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is 18 young to start swinging??
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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right i dont know if it is just us,
were 31/32 and have had messages from very young cpls, but for us i dont know if it would feel right bein with someone so young, not there is anything wrong with doin it at any age,
for us we have been together since we were 15/16, and have chatted to few young cpls that have just got together and started swinging straight away, it took us 5 yrs to get the balls to it,
what are your thoughts on it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally we think it is a tad young but each to their own. Swinging as a couple needs to be built on firm trust and very solid relationship which is built over time. We have been together froma very young age too and were too busy with each other to even think about swinging. But as i said earlier each to their own and if thats what they have choosen we wish them well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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hmm i had a meet with a couple who were 18 and as im only 25 i still felt really weird about it all for me they were just a bit too young and inexperienced and also as mentioned think there has to be a strong relationship there and for me that can only be built over a long period of time , and BOTH parts have to know and be fully involved for me , trust is an issue too , this particular couple broke up not long after the meet i still feel a bit guilty about it , would not have minded if they said it was not for them , so yeah to summarise i think for me 21 and above is ok if they been together for a while and trust each other . |
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its hard enough having fun, when you are that young and discovering what you like, so why the hell start swinging.
we all believe we are grown up at that age but think it would ahve been too young for me and i was a virgin till i was 18 and half
saying that you will ahve lots of time to thicken your skin and suss out the timewasters lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Without question 18 is far too young for swinging.
Swinging is something that many of all different ages still cant come to terms with.
As a single swinger it can pose its own issues..but as a couple..its a minefield that demands love, committment, understanding, no jelousy and a genuine wilingness and desire to share all the physical and mental delights that this sexual journey can offer.
Someone of 18 has barely experienced life. Indeed adult life has only just begun.
Thats not to say they should not enjoy sex in all its forms and wonders but my own opinion is that swinging is for adults and not those who have just gotten the key to the door.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree 18 is very young.....but i suppose each individual is different but for us we wouldnt play with anyone that young.
Also another point and dunno if anyone agree..........the older ya get the better sex and fun gets......another reason not to do youngies. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i agree jo as i feel the older you get the more comfortable you are with yourself and telling others what you like /dont like.
as for the 18 being too young i would defo agree i think fab shld have a age limit to 21 at the very lowest.
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yea me too 18 is far too young to be swinging it would remind lots of there own children as my own son is 18 well thats my view anyhow and also i like the exp not wanting to start teaching a young person to shag lol prob said too much already could write a book on this title
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I sorta feel like a hypocrite with my opinion on this, as i too think that 18 is too young.
However, i dont agree that 18yr olds do not know what they are doing, you only have to look at the teen pregnancy stats to see how young 'children' are having sex.
ok, maybe that just proves that they dont know what they are doing - bad example lol.
Anyway, joining the site after just turning 23, i somewhat feel i am still placed in the young catagory...
How young is too young for the site? Or do you think it just depends on the individual?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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agree n disagree on this one we all have the rite to do what we want but some of the young ones on here just dont look 18 and could get peeps in trouble with this how do u know when there a stated age not that i will ever meet any but some do xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Got kids older than a lot of you out there.
Biologically I can be grandfather to an 18yr old so a bit mmmm nnot sure for me.
Saying that I was married at 18 and had a kid at 19 so who am I to judge |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ohhhhhhhhh no zoe hun i couldnt i hae a son older that 18 an me i personally think that at 18 you shud still be out with mates an clubbing lots of free an willing memebrs in clubs to take home an offer yer lad or girlfriend up
but i think its always the same answer you do recieve from them when u say no ty ... but i like the older woman she can teach me so much more lol
llf most younger peeps cud prob teach us a little more but i still set my age at 26 as i know i cudnt do younger xx |
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well tbh i dont think 18 is too young, i may not have been on swigning sites for the whole time but i was 19 and my ex was 18 when we first started swinging and it done us no harm at that age. as for we "younguns" need teaching well thats just crap. personally i think its all about wether the person or ppl in question are mentally mature enough to be on here and less to do with how long they have been alive. i may not be the best lover in the world and yea i prob do learn a little more from evry meet but dont we all? or do u just reach a certain age and thats it u know evrything there is to know?
age is but a number, and to prejudge some1 because of this is rather appauling and a form of discrimination which i have suffered for a long time.
hope i dont offend any1 by this but u know what we are all entitled to our opinions, i just have a different one from the majority on this topic i suppose |
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"well tbh i dont think 18 is too young, i may not have been on swigning sites for the whole time but i was 19 and my ex was 18 when we first started swinging and it done us no harm at that age. as for we "younguns" need teaching well thats just crap. personally i think its all about wether the person or ppl in question are mentally mature enough to be on here and less to do with how long they have been alive. i may not be the best lover in the world and yea i prob do learn a little more from evry meet but dont we all? or do u just reach a certain age and thats it u know evrything there is to know?
age is but a number, and to prejudge some1 because of this is rather appauling and a form of discrimination which i have suffered for a long time.
hope i dont offend any1 by this but u know what we are all entitled to our opinions, i just have a different one from the majority on this topic i suppose"
the thing is most folk are saying that they are not comphy with the age. and i agree 18 is young when you think that most will have kids of that age. and yes im sure that an 18 yo might have better things to do or folk to meet BUT on a social side 18 is the same as 78 its just a number would i shag my daughter (if i had one) NO . would i talk to them yes.
if you look at most profiles you can see we all have age ranges that we are comphy with and i think most folk would respect those, the the younger folk would get the hint and find their own age group to enjoy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if they sorted as a couple .... comfortable with boundaries and BOTH want to do it.... hey, their business.
I personally wouldn't meet NOT THAT THEY WOULD WANT TO SHAG AN AULD FOGGY LIKE ME ...... 25 plus is cool tho lol.
altho I am kinda uncomfortable when I see profiles with older 40ish guys and very yung girls.. ( hey only my issue, not judging )
I saw a profile a while back ....
guy in forties .... and bi
girl 18ish ......
and he wanted her gangbanged her bareback ..
that sent a shiver down my spine, more for him getting cock me thought and putting a girl's life at risk ... and many others as the guys would prob be married/ gf's etc etc ...
anyway got off point slightly....
have fun all xxxxx |
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i think fab should think about setting up a seperate room for say 18 to 24 yr olds would stop all the controversy over the age thing just a thought.......
i would defo speak to younger ppl but would never play with anyone that young tho just personal choice ......
luv jacs
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