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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So it seems like there are lots of reasons why people do this. I wouldnt judge as I did it myself many years ago.
There are also lots of people who mention they will not meet people in that situation. Equally I understand why.
However how do we know that when people say they are single.. they really are?
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By *rown eyes 8Woman
over a year ago
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"So it seems like there are lots of reasons why people do this. I wouldnt judge as I did it myself many years ago.
There are also lots of people who mention they will not meet people in that situation. Equally I understand why.
However how do we know that when people say they are single.. they really are?
Because folk choose not to tell,for whatever reason really!
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"So it seems like there are lots of reasons why people do this. I wouldnt judge as I did it myself many years ago.
There are also lots of people who mention they will not meet people in that situation. Equally I understand why.
However how do we know that when people say they are single.. they really are?
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You dont we all have the ability to know when people are being dishonest but some are so cunning in disguising they are attatched or married that for some its almost impossible to know, but for many when they do get found out the signs were always there ...always go with your gut instincts .
I apparently have a pretend husband you know  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So it seems like there are lots of reasons why people do this. I wouldnt judge as I did it myself many years ago.
There are also lots of people who mention they will not meet people in that situation. Equally I understand why.
However how do we know that when people say they are single.. they really are?
Because folk choose not to tell,for whatever reason really!
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maybe I to trusting but my philosophy is we on a swinging site and so if you ask someone are they single they would give an honest answer otherwise what is point in playing because it cheating is cheating in any context that his.her partner does not know or give approval for or maybe even though I on a swinging site i still have a certain code of conduct that I abide by |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The sites full of folk playing away
Iv gave up caring long ago
Its up to the individual to meet whoever they want?
X"
i gettin the idea that on here a lot of people cynical ? Me from a personal point of view i couldn't meet anyone with profile bored housewife/ or boyfriend girlfriend not understand my needs etc ..but each to their own and wouldn't think bad of folk who do .just for me I would end up being sheet in bed because I think I would be doing something wrong  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So if beyonce or whoever chick you fancy said right boy...tonights your Lucky night....and you knew they had a bf or husband ...you would say no ta?"
100% yes know that a hard thing tobelieve but if I have sex with anyone not just on here I want to enjoy and let the lady get the best of me that is something I couldn't do without a clear conciounce ...strange but true  |
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"So it seems like there are lots of reasons why people do this. I wouldnt judge as I did it myself many years ago.
There are also lots of people who mention they will not meet people in that situation. Equally I understand why.
However how do we know that when people say they are single.. they really are?
You dont we all have the ability to know when people are being dishonest but some are so cunning in disguising they are attatched or married that for some its almost impossible to know, but for many when they do get found out the signs were always there ...always go with your gut instincts .
I apparently have a pretend husband you know "
I heard that you have three husbands littered all over the place  |
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"So it seems like there are lots of reasons why people do this. I wouldnt judge as I did it myself many years ago.
There are also lots of people who mention they will not meet people in that situation. Equally I understand why.
However how do we know that when people say they are single.. they really are?
You dont we all have the ability to know when people are being dishonest but some are so cunning in disguising they are attatched or married that for some its almost impossible to know, but for many when they do get found out the signs were always there ...always go with your gut instincts .
I apparently have a pretend husband you know
I heard that you have three husbands littered all over the place "
ohhh my god really no well i can set the record straight and say i defo only have the one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well I'm a scratcher... So good luck for them explaining that away
A scratcher? My backs itchy 
I know someone with a pinwheel... That might help "
Oooh tell me more |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah think.you can.tell most attached are quite open.about it I clearly state am divorced lol. Other big give away is availability normally that catches folk out mind yiu being a shift worker my availability is all over the place lol
End of the day its your own call if yiu don't believe the person then.dont meet them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Half the people I've met haven't been single like they said, it doesn't really bother me, they have their life, I have mine. They're in the wrong not me, I'm just having fun. There are a couple people I talk to, and would still meet, that have come clean to me that they aren't when their profile states they are. We're all allowed to use the site as we wish |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"However how do we know that when people say they are single.. they really are?
They can accommodate and can meet you evenings and weekends. Lol 
typo?"
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I'm married, I've been swinging all my adult life and a few years ago, with my wife. I want to stay married.
My wife has gone off sex. She's disabled and in pain mostly during sex, she can't help it and neither can I, other than try to be understanding, but with such a high sex drive as I have, I can't put pressure on her for sex but can't stand being without the fun and buzz of it.
I couldn't tell her. I love her but want to play, therefore I want to play discretely with others of a like mind, not have an affair. Simple solution; find women who simply want NSA fun.. |
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I just wonder how people deal with married and attached at clubs and when put dogging,I've seen many profiles state no married or attached yet will go to clubs and dogging for fun can't imagine any of them asking people if they are married or attached before playing especially out dogging. |
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