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It's probably part and parcel of a site like this. Some meets are not as good as you've hoped and some are wonderful.
Quite often you really click with someone or a couple but for some reason it doesn't take off as a fairly regular meet. That's when I feel disappointed but hey there is plenty fish in the sea and what's for you won't go past you
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"It's probably part and parcel of a site like this. Some meets are not as good as you've hoped and some are wonderful.
Quite often you really click with someone or a couple but for some reason it doesn't take off as a fairly regular meet. That's when I feel disappointed but hey there is plenty fish in the sea and what's for you won't go past you
Tc xx J"
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I have a friend I have been seeing regularly for 3.5 years and it got better and better every time and I always had a dip the day after a meet. Worse now, cos the dip is a ruddy great trench because of a change in circumstances and we can no longer meet. Hazard of seeing one person regularly, even if you meet others occasionally.  |
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"I have a friend I have been seeing regularly for 3.5 years and it got better and better every time and I always had a dip the day after a meet. Worse now, cos the dip is a ruddy great trench because of a change in circumstances and we can no longer meet. Hazard of seeing one person regularly, even if you meet others occasionally. "
You obviously got very emotionally attached to him. We are all made differently but I can empathise with you.
True friendship is very hard to find. Usually there is a way around it even if you can't meet nearly as often. Sounds as tho it was too difficult or perhaps he didn't feel quite as you did. You do eventually move on and there is plenty fish in the sea xx J |
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"I have a friend I have been seeing regularly for 3.5 years and it got better and better every time and I always had a dip the day after a meet. Worse now, cos the dip is a ruddy great trench because of a change in circumstances and we can no longer meet. Hazard of seeing one person regularly, even if you meet others occasionally. "
You obviously got very emotionally attached to him. We are all made differently but I can empathise with you.
True friendship is very hard to find. Usually there is a way around it even if you can't meet nearly as often. Sounds as tho it was too difficult or perhaps he didn't feel quite as you did. You do eventually move on and there is plenty fish in the sea xx J |
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"I have a friend I have been seeing regularly for 3.5 years and it got better and better every time and I always had a dip the day after a meet. Worse now, cos the dip is a ruddy great trench because of a change in circumstances and we can no longer meet. Hazard of seeing one person regularly, even if you meet others occasionally.
You obviously got very emotionally attached to him. We are all made differently but I can empathise with you.
True friendship is very hard to find. Usually there is a way around it even if you can't meet nearly as often. Sounds as tho it was too difficult or perhaps he didn't feel quite as you did. You do eventually move on and there is plenty fish in the sea xx J"
External circumstances forced the change. Love him to bits, but only as a FWB. Think we would drive each other nuts with anything else lol. It's why the friendship worked. Ah well, on to pastures new and the excitement of meeting new people!  |
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I get blues slightly after a meet. If it was crap you think waste of time. If it was great you know it was highly likely the first and last time.you will meet.
And you start trawling all over again.......
Gets a bit monotonous hence I have taken a back seat for a wee while.... |
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