i suppose we are all here for different reasons, personally it depends on what you are looking for, if it was just a matter of having sex with a member of the opposite sex, then ladies of the night have been providing that service long before the web ever got involved, and you get what you pay for. just because ppl are on the site, doesnt mean they will even get to meet for coffee, never mind having fun. the life style choice is a poignant question as well, as personally i dont like getting business mixed up with pleasure as it only causes hassle (i am an entertanier), and as i work every weekend, going out on the pull isnt an option, but there are ladies / couples who have contacted me to have fun with their wives, for various reasons, disability, inability, extra spice, their kink, seeing their partner fantasies realized and just some good old fashioned fun.
no idea what a hardened swingers would be, but at least you know they wont muck you around, if all the parties are interested then you might have fun, compared to ppl that are timewasters.
with regards to face pics on profiles, if someone recognises you, why would they tell you spouse, after all they are swingers as well and are here for the same reasons, i know some ppl are discreet, with fegards to jobs, but you can always edit a picture a little bit if you were worried,
anyway hope you have wherever you find it |
