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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you're referring to paying for sex, when you say a ride and not a trip in a vehicle, I'd suggest you've just been added to a hell of a lot of peoples avoid like the plague list.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you're referring to paying for sex, when you say a ride and not a trip in a vehicle, I'd suggest you've just been added to a hell of a lot of peoples avoid like the plague list. "
Why would that be? It was safe and very relaxed. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Each to their own Mr. Glad you enjoyed 
Since us females on here DON'T charge then sadly you won't be needing us eh!?  "
I wouldn't say that. I came on here to try new things. I've ticked one box with the high class escort. There's a long list of things to try.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Each to their own Mr. Glad you enjoyed
Since us females on here DON'T charge then sadly you won't be needing us eh!?
Probably lost the interest of 99% of the females on here that see this lol"
Surely not haha! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Each to their own Mr. Glad you enjoyed
Since us females on here DON'T charge then sadly you won't be needing us eh!?
Probably lost the interest of 99% of the females on here that see this lol"
I doubt it, we all have a sexual history, if we all knew who our partners had slept with or what they'd done, it might put us off them slightly. Each to their own.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Each to their own Mr. Glad you enjoyed
Since us females on here DON'T charge then sadly you won't be needing us eh!?
I wouldn't say that. I came on here to try new things. I've ticked one box with the high class escort. There's a long list of things to try. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Each to their own Mr. Glad you enjoyed
Since us females on here DON'T charge then sadly you won't be needing us eh!?
I wouldn't say that. I came on here to try new things. I've ticked one box with the high class escort. There's a long list of things to try. "
Sadly posting comments like this Mr will only result in you with your long list & your top performing high class escort!... Meanwhile the rest of us will happily stick to meeting for free on fab  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Each to their own Mr. Glad you enjoyed
Since us females on here DON'T charge then sadly you won't be needing us eh!?
I wouldn't say that. I came on here to try new things. I've ticked one box with the high class escort. There's a long list of things to try.
Sadly posting comments like this Mr will only result in you with your long list & your top performing high class escort!... Meanwhile the rest of us will happily stick to meeting for free on fab "
We're all here to explore our sexual desires, from mmf, ffm, older lovers, young lovers, gangbang etc.
I'm also certain that almost everyman on here has thought about hiring an escort, I'm certain that many have used them.
If people are put off by my past or post then I would not want to take things further. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm sure there are many people who have done things which they would never disclose,so fair play to the guy for his honesty in doing something out of the norm and enjoyed it xx "
Couldn't agree more Jacs and see no need for him to be slated for his choices. His body, his money......who am I to judge the decisions that others make?!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fair play to the lad, at least he played safe, I've seen a few on here only wanting bareback, and i don't think anyone on a sex site can judge other peoples preference or decisions, of who they do and do not have sex with, and ill bet the girls that do that job are spotless and safety conscious, more than some on here possibly |
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We know of at least 10 escorts that frequent the Scottish forums... they may not charge while meeting people from fabs but they are escorts non the less.
So even if you think that the OP is disgusting or wrong in meeting an escort..... Many others on here have and possibly don't even know it. Females may then of already met men that have met escorts....
Least the OP is been honest.... which there is a distinct lack of on here.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Both grown ups...both got what they wanted, safe and fun...who loses, I wouldn't pay personally but I never judge, each to their own and if they are both happy.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Good to see a balance of responses, all too often anything vaguely morally contrary to the norm results in instant flaming in here.
Personally I have nothing morally against those using/working in the sex trade, as long as it's consensual and mutually beneficial |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"He's ticked off one box on his list and good for him. It's all about experimenting and fulfilling desires/dreams and fantasies. "
i with him on this one well done fella again not my cup of tea but hats off for honesty
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I paid for a ride last night. Top notch, a rare time was had by me and a great performance from the paid co star.
Much did you pay?
And what for? "
£150 for an hour. I'll let your imagination decide what we did.  |
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"I paid for a ride last night. Top notch, a rare time was had by me and a great performance from the paid co star.
Much did you pay?
And what for?
£150 for an hour. I'll let your imagination decide what we did. "
lol quite right no need to give any details at all that's between u and those concerned lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I paid for a ride last night. Top notch, a rare time was had by me and a great performance from the paid co star.
Much did you pay?
And what for?
£150 for an hour. I'll let your imagination decide what we did. lol quite right no need to give any details at all that's between u and those concerned lol"
I think someone is looking for a bit of titillation. |
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"I paid for a ride last night. Top notch, a rare time was had by me and a great performance from the paid co star.
Much did you pay?
And what for?
£150 for an hour. I'll let your imagination decide what we did. lol quite right no need to give any details at all that's between u and those concerned lol
I think someone is looking for a bit of titillation. "
maybe lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had an ex wife I had to pay she took my wages  "
mine took house car and kitchen sink if I work it out for everytime we had sex in the 4 years think it cost me £1201.66p a bonk |
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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago
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OP, your choice, your money.
However, a point I think you're missing is the fact that a lot of ladies on here have reasons for not meeting guys. No TVs, no bi guys, no marrieds, no face hair etc etc. By waltzing on here and boasting about your latest activity will simply have given a lot of ladies a reason not to meet you. Just as you have free choice, so do they, and remember that there's a large number of forum lurkers who'll have seen this too.
