Would you shag someone just because you were horny but wernt attracted to?
For me it would be no never if there isnt an attraction or a spark it just simply wouldnt happen.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes I would, not because I'm desperate.
It might be the best shag I've ever had or it might be the best blowjob or kiss.
I agree that there has to be an attraction.
Personally, I've had sex with women that I don't find attractive but it's been great, 2 stand out in particular.
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have done it way back in the dim and distant past and whilst it scratches an itch at the time, left me feeling very empty afterwards. I much prefer to have good friends to see regularly, chat to, have a giggle and build up that rapport. Leads to very sexy, horny, sensual, fulfilling sex. mmmmmmmmm  |
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"have done it way back in the dim and distant past and whilst it scratches an itch at the time, left me feeling very empty afterwards. I much prefer to have good friends to see regularly, chat to, have a giggle and build up that rapport. Leads to very sexy, horny, sensual, fulfilling sex. mmmmmmmmm "
yes totally agree it does sometimes leave you feeling that way and thats not very nice neither is being used for sex just because they were horny  |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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Yes and I have.
I am 54 years of age, have had multiple partners and I would be a liar to say that there hasn't been someone that I have played with alone or a group that I shagged because I horny and the opportunity was there.
I mean no disrespect to them but I ain't going to lie.
But I applaud the many who say they haven't. Do I believe them all: no.
I stood behind the bar of a club where people have said no way with them, 4 wines later: shagging like it was their last ever  |
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"Yes and I have.
I am 54 years of age, have had multiple partners and I would be a liar to say that there hasn't been someone that I have played with alone or a group that I shagged because I horny and the opportunity was there.
I mean no disrespect to them but I ain't going to lie.
But I applaud the many who say they haven't. Do I believe them all: no.
I stood behind the bar of a club where people have said no way with them, 4 wines later: shagging like it was their last ever "
Alcohol is the devils work lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've shagged some real bow wows in my time but some real stunners too. Alcohol often played a part to be fair, would I do it now? no I dont think I would. I reckon I grew up eventually. Some never do of course..... |
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"I've shagged some real bow wows in my time but some real stunners too. Alcohol often played a part to be fair, would I do it now? no I dont think I would. I reckon I grew up eventually. Some never do of course....."
Also very true |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is the female version of "Any hole's a goal"?
Maybe Fab should have a "Desperation list" instead of the hotlist.Any cock will do lol"
I thought maybe "Any pole is a goal". Unless they're not Polish. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Well for me I guess that looks do play a part but there are some wonderful people out there who have personalities that far outshine the outer shell. I try to adhere to the fact that me myself am no oil painting and that some may find me attractive n some not. I don't really worry or care too much about looks in a possible playmate. Yes there does have to be an attraction of course but if that person is bubbly, funny and great to be around then why let looks affect what may possibly be a good time and a great friend. There are some gorgeous looking people on here but have the profile of being completely up themselves, so really it's a no brainer for me. Do I want to be accepted into the gorgeous camp and be like that or just be myself and if I appeal to you great but if not that's great too. Looks are over dramatised. I say we are here for adult fun so have fun, make some great friends and have the time of your life the world is ugly enough without adding to it.   |
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"What is the female version of "Any hole's a goal"?
Maybe Fab should have a "Desperation list" instead of the hotlist.Any cock will do lol
I thought maybe "Any pole is a goal". Unless they're not Polish."
for many it could still be any holes a goal lol  |
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Not had a meet in ages as not found someone i clicked with. Has to be the connection and attraction there . If not then i have perfectly great toys that scratch the itch if horny . Would i rather have a guy i can meet ....sure! Is meeting any random for a shag because I'm horny worth while ... For me no way. But if it works for others then up to them . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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As long as theres a physical attraction or something in the way you first communicate. The spark that gets it going. But if theres nothing then Ill pass. |
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In my misspent youth/ adulthood/ mature ness (delete as appropriate) I have had the one night stand to satisfy the craving at that particular time, usually drink related, but like others regretted in the morning( still done it again tho) think now I prefer a bit of a connection and banter ( and pulse) rather than the fancy a shag outlook or notches on the bed  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Accepting the premise that attraction goes beyond appearances and includes personality then no never!
Why have sex with just anyone ??? If I was going to do that I might as well charge and at least earn some ££££s  |
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"Was a party it got hot and yes I fucked a guy I wasn't attracted to and he was much much older than me......did I regret it nop he was a damned good shag lol ......"
And nop I wasn't desperate .....just all got n bothered and wanted cock lol..... |
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"Was a party it got hot and yes I fucked a guy I wasn't attracted to and he was much much older than me......did I regret it nop he was a damned good shag lol ......"
Good to taking one for the team is alive and kicking |
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"Was a party it got hot and yes I fucked a guy I wasn't attracted to and he was much much older than me......did I regret it nop he was a damned good shag lol ......
Good to taking one for the team is alive and kicking "
Haha those were the days |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd rather not prefer rapport sexual tension build up with some attraction not always to do with looks more the person they are first as it's them that wud make me feel horny |
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"Would you shag someone just because you were horny but wernt attracted to?
For me it would be no never if there isnt an attraction or a spark it just simply wouldnt happen.
whats your thoughts on this ?"
don't I know it!!! |
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Looks make no difference,its about chemistry and i believe im attracted to girls when i speak to them more than just how they look,little things like mannerisms,and sound of voice and how they sit/walk etc..... I have done it before,and yes at times it was empty,but other times it was WOW.....lifes all about experiences and you have to accept not everyone will be suited to you even if they're stunning.
To be fair the best sex ive had generally comes from respect and trust,one night quickies are never good. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In my misspent youth/ adulthood/ mature ness (delete as appropriate) I have had the one night stand to satisfy the craving at that particular time, usually drink related, but like others regretted in the morning( still done it again tho) think now I prefer a bit of a connection and banter ( and pulse) rather than the fancy a shag outlook or notches on the bed "
What he said |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If i were at a club, i would pull a good looking cheek and would shag the living days out of her. If im alone, horny and so wanted to get off, i will look online and find any girls that is available. No matter how fat and ugly she is, i would still shag her..For me its all about getting off...lol..Some have contacted me for second round but if im slightly attracted to them on the first meet then i will only meet them if i wanted to get off AGAIN and there is no good looking ones available...Now that's what u call DESPERATE FUCK with no attraction...pmsl... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm reaching 50 with a ever quickening gallop.....course I've shagged someone that I wasn't attracted to!!
Did it for the last year of my marriage "
I thought women did that (grudgingly) for the whole of the marriage? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm reaching 50 with a ever quickening gallop.....course I've shagged someone that I wasn't attracted to!!
Did it for the last year of my marriage
I thought women did that (grudgingly) for the whole of the marriage?"
No, that's just the bj's |
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