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how do u say no.politely?
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
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"Seriously.....
If you cant bring yourself to say a simple "No thanx" you are simply making things harder for yourself and not only wasting your time, but theirs also...."
The lady is right. Why waste your time trying to let them down gently?
Just say 'no thanks, you aren't my type' ![](/icons/s/cool.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So short and to the point is better.
Yep. And if they don't take no for an answer, just block them and move on "
I always just be honest for example "no ta your not my type" ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
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"Id like too,but don't want people thinking I'm rude."
It doesn't matter what you do, someone will always claim you are rude when most would say you weren't. Just rip off the band aid - short and sweet, to the point and don't waste your time ![](/icons/s/cool.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm relativey new on here and I've seen some of the comments people makes about others maybe that's why I'm being so careful."
Well if there is someone you don't want to Me just say no but thank you for the message if they get abusive report them then afterwards just block them |
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
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"I always reply,if someone has taken the time to message you surely it is bad manners not to at least give them the courtesy of an answer."
Sometimes people get way too many messages to reply to them all - they'd need a social secretary. Don't panic about replying to every single message ![](/icons/s/cool.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I always reply,if someone has taken the time to message you surely it is bad manners not to at least give them the courtesy of an answer."
Time? Half of them copy and paste but also as a single fem I get around a hundred messages a day as most women get do we all have time to reply to all I think not it's not being rude it's just that replying to everyone is time consuming |
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
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"I get over ninty a day that's why I'm looking for advice."
Take your time...
Look at their profile, do they meet what you are looking for? Do they state on their profile that you are what they are looking for?
Anyone outwith that, simply delete...
You are getting so many because you are new, that will die down eventually... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I get over ninty a day that's why I'm looking for advice.
Take your time...
Look at their profile, do they meet what you are looking for? Do they state on their profile that you are what they are looking for?
Anyone outwith that, simply delete...
also you could put something on your profile... if they havent taken the time to read it then they aint worth your time lol
You are getting so many because you are new, that will die down eventually..."
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"I always reply,if someone has taken the time to message you surely it is bad manners not to at least give them the courtesy of an answer."
Youve missed the point. If someone gets abusive thats when you dont reply. |
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my thanks but no thanks is on my profile,if they took the time to read it they would see it there, but even so i still get abusive emails from rude men who think its their god given right to a reply just because they mailed you.
we're not wee stupid girls and boys on here surly if you dont get a reply to an email you would take that as a no thank you? |
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You could alway be inventive. Tell them on a cold day in hell they have a chance. Or when the reach around they are offering is their own cock youll think about it. Or when they can fill all your holes with their cock similtaniously then if your desperate youll maybe think about getting in touch...
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