Another point, yes many of us have done things which might not impress others, but you've chosen to tell the world while others keep things to themselves, discretion if you like.
And remember, these forums are about discussing, expressing opinions and attitudes. So posting on here will usually elicit comments, some for some against, it's life on the Fab forums. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP, your choice, your money.
However, a point I think you're missing is the fact that a lot of ladies on here have reasons for not meeting guys. No TVs, no bi guys, no marrieds, no face hair etc etc. By waltzing on here and boasting about your latest activity will simply have given a lot of ladies a reason not to meet you. Just as you have free choice, so do they, and remember that there's a large number of forum lurkers who'll have seen this too.
Another point, yes many of us have done things which might not impress others, but you've chosen to tell the world while others keep things to themselves, discretion if you like.
And remember, these forums are about discussing, expressing opinions and attitudes. So posting on here will usually elicit comments, some for some against, it's life on the Fab forums. "
What does OP mean?
I agree with you, excellently put.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Each to their own I suppose, but I can't see the point in paying for something that someone will do willingly on here. You're a young enough guy to get things ticked off your "list" without resorting to paying for it. Unless it was the act of paying for it that was the thrill, and not what happened afterwards. I'm glad you enjoyed yourself anyway, as long as it's fun and consenting then I guess that's all the matters. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"We know of at least 10 escorts that frequent the Scottish forums... they may not charge while meeting people from fabs but they are escorts non the less.
So even if you think that the OP is disgusting or wrong in meeting an escort..... Many others on here have and possibly don't even know it. Females may then of already met men that have met escorts....
Least the OP is been honest.... which there is a distinct lack of on here.
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well said...... glad you enjoyed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Both grown ups...both got what they wanted, safe and fun...who loses, I wouldn't pay personally but I never judge, each to their own and if they are both happy...."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I paid for a ride last night. Top notch, a rare time was had by me and a great performance from the paid co star.
Much did you pay?
And what for?
£150 for an hour. I'll let your imagination decide what we did. "
We'd have done it for half |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It was safe .It's not hurt anyone that we know of. It's the OPs money and his choice. As said in a similar post . Many people would class what we do as swingers as vile and disgusting, just as much as paying for sex with someone might be to some of the forum posters.
Who are any of us to judge when someone is happily experiencing something he wanted to do.
Good on you for ticking something else off your list and enjoying yourself.
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
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I wouldn't say that. I came on here to try new things. I've ticked one box with the high class escort. There's a long list of things to try. "
At 150 and hour.....she wasnt that high class!!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I wouldn't say that. I came on here to try new things. I've ticked one box with the high class escort. There's a long list of things to try.
At 150 and hour.....she wasnt that high class!!
She was stunning looking, had her own jugs and looked sensational. I won a watch last night.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't say that. I came on here to try new things. I've ticked one box with the high class escort. There's a long list of things to try.
At 150 and hour.....she wasnt that high class!!
She was stunning looking, had her own jugs and looked sensational. I won a watch last night.
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Had her previous punter lost one? |
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I wouldn't say that. I came on here to try new things. I've ticked one box with the high class escort. There's a long list of things to try.
At 150 and hour.....she wasnt that high class!!
She was stunning looking, had her own jugs and looked sensational. I won a watch last night.
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That's the second time in two days I've heard that saying and I hadn't heard it in years. Amounts to saying you've won the lottery Roxie lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't say that. I came on here to try new things. I've ticked one box with the high class escort. There's a long list of things to try.
At 150 and hour.....she wasnt that high class!!
She was stunning looking, had her own jugs and looked sensational. I won a watch last night.
That's the second time in two days I've heard that saying and I hadn't heard it in years. Amounts to saying you've won the lottery Roxie lol"
Pmsl...my version is much better lol |
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I wouldn't say that. I came on here to try new things. I've ticked one box with the high class escort. There's a long list of things to try.
At 150 and hour.....she wasnt that high class!!
She was stunning looking, had her own jugs and looked sensational. I won a watch last night.
That's the second time in two days I've heard that saying and I hadn't heard it in years. Amounts to saying you've won the lottery Roxie lol
Pmsl...my version is much better lol "
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By *rown eyes 8Woman
over a year ago
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"It was safe .It's not hurt anyone that we know of. It's the OPs money and his choice. As said in a similar post . Many people would class what we do as swingers as vile and disgusting, just as much as paying for sex with someone might be to some of the forum posters.
Who are any of us to judge when someone is happily experiencing something he wanted to do.
Good on you for ticking something else off your list and enjoying yourself.
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Well said........... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I must say, I struggle to understand the mentality of wanting to pay for sex in most situations - one of my favourite things about sex is the lust and the passion that comes from wanting each other badly, I can't imagine you're getting that if the other person is only getting intimate with you because you gave them some money to fake their enjoyment.
