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Bi..... but play straight??
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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This one seems a bit weird to us...
We're both bi and play as such, it'd be too much temptation otherwise but there's a lot of profiles, mainly guys, that say they're happy to play straight... so what's that all about?
The flip side of it is the amount of straight guys, 100% straight! allegedly, that get in touch with us looking to meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe because there's, more often as not, a couple there. There may be an attraction say, female to female. I wouldn't want to not have a meet for Daisy if she really liked the female just because the guy wasn't Bi, hence, happy to go with the flow.
Give 'n' take and all that. Naw? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Maybe because there's, more often as not, a couple there. There may be an attraction say, female to female. I wouldn't want to not have a meet for Daisy if she really liked the female just because the guy wasn't Bi, hence, happy to go with the flow.
Give 'n' take and all that. Naw?"
Fair play, we're not sure if that's for us, just now anyway. It's the temptation.. and that goes for either half, it'd be the same if the couple had a bi guy and a straight woman. It'd be like someone waving a dairy milk in your face and telling you that you can't have a bite |
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By *ay2571Man
over a year ago
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I'm Bi, but I do on occasion play "straight" just because we are all naked doesn't mean that I automatically want to have sex with the guy especially if I know they are not into guys.
My hands haven been known to wonder though  and at other times I have had supposedly straight guys grab my cock!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe because there's, more often as not, a couple there. There may be an attraction say, female to female. I wouldn't want to not have a meet for Daisy if she really liked the female just because the guy wasn't Bi, hence, happy to go with the flow.
Give 'n' take and all that. Naw?"
Exactly!   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I would say i play straight. Im not attracted to guys i dont find them sexy but is let one suck me off or fuck me. "
You're straight but would let guys fuck you? That's clearly not straight... by definition getting a cock in the bum is clearly not straight |
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"I would say i play straight. Im not attracted to guys i dont find them sexy but is let one suck me off or fuck me.
You're straight but would let guys fuck you? That's clearly not straight... by definition getting a cock in the bum is clearly not straight "
Lolololol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's your opinion. In my opinion i would say your gay or straight depending what sex your attracted to. IM attracted to women.
"I would say i play straight. Im not attracted to guys i dont find them sexy but is let one suck me off or fuck me.
You're straight but would let guys fuck you? That's clearly not straight... by definition getting a cock in the bum is clearly not straight "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's your opinion. In my opinion i would say your gay or straight depending what sex your attracted to. IM attracted to women."
What about those attracted to two sexs'? They're not gay or straight are they. |
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i consider myself 'bi playfull'.. love women in every way but like wanking/ oral with specific guys only.. hate anal with anyone, wont do it at all.. each to their own i say.. personality is more of a turn on than looks in some cases.. ideally, a bi playfull couple is my goal on here...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There is no straight. Only fear and denial.
(That sounds like Yoda!)"
Speak for yourself. I am straight = not touching or letting any guy touch any part of my body in a sexual way. I do exist and most guys in planet earth are like me. So we don't exist for you ?!   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would say i play straight. Im not attracted to guys i dont find them sexy but is let one suck me off or fuck me.
So, you let guys that you are not attracted to....fuck you???
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Haha So fucking hillarious |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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labels labels labels.....just enjoy "
Its not lables. Its good to know your sexuality and let others know it so you can attract the right people who are sexually compatible with you. Being bi is not a lable to be ashamed of. Just be yourself and not in denial for what you are. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not interested in playing with other guys and I know that J doesn't find the prospect of it attractive in the slightest.
Having said that, I think having to apply bi, gay or straight labels is pointless. What does it matter? Why should you have to be placed into one category or the other. If you get the urge to play with another guy during a meet because it feels good and he's up for it, why does that then have to have a label applied? |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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on a site where you search for sexually compatible playmates, the selection of the correct 'sexuality' option is key to maximising the fun.
and people who declare all others are secretly bi, only continue the divide and suspicion.
better to have respect for difference and honesty |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not interested in playing with other guys and I know that J doesn't find the prospect of it attractive in the slightest.
Having said that, I think having to apply bi, gay or straight labels is pointless. What does it matter? Why should you have to be placed into one category or the other. If you get the urge to play with another guy during a meet because it feels good and he's up for it, why does that then have to have a label applied? "
So you chose to lable yourself as Straight in your profile which is missleading to others and a total lie but yet if you say the truth that you are bi its a pointless lable?!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So you chose to lable yourself as Straight in your profile which is missleading to others and a total lie but yet if you say the truth that you are bi its a pointless lable?!!! "
Why is it misleading? Maybe I'm not understanding your reply but I said at the start of my post that I'm not interested in playing with guys, ermmm, therefor I'm straight. Could you explain which part of that came across as a lie?
If you touch a cock for the very first time in a meet, just because you went with the flow and it felt like a fun thing to do, should you immediately rush home and change your sexuality? Of course not!
Interesting that this debate always invokes some strong opinions when talking about guys but funnily enough, when it comes to women being straight, bi or gay, there doesn't seem to be nearly as much of a problem. Cold it be because women are far less hung up on the issue of their sexuality that most guys? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's just a case that some people just enjoy being argumentative.
And then we have to consider the "Putin Factor". Russia brings in anti-gay laws, but look at all his macho-man antics in the media. Methinks he dost protest too much. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So you chose to lable yourself as Straight in your profile which is missleading to others and a total lie but yet if you say the truth that you are bi its a pointless lable?!!!
Why is it misleading? Maybe I'm not understanding your reply but I said at the start of my post that I'm not interested in playing with guys, ermmm, therefor I'm straight. Could you explain which part of that came across as a lie?
If you touch a cock for the very first time in a meet, just because you went with the flow and it felt like a fun thing to do, should you immediately rush home and change your sexuality? Of course not!
Interesting that this debate always invokes some strong opinions when talking about guys but funnily enough, when it comes to women being straight, bi or gay, there doesn't seem to be nearly as much of a problem. Cold it be because women are far less hung up on the issue of their sexuality that most guys?"
Now you are changing your statement. In your previous post you said : "... you get the urge to play with another guy during a meet because it feels good ...".
Now you are talking about a first time and just touching. There is is a huge difference between the 2 descriptions. If you feel the urge when a nacked guy is in the same room with you and it feels good that means you are no doubt a bi person on denial of his sexuality.
About women not getting the same comments... I have yet seen a bi woman on denial of her bisexuality on fab yet. I see only guys or true bi. They are happy to play with guys and yet they are in denial. Its not straight people who are against homosexuality but many homsexual people themselves who find it shameful to declare their own sexuality and be honest with themselves then with others. Being straight is just as a lable as being bi or gay. You are just showing the false one.
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