What do you guys feel is the right way to do this? Social meet,say a drink to establish connection or not? How quickly do you play if all happy to continue, straight away or make another meet? Just interested as we're about to have our (her) first. |
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If there's a definite connection then I'd go with your gut instincts, you wanna have fun straight away then so it, arrange another meeting for fun then do that. Hope you all have great fun
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Just do what's right for you, if it feels right to take it str8 to fun then go for it.
There is no right or wrong way to do things.
I myself usually do a social meet to establish if the connection is right first then have fun later.
Nothing quite like building up some sexual tension lol   |
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"Just do what's right for you, if it feels right to take it str8 to fun then go for it.
There is no right or wrong way to do things.
I myself usually do a social meet to establish if the connection is right first then have fun later.
Nothing quite like building up some sexual tension lol "
Sexual tension for a man is not as appealing as it is for a woman |
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"Just do what's right for you, if it feels right to take it str8 to fun then go for it.
There is no right or wrong way to do things.
I myself usually do a social meet to establish if the connection is right first then have fun later.
Nothing quite like building up some sexual tension lol
Sexual tension for a man is not as appealing as it is for a woman "
True story !!!! Its sexual frustration not tension  |
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Depends on how secure you are with each other.
When I play as part of a couple it's better to have one offs than a regular thing if your in a relationship with your swinging partner.
If you build up a relationship with the 3rd person if never goes well in the long run.
However if your all just having fun then it's better to know the people better and it's all just a bit of fun between friends |
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We always do social meets before play.
Majority of occasions it leads to play, but not always.
Had 1 guy that wasnt interested in talking to the mrs, another 1 refused to engage me in conversation. Met a couple that put absolutely no effort into look presentable (greasy hair ect ect)
But each to their own 
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