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one off meets or repeats
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh repeat meets definitely, until you get bored  it makes it easier exploring your fantasies, pushing the boundaries etc with someone you grow comfortable with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Same as the majority repeat for me and as a couple we prefer repeat meets.things just become more relaxed and enjoyable instead off have that uptight nervousness that goes with a first time.mr x files.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We'd be the same as most of the posters too, repeats are the way to go, gives you the chance to build in confidence with the people and allows the chance to feel able to suggest more, try more and enjoy more.
Repeats make things good friends with benefits and if the need arises and everyone is free it can give pleasurable spontaneous fun without the first time jitters |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We'd be the same as most of the posters too, repeats are the way to go, gives you the chance to build in confidence with the people and allows the chance to feel able to suggest more, try more and enjoy more.
Repeats make things good friends with benefits and if the need arises and everyone is free it can give pleasurable spontaneous fun without the first time jitters"
Still get jitters  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We'd be the same as most of the posters too, repeats are the way to go, gives you the chance to build in confidence with the people and allows the chance to feel able to suggest more, try more and enjoy more.
Repeats make things good friends with benefits and if the need arises and everyone is free it can give pleasurable spontaneous fun without the first time jitters"
This, with or without jitters, aren't we all better and more comfortable with friends  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me it's one offs, I love the thrill of meeting someone I don't know and having sex with each other.
Have a regular thing has great benefits to, which have been mentioned.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We'd be the same as most of the posters too, repeats are the way to go, gives you the chance to build in confidence with the people and allows the chance to feel able to suggest more, try more and enjoy more.
Repeats make things good friends with benefits and if the need arises and everyone is free it can give pleasurable spontaneous fun without the first time jitters
Still get jitters "
Shut up!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Both, I have to admit I love the thrill of one offs, everything is so new and undiscovered with each other. Repeats are amazing too as you connect and really get to know what buttons to press |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We like repeats but not to the point where we get comfortable with them. 3 or 4 times is good for us, unless they are an exceptional couple. We enjoy the excitement of meeting people, the anticipation of meeting them... if we lose that with a couple then it has become too comfortable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Great question Shelley and impossible to answer. What about this... If you had to choose one or the other for the rest of your life... Fun with the friends you currently have or always new people.. Lol x |
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
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"Great question Shelley and impossible to answer. What about this... If you had to choose one or the other for the rest of your life... Fun with the friends you currently have or always new people.. Lol x"
New people...... |
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I much prefer meeting with the same people again as it gets better and better. The only downside is if one person's circumstances change and they stop meeting. Means I have to start the search all over again  Ah well, that could be lots of fun too lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Great question Shelley and impossible to answer. What about this... If you had to choose one or the other for the rest of your life... Fun with the friends you currently have or always new people.. Lol x"
I'd say if it was a lifetime thing then new people as the reason for swinging initially was about having fun with different people x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Great question Shelley and impossible to answer. What about this... If you had to choose one or the other for the rest of your life... Fun with the friends you currently have or always new people.. Lol x
I'd say if it was a lifetime thing then new people as the reason for swinging initially was about having fun with different people x"
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We are repeaters as well, although it is good meeting new people I like the comfort of friends with benefits.
I must say this is the best site
but we are members of a few  lol
Would love 2 say we have a little black book full ov hot sexy peoples numbers he he but we don't we have a phone lol  |
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Both have there good and bad points
one offs the nerves are a killer and after I always think dam should have tryd this or that
repeats you get to find out what gets them going
but making someone come is one of the best feelings |
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I'm of the same opinion too though 
