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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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If you only do soft swap does it stop you meeting up with full swap swingers and vice versa ? Have people respected that or tried you steer you towards more or as full swap have you suggested more with someone who stated soft swap only
does it all come down full sex in the end up, in order for it to be deemed a good meet ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Us too. We're a Hot Wife type couple for straight M(+)MF fun for Sue. Before it was soft swap, now she likes a good fuck with a guy/s. Both have been great. I can't understand the arrogance of someone who has a go at soft swap people - as long as the boundaries are clear. |
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over a year ago
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"I wouldn't choose to meet a soft swap only couple, if it happens to be soft swap in the moment then fine  "
Fair enough. As long as all know the score - that's the key  |
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"I wouldn't choose to meet a soft swap only couple, if it happens to be soft swap in the moment then fine
Fair enough. As long as all know the score - that's the key "
Agree x |
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"I wouldn't choose to meet a soft swap only couple, if it happens to be soft swap in the moment then fine
Fair enough. As long as all know the score - that's the key
Agree x"
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"In a previous profile it was said that due to the preference at the time of soft swap for us even though the profile stated it on it that the time spent chatting and mailing was timewasting to the other couple when we were clarifying it prior to a social meet    
And definitely agree that full sex is not the be all and end all when meeting others "
I wouldn't agree that was timewasting x to me a timewaster is someone who arranges a meet and doesn't show without any contact to cancel x
If others don't read your profile correctly that's there problem x |
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Soft swing only for us, we have been swinging 8 years and have never changed our minds about it.
we have had a few cpls suggesting more I very politely say no thx and continue with the fun. They always wa8 till we r in the bedroom b4 they ask but no one has ever tried 2 push us in 2 anything. But if u know me u will no that I want b pushed lol.
None of the full swap cpls we have been with have ever complained that we have left them felling cheated or short changed lol
We have regular meets with a very hot Cpl on here they are not only full swap we have lots ov differences when it comes to what we r looking for but the 4 ov us get on so well and have so much fun, there is no need 2 cut off ur noes to spite ur face fun is fun and we r fun
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very much dependant on connection as a single it tends to be about connection with the fem and will invariably be full sex not swap if attending as a couple then either for me as a great portion of my pleasure is derived from seeing pleasure not the acts themselves |
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As for boundaries, they should never be crossed without the other persons consent, and for us full swap is not the be all and end all of a meet, lots and lots and lots of fun can be had without doing full swap!!! 