Kudos though, you sound very pleased with yourself... |
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over a year ago
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think it would be quite frightening if you equated everything in the sex industry down to numerical figures. ive in no way researched this but imagining for instance a city like Glasgow.
not going to use the P word so will say for argument sakes it has 150 escorts ???? that about right ?? don't know but if there is and they have an average of 2 clients a day that is 300 paying customers per day which is 9000 per month. would imagine regular clients only see their escort maybe twice a month which suggests there is upwards of 4500 regular users of escorts in Glasgow. these are just figures im imagining in my head but I think im probably thinking on the conservative side.
point im trying to get across probably poorly is theres are a helluva lot of guys here on fab, at your work place and in your street that use the services of escorts and you will very rarely find out exactly who |
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"I must say, I struggle to understand the mentality of wanting to pay for sex in most situations - one of my favourite things about sex is the lust and the passion that comes from wanting each other badly, I can't imagine you're getting that if the other person is only getting intimate with you because you gave them some money to fake their enjoyment.
Kudos though, you sound very pleased with yourself..."
Maybe it was just a shag he wanted without the passion? ..maybe it was the act of paying for something that for most find people a bit off putting maybe for him thats what he found as the turn on, like a kid in a sweetie shope picking the sweets only he picked him woman and paid for it lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Good for you for doing something you wanted. As one other said she's probably more safety minded than some women on here.
I'm not really looking to meet but it wouldn't put me off honesty is an attractive feature in its own right.
Also if a female posted she had paid a male escort would some comments be different?
I totally would if I had the money to spare.
Also if I had the confidence, body and time I'd not rule out escorting either. I've had some terrible encounters why not be paid. |
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each to their own. don't reckon anyone should be criticising someone for their personal choices. however my only question on this is why then come a tell a forum about it. ? I mean its like practically guaranteeing at least one person will criticise and be disgusted. etc.. perhaps its guilt. perhaps a bit of criticism is wanted. tis possible. - sigh its so early im trying to psychoanalyse the forums now... im going back to bed |
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
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"each to their own. don't reckon anyone should be criticising someone for their personal choices. however my only question on this is why then come a tell a forum about it. ? "
Because he is trying to be controversial...
I personally dont believe a word of it.....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I believe the term is "You don't pay them for sex, you pay them to leave". 
Speaks a man with no experience of such things
Money up front mate "
Hence why I said "I believe the term is"... Just heard it through the grapevine of course lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is it not illegal to pay for sex in this country? hence why you pay for time or companionship it whatever bullshit to keep it legal lol
Not passing judgement on anyone far from it but feel if went down this route I would lose a lot of female friends in here that's my input lol
And am a tightarse LOL |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I believe the term is "You don't pay them for sex, you pay them to leave".
What are you paying for if you go to their home/place of work?"
May I add I don't pay for anything here.. lol |
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over a year ago
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"Is it not illegal to pay for sex in this country?
No....
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Excuse my ignorance I assumed it was or is it just kerb crawling lol what is the definition of soliciting then ? Not my area if expertise lol |
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
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Excuse my ignorance I assumed it was or is it just kerb crawling lol what is the definition of soliciting then ? Not my area if expertise lol"
Only illegal to solicit in a public place.....kerb crawlig, pimping, pandering and running/owning a brothel....
NOT my area of expertise either....GOOGLE is my friend |
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Excuse my ignorance I assumed it was or is it just kerb crawling lol what is the definition of soliciting then ? Not my area if expertise lol
Only illegal to solicit in a public place.....kerb crawlig, pimping, pandering and running/owning a brothel....
NOT my area of expertise either....GOOGLE is my friend "
And I'm sure if the prostitute has been forced into doing it, the person who pays for her services is held somehwat responsible and can be charged whether they knew about it or not |
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
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And I'm sure if the prostitute has been forced into doing it, the person who pays for her services is held somehwat responsible and can be charged whether they knew about it or not"
If they paid a third party for it....then it falls under the pimping/pandering.....so yeah, they would be held responsible.... |
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over a year ago
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Excuse my ignorance I assumed it was or is it just kerb crawling lol what is the definition of soliciting then ? Not my area if expertise lol
Only illegal to solicit in a public place.....kerb crawlig, pimping, pandering and running/owning a brothel....
Opening a can of worms lol
So all above board as long as behind closed doors lmao no wonder lawyers make a fortune exploiting the law lol
NOT my area of expertise either....GOOGLE is my friend "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"each to their own. don't reckon anyone should be criticising someone for their personal choices. however my only question on this is why then come a tell a forum about it. ?
Because he is trying to be controversial...
I personally dont believe a word of it.....
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Others see it as controversial, I personally don't see it that way.
Believe it or not, it's your choice.
It has improved my incoming mail from would be swingers interested in meeting me.
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
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Others see it as controversial, I personally don't see it that way.
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Really?
So saying "Another controversial post awaits you sexy Fabbers" on another thread had nothing to do with this one.... |
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
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"each to their own. don't reckon anyone should be criticising someone for their personal choices. however my only question on this is why then come a tell a forum about it. ?
Because he is trying to be controversial...
I personally dont believe a word of it.....
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what she said |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I paid for a ride last night. Top notch, a rare time was had by me and a great performance from the paid co star.
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what were you hoping to acheive with this post? lol |
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