I was in a very good mood when I got up this morning, until I get a message asking me when I'm meeting. I say I'm not at the moment and don't know when I will be and then get asked "Why are you still on here then?" Errrrr. Why not? I ask. Told no point if I'm not meeting. There is a bloody good reason why I'm not meeting just now which close friends now about, but does being on here mean I HAVE to meet? I've made a lot of friends over the years and I like to chat, look at the forums and have a giggle. I don't need to explain myself to people surely? What are my forumites' thoughts on this?
Very unhappy, frustrated and down in the dumps Goddess. |
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
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Dess, you've been here long enough to know that some people have very set rules on why people should be on fab and that if you don't fit their rules then you must be wrong. Likewise, you know that loads of people go through phases of meeting and not meeting.
So just ignore the ignorant twats and smile again - it's nearly the weekend   |
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"Dess, you've been here long enough to know that some people have very set rules on why people should be on fab and that if you don't fit their rules then you must be wrong. Likewise, you know that loads of people go through phases of meeting and not meeting.
So just ignore the ignorant twats and smile again - it's nearly the weekend "
I know Andy, but it just really pissed me off. I have a good reason why I'm not meeting just now, but why should I have to explain myself? I just needed to vent my frustration. He's blocked too! lol |
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
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"Dess, you've been here long enough to know that some people have very set rules on why people should be on fab and that if you don't fit their rules then you must be wrong. Likewise, you know that loads of people go through phases of meeting and not meeting.
So just ignore the ignorant twats and smile again - it's nearly the weekend
I know Andy, but it just really pissed me off. I have a good reason why I'm not meeting just now, but why should I have to explain myself? I just needed to vent my frustration. He's blocked too! lol "
That's the dess I know!  |
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"Dess, you've been here long enough to know that some people have very set rules on why people should be on fab and that if you don't fit their rules then you must be wrong. Likewise, you know that loads of people go through phases of meeting and not meeting.
So just ignore the ignorant twats and smile again - it's nearly the weekend
I know Andy, but it just really pissed me off. I have a good reason why I'm not meeting just now, but why should I have to explain myself? I just needed to vent my frustration. He's blocked too! lol
That's the dess I know! "
I have now resumed normal service thanks to lots of lovely friends on here. That's why I am still on Fab!!! SO THERE!  |
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By *araidWoman
over a year ago
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Oh don't you know that the meet-police expect answers? They aim to rule the forum and WILL be noticed....... yeah right. You do what you want and stick your tongue out at those who disapprove.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You have no control over what messages you receive. (barring the block button of course)
You have however control over how you re-act to them.
Amateur physco-babble over. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i got the same when some one asked in chta what was i hiding because profile was hidden,i ssid its because i not meeting at moment and they asked why i was still on site if not meeting |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry your day got off to such a bad start....ive noticed that the most annoying messages are generally waiting for you in the morning. Whats that about? As others have said...nobodys business but your own what you do or dont do on fab. Blow them a big raspberry and carry on regardless!! xx  |
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There seem to be a lot of very opinionated people on here these days who get very upset when you won't meet at the drop of a hat or god forbid it takes longer than 5 minutes to reply to a message. Unfortunately some of us have lives which have a habit of getting in the way. Best option ignore and move on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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SSG I had it last week hun. As others say above. Its your profile so you use it how YOU see fit. Its no ones business but yours what you do and why.
Jinty I agree it seems like they set their alarms for it in the morning to try and ruffle some feathers. My latest is just give me your number and we can chat as I'm gonna be driving or can't get a signal. Try a big NAWWWWW ...
I'm not letting anyone upset me this week , no matter how hard they try .
So rasperries to all the folk that don't like me , my choices,profile or lifestyle |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh goody a ranting thread.....where do I start?
Couples that mail looking for me to give the hubby a cheap thrill?
The fancy a fuck message?
The what are you into message?
The I'm looking for a mistress message
Yep, the good old here's ma cock message
The I'm 366 miles away, but I'll meet socially message
The I'm passing through Dundee soon message
My lorry's parked nearby message
The saving grace that in amongst the drivel and shite is the odd gem...and most of these gems are now good friends.
I ignore a lot now and my block list is getting bigger by the day...fuck em all I say, life's too short!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Reading through this i will save my rant as seems ebb n tide are the variables see lots of 180 points of view pmsl  "
Don't think I've had a good rant in a long time...felt good lol |
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I very rarely rant as I don't see the point. The fact it was the last in a long line of difficulties was the breaking point. However, my Fab friends have reminded me why I stay on the site. Had a good giggle. Thank you |
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I get a fair few messages calling me a time waster. My view on it is that I'm being clear about my intentions (or lack of) and thus anyone who goes out of their way to send me a message with their stupid opinion is not only a time waster on their own watch, but also wasting my time too.
This place is full of imbeciles |
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"I get a fair few messages calling me a time waster. My view on it is that I'm being clear about my intentions (or lack of) and thus anyone who goes out of their way to send me a message with their stupid opinion is not only a time waster on their own watch, but also wasting my time too.
This place is full of imbeciles "
Your only a time waster cause you haven't met me yet!!
