable with deception and has no empathy to understand the pain you are causing loved ones it is great fun." pmsl i totally agree but the errrrrr non judgmentals gonna leap all over this |
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"No it is horrible.
Having done it once years ago it fatally poisoned my relationship, made me feel like a low life scumbag & keep me awake at night with stress.
On the other hand if you are a sociopath who is comfortable with deception and has no empathy to understand the pain you are causing loved ones it is great fun."
Well said! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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there are a couple of possibilities.
a) they like to do the cuckoo thing
b) they like the thrill of something fobidden and naughty
c) they do it because they are not getting it at home
d) they want something they are not getting at home (i.e. anal but the wife / husband isnt into it
e) they are just cunts.
in short there are a whole myriad of reasons why someone would cheat, trying to figure it out would probably take a lifetime.
I know from first hand experience my soon to be ex wife did it and there was nothing wrong with the marriage / sex life, she didnt value herself enough to think she deserved to be happy so self destructed our marriage. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have seen this on profiles
Think it's to do with folk thinking married folk will be less clingy or bunnyboilerish
Lol
Auds "
Got the bulls eye there I reckon |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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can't see them cheating if they didn't find it exciting but hey, as the years pass on here I just think they should declare their status and look for likeminded people who will play after an informed choice has been made...
good luck to them |
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