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Is it sex youre after or swinging?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I guess I'm aiming this at the singles as for the couples the question is irrelevant! When I got into 'swinging' is was all about the fantasy of having threesomes, gangbangs, group sex etc......
Having experienced all those things I found I loved fantasies like fucking another mans wife as he watched or often didn't watch and now I find more and more that I don't really need the additional people so for me it's just about having good sex.....
Now in this day and age there are so many online ways for singles to have meaningless sex will we start to see the decline of 'swinging' sites and will swinging become the preserve of couples once again without the distraction of pesky singles?
Personally I find it a hell of a lot easier to meet someone for casual sex using a dating site rather than a 'swinging' site......
Or will there just be a new generation of lads and girls take up the slack and explore their sexual desires....
Answers on a postcard singles! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I joined the site because I was bored and wanted to see what it was all about and if I could get a quick lay. I wasn't really familiar with the 'scene' and not for one second did I think I would be on for as long as I have been. I've been very honest with most on here that I'm not really here for 'swinging' I had already explored a lot of different things before I came on here, although I must admit this has helped create some new fantasies.
I'm probably as bad as the 'instashag' types but I've become good friends with a lot on here and value the social side as well. I'm here for sex, I'm not here to be the 'fantasy' in a couples sex life, but hey we're all allowed to use the site as we wish  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I joined the site because I was bored and wanted to see what it was all about and if I could get a quick lay. I wasn't really familiar with the 'scene' and not for one second did I think I would be on for as long as I have been. I've been very honest with most on here that I'm not really here for 'swinging' I had already explored a lot of different things before I came on here, although I must admit this has helped create some new fantasies.
I'm probably as bad as the 'instashag' types but I've become good friends with a lot on here and value the social side as well. I'm here for sex, I'm not here to be the 'fantasy' in a couples sex life, but hey we're all allowed to use the site as we wish "
here, here 
Except, in the words of baby D "let me be your fantasy" |
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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago
near Glasgow |
As is often said, different people are here for different reasons and looking for different things.
Even the term "swinging" means different things to different people.
So the result is that the people on here have a wide range of likes and dislikes. |
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When i first joined it was to swing,but circumstances changed for me and now its for sex with regular friends,altho if i met the right playmate id love to get back into swinging in the true sence.
still love chatting here with the many lovely friends ive made over the years and still love the banter on the forums and also love the social side of things too xxx  |
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By *mudg3rMan
over a year ago
Edinburgh |
"I guess I'm aiming this at the singles as for the couples the question is irrelevant! When I got into 'swinging' is was all about the fantasy of having threesomes, gangbangs, group sex etc......
Having experienced all those things I found I loved fantasies like fucking another mans wife as he watched or often didn't watch and now I find more and more that I don't really need the additional people so for me it's just about having good sex.....
Now in this day and age there are so many online ways for singles to have meaningless sex will we start to see the decline of 'swinging' sites and will swinging become the preserve of couples once again without the distraction of pesky singles?
Personally I find it a hell of a lot easier to meet someone for casual sex using a dating site rather than a 'swinging' site......
Or will there just be a new generation of lads and girls take up the slack and explore their sexual desires....
Answers on a postcard singles! "
Do tell which dating sites.
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By *z ThongzWoman
over a year ago
Lanarkshire |
heard is said so often to join dating sites , why oh why , when pof and others like it are exactly the same as fab , guys looking for a hole as a goal but at least they are upfront about it on fab , so i am here just coz i am if and when the circumstances are right for what i want i will know , until then its banter , laughs and moderating for me lol. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I think it's fascinating how the "swinging" word means so many different things to people... For any males out there who want to have sex i would definitely recommend get on dating sites, be nice, take a girl out for a drink and you ll be far more successful than on here, but then the thrill of sexual openness, fantasy exploration, open minded ness and sheer sexual thrill that you get from a fab meet can't really be beaten can it?
I still recall the first night I went to meet a couple and that nervous sensation and desire to satisfy was coursing through me like a drug!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I think it's fascinating how the "swinging" word means so many different things to people... For any males out there who want to have sex i would definitely recommend get on dating sites, be nice, take a girl out for a drink and you ll be far more successful than on here, but then the thrill of sexual openness, fantasy exploration, open minded ness and sheer sexual thrill that you get from a fab meet can't really be beaten can it?
I still recall the first night I went to meet a couple and that nervous sensation and desire to satisfy was coursing through me like a drug!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"heard is said so often to join dating sites , why oh why , when pof and others like it are exactly the same as fab , guys looking for a hole as a goal but at least they are upfront about it on fab , so i am here just coz i am if and when the circumstances are right for what i want i will know , until then its banter , laughs and moderating for me lol. "
Very much agree. And on here you would be less likely to meet a "vanilla" partner. such as you get on mainstream "dating" sites xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Of course that's the theory..... I think my experience now is that once you've ticked off the 'bucket list' fantasy stuff do you tend to look for just NSA sex? If that is true then dating sites offer a far more lucrative picking..... Or is the friendship and social side of meeting "swinging minded" people what you desire?
Personally, I joined this site for sex and I suppose I'm interested in what others ultimately desire...
Hopefully we all get what we re looking for of course!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Be totally honest the nsa was the reason but since meeting some great people I see that as a bonus to great friends and vibrant social scene credit to the people on here I think |
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...some here will know exactly what I mean 
