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So i approach a girl in my class last night fancy a movie thanks but no thanks have a boyfriend cool no harm done. Beyond leaving it for a few months and maybe going for it again-probably till may june ie the end of term so if i do come across as overly keen we wont see each other till september anyway any thoughts? Does the female of the species sometimes tell a porky saying shes spoken for just to get rid of the guy or perhaps has just had a shitty day and cant be arsed at that exact moment in time with a dude sniffing about her? |
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By *andACouple
over a year ago
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I don't think it would be wise to ask her again. Even if she doesn't have a boyfriend and is lying, she's still doing it as she doesn't want to go out with you. It's an easy excuse for us girls to use. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So i approach a girl in my class last night fancy a movie thanks but no thanks have a boyfriend cool no harm done. Beyond leaving it for a few months and maybe going for it again-probably till may june ie the end of term so if i do come across as overly keen we wont see each other till september anyway any thoughts? Does the female of the species sometimes tell a porky saying shes spoken for just to get rid of the guy or perhaps has just had a shitty day and cant be arsed at that exact moment in time with a dude sniffing about her?"
maybe she does have a boyfriend 
maybe she doesnt, but doesnt want to offend or upset you 
best advice, accept that shes not interested in you in a romantic or sexual way but you can still be a friend and hope the situation changes.however your plan above sounds a wee bit obsessive and stalkerish. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe its exactly as she says and isn't available or interested 
Why wouldn't you take what she says as the truth?? Sorry but on a site like this it doesn't leave a good impression.
Does that mean if you meet someone who you like and say "i fancy some fun with you " and she says no thanks, that you're actually thinking hmm I think she may be lying and indeed does want to have fun with me ??
Take the knock back and accept it would be my advice  |
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Its ok ive just facebooked her other half telling him its over, theres a new man in town and im taking no prisoners. I dont wanna be a homewrecker but sometimes a guys gotta do what a mans gotta do. Theres now 3 people in this relationship buddy; a ring dont mean a thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe its exactly as she says and isn't available or interested
Why wouldn't you take what she says as the truth?? Sorry but on a site like this it doesn't leave a good impression.
Does that mean if you meet someone who you like and say "i fancy some fun with you " and she says no thanks, that you're actually thinking hmm I think she may be lying and indeed does want to have fun with me ??
Take the knock back and accept it would be my advice "
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"Its ok ive just facebooked her other half telling him its over, theres a new man in town and im taking no prisoners. I dont wanna be a homewrecker but sometimes a guys gotta do what a mans gotta do. Theres now 3 people in this relationship buddy; a ring dont mean a thing."
Aye that'll dae the trick ... she'll go weak at the knees fur ye ... |
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"Its ok ive just facebooked her other half telling him its over, theres a new man in town and im taking no prisoners. I dont wanna be a homewrecker but sometimes a guys gotta do what a mans gotta do. Theres now 3 people in this relationship buddy; a ring dont mean a thing."
this right here is the reason that guys get a bad reputation the female has told you she aint interested so you decide to cause problems in her life im sure she will fall into your arms maybe you should take a long hard look at yourself even your opening comments appear to be the work of a lovestruck child if you think this is funny or something im sure there is no one secretly laughing at such juvenile behaviour  |
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By *ilandlarryCouple
over a year ago
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"Its ok ive just facebooked her other half telling him its over, theres a new man in town and im taking no prisoners. I dont wanna be a homewrecker but sometimes a guys gotta do what a mans gotta do. Theres now 3 people in this relationship buddy; a ring dont mean a thing."
I tell you what, if you had asked me and I had said no then messaged my husband telling him this I would go fecking mental on your arse.
How dare you assume that you are in with a chance when she has clearly told you the score.
What gives you the right to message someone telling them things that aren't true? I hope that you haven't caused her major shit. I hope you sleep easy at night. What a complete wanker. |
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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago
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"Its ok ive just facebooked her other half telling him its over, theres a new man in town and im taking no prisoners. I dont wanna be a homewrecker but sometimes a guys gotta do what a mans gotta do. Theres now 3 people in this relationship buddy; a ring dont mean a thing.
I tell you what, if you had asked me and I had said no then messaged my husband telling him this I would go fecking mental on your arse.
How dare you assume that you are in with a chance when she has clearly told you the score.
What gives you the right to message someone telling them things that aren't true? I hope that you haven't caused her major shit. I hope you sleep easy at night. What a complete wanker."
Damn!! Tell Larry to ignore my last FB message 
Seriously OP, you are not doing yourself any favours either with the girl you fancy or on here for that matter!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You might have seen me on 60 minutes or in time magazine. Splitting up couples obviously. Most single guys look to meet couples. Not me. I get to pure split them up. "
Aww ok then..... |
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Lmao
All this is
Is just a sad guy who tried his arm at fab and got more knock backs than he could manage
As a result he put in his profile " a man who has nearly given up on meets and here to just chat"
In pure English ... Nobody wants me . My toys are thrown out of the pram and now I will imagine that I'm some sort of Romeo who splits couples up
Yeh yeh yeh
Grow up and get back to sleep |
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I think use of the word 'pure' in this context suggests a harmless horny teenager, all talk and no action lol
My trainee nurse from a few years back sat her national exam, and afterwards I asked her how she got on.
She said 'Great! Ah pure answered every question!'
Still makes me giggle... |
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"I think use of the word 'pure' in this context suggests a harmless horny teenager, all talk and no action lol
My trainee nurse from a few years back sat her national exam, and afterwards I asked her how she got on.
She said 'Great! Ah pure answered every question!'
Still makes me giggle..."
Perhaps I could have worded that much better |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its ok ive just facebooked her other half telling him its over, theres a new man in town and im taking no prisoners. I dont wanna be a homewrecker but sometimes a guys gotta do what a mans gotta do. Theres now 3 people in this relationship buddy; a ring dont mean a thing."
No you didn't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No its deadly serious. Her man has to accept he's sharing his girlfriend's mincepot with me."
Think the only mincepot in this thread is you my friend! Now, back under your bridge!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Step away from your computer-breath, deaply-get someone to give you a cuddle!
Then admit your a prick/fud/dickhead/wanker or maybe all off the above.
Take some time to yourself and get another hobby which doesn't involve interaction with other people, trainspotting? or the like. Have a nice life and take it easy! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Step away from your computer-breath, deaply-get someone to give you a cuddle!
Then admit your a prick/fud/dickhead/wanker or maybe all off the above.
Take some time to yourself and get another hobby which doesn't involve interaction with other people, trainspotting? or the like. Have a nice life and take it easy!"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You might have seen me on 60 minutes or in time magazine. Splitting up couples obviously. Most single guys look to meet couples. Not me. I get to pure split them up. "
want my mrs number please please split us up oops sorry I forgot shes already away  |
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OK plan A maybe wasnt a good idea. Here's plan B. I walk up to her and say:
"I'm gonna cut to the chase cos I respect you to much to bullshit you. It's over, yeah. I don't want tears that's the type of guy I am, you knew that going in. You knew it wasn't forever I said it was playtime, we had some laughs, but I CANNOT be tied down to one chick, so lets end it before you fall in love with me any deeper." Then I could give her one last kiss, that way she has something to remember me by? |
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