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"I get a fair few messages calling me a time waster. My view on it is that I'm being clear about my intentions (or lack of) and thus anyone who goes out of their way to send me a message with their stupid opinion is not only a time waster on their own watch, but also wasting my time too.
This place is full of imbeciles
Your only a time waster cause you haven't met me yet!!
x"
I. Will. Destroy. You. |
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"I get a fair few messages calling me a time waster. My view on it is that I'm being clear about my intentions (or lack of) and thus anyone who goes out of their way to send me a message with their stupid opinion is not only a time waster on their own watch, but also wasting my time too.
This place is full of imbeciles
Your only a time waster cause you haven't met me yet!!
x
I. Will. Destroy. You. "
Grrrrrrr you know I hate that woman!! Don't make me pimp slap you lol  |
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
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"I get a fair few messages calling me a time waster. My view on it is that I'm being clear about my intentions (or lack of) and thus anyone who goes out of their way to send me a message with their stupid opinion is not only a time waster on their own watch, but also wasting my time too.
This place is full of imbeciles
Your only a time waster cause you haven't met me yet!!
x
I. Will. Destroy. You.
Grrrrrrr you know I hate that woman!! Don't make me pimp slap you lol "
Ladies ladies - don't fight, wrestle |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I get a fair few messages calling me a time waster. My view on it is that I'm being clear about my intentions (or lack of) and thus anyone who goes out of their way to send me a message with their stupid opinion is not only a time waster on their own watch, but also wasting my time too.
This place is full of imbeciles
Your only a time waster cause you haven't met me yet!!
x
I. Will. Destroy. You.
Grrrrrrr you know I hate that woman!! Don't make me pimp slap you lol
Ladies ladies - don't fight, wrestle "
I'm going to wrestle her naked in a pool of lube. I take no responsibility for what happens to slip into her various orifices |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I get a fair few messages calling me a time waster. My view on it is that I'm being clear about my intentions (or lack of) and thus anyone who goes out of their way to send me a message with their stupid opinion is not only a time waster on their own watch, but also wasting my time too.
This place is full of imbeciles
Your only a time waster cause you haven't met me yet!!
x
I. Will. Destroy. You.
Grrrrrrr you know I hate that woman!! Don't make me pimp slap you lol
Ladies ladies - don't fight, wrestle
I'm going to wrestle her naked in a pool of lube. I take no responsibility for what happens to slip into her various orifices "
can I sell tickets |
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"There seem to be a lot of very opinionated people on here these days who get very upset when you won't meet at the drop of a hat or god forbid it takes longer than 5 minutes to reply to a message. Unfortunately some of us have lives which have a habit of getting in the way. Best option ignore and move on."
well sed  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hope everyones day improved??
Im adding my own wee rant..
Im suddenly all on my own with a night of freedom and can guarantee the most exciting thing ill do is have a bath in peace! Too darn fussy to meet or too scared to take a chance. grrrrr |
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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago
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" I have a good reason why I'm not meeting just now, but why should I have to explain myself? I just needed to vent my frustration. He's blocked too! lol "
The simple answer is......you don't have to explain yourself.!!
As you know, block and report the eejit! |
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" I have a good reason why I'm not meeting just now, but why should I have to explain myself? I just needed to vent my frustration. He's blocked too! lol
The simple answer is......you don't have to explain yourself.!!
As you know, block and report the eejit! "
steady on, report is a bit strong lol- I think the mailer was more persistent/ignorant/an eejit...but they dont appear to have given any abuse. |
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The ones that really grind my gears are the ones who seen to spot the second you come online and immediately start messaging you then get stroppy when you dont reply right away
Or worse, the ones ypu foolishly gave a number to who immediately start bombarding you with texts when you don't reply quick enough.
This site is fun mostly but some folk need to take a chill pill |
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"The ones that really grind my gears are the ones who seen to spot the second you come online and immediately start messaging you then get stroppy when you dont reply right away
Or worse, the ones ypu foolishly gave a number to who immediately start bombarding you with texts when you don't reply quick enough.
This site is fun mostly but some folk need to take a chill pill"
whats ur number again...I've asked several times today |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh, and the "whats wrong with me" messages urgh
Its not sexy"
but what is wrong with me..sakes..answer ur texts also..I can see ur in the house..stop lying! |
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Or worse, the ones ypu foolishly gave a number to who immediately start bombarding you with texts when you don't reply quick enough.
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This is why soon as I can afford it Im getting me a fab/fet fone so I can keep the horn seperate from the norm!!!! |
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By *z ThongzWoman
over a year ago
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It come back to the old respect thing , people need to realise and respect that everyone uses the site differently and not always with the same agenda as the next person, so respect and remember even if you are a meeting person whose only reason for being on the site is sex then thats your agenda , not always the same for others.
Use the site as you see fit . |
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"It come back to the old respect thing , people need to realise and respect that everyone uses the site differently and not always with the same agenda as the next person, so respect and remember even if you are a meeting person whose only reason for being on the site is sex then thats your agenda , not always the same for others.
Use the site as you see fit . "
Exactly Thongz. I wanted to say all that to him yesterday, but then thought why the hell should I have to explain myself? If that's his attitude in general he ain't going to get very far in any case! |
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