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flattery , compliments or straight to the point.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Okay was just wondering about this , do folk like flattery , the flirting , the compliments or would you rather have it direct and straight to the point? Does it add to the excitement of a meet or do you think yeah right its all bullshit and just being said to get the other persons kit off ? Does this put you off talking to people or meeting up with them ??
Shelley  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I try to send some good ju-ju when messaging and be polite...unless I've spoken on forums/chat and find out she's a dirty bugger and no harms done.
I'd like the same in return frankly. Again it depends on who I'd been talking to socially first
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It's been a while since I heard the Immortal phrase " Like the hair, wanna jump?" so that would probably get a reply haha  |
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By *andG4moreCouple
over a year ago
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"Okay was just wondering about this , do folk like flattery , the flirting , the compliments or would you rather have it direct and straight to the point? Does it add to the excitement of a meet or do you think yeah right its all bullshit and just being said to get the other persons kit off ? Does this put you off talking to people or meeting up with them ??
Shelley "
Lol you know you love a good flirting/ flattery session mmm and we have enjoyed a few.
Your a total flirt tart lol and it takes one to know one.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Okay was just wondering about this , do folk like flattery , the flirting , the compliments or would you rather have it direct and straight to the point? Does it add to the excitement of a meet or do you think yeah right its all bullshit and just being said to get the other persons kit off ? Does this put you off talking to people or meeting up with them ??
Shelley
Lol you know you love a good flirting/ flattery session mmm and we have enjoyed a few.
Your a total flirt tart lol and it takes one to know one.
Xx"
Yeah I've been known too lol
And I think I might have met my match !!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think that us girlies know to expect a smooth line or two on here....as much as its nice to hear it I don't tend to take too much from it.... x x x"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"But put off with couples who message for a meet without chatting tbh but only because I'm a flirt 
Geek  "
Would never meet without at least meeting socially anyway but some people are happy to do so  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But put off with couples who message for a meet without chatting tbh but only because I'm a flirt
Geek
Would never meet without at least meeting socially anyway but some people are happy to do so "
Yeah we are the same.... Most of the time lol
I'm the innocent one though
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Whats the point of being nice, giving great chat/ flirting and then being told " no kissing" you can stick anything.anywhere mind......bizarre imo"
We are the exact same with things like that. Kissing is a huge part of it . If someone said no kissing I wouldn't meet its that simple. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Straight to the point in bars also a guy will come up give me the shite patter and I'll just be saying " ok mate I know your wanting pumped wish you were honest from when you came over see Ya " |
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
In a crisp poke on the A814 |
None of the above!
Words on a screen from someone I have never met mean nothing to me...
I prefer to see how they interact with others, and the forums are the one of the best places to see that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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...............taking notes!
TBH, I'm a bit more up front in person than behind a keyboard. Folk can usually tell if you're genuinely up for it or just blowing smoke.
Plus with my face, It's a Marmite on-the-spot descision LOL!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ohhhhhhh we love a bit of flirting! Adds to the build up to a meet!
Do you ??? Hehehe "
Oh yes, and having a great meet makes the flirting worthwhile!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a tough one. At the same time some women I have read on their profile "No random friend requests" "No asking to suck you dick straight off"
Where some others are happy with the no BS about it. As a guy I personally like to flirty chat but I would like to know where it might be going rather than aimlessly flirting then nothing happens.
It's happened to me :/ |
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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago
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"I've tried everything, compliments, flattering, straight to the point, funny!! All with added face pics and STILL no one replies so I'm at a loss!!! Lol"
Sorry, but your pics won't do you any favours, cock pics don't go down too well with a lot of ladies around here!
Just a little friendly advice! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We prefer it when people are straight forward, when you can tell they've read the profile and can tell us why they'd be a good match...."
straight to the point for us to |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It does just go to show the broad spectrum of folk using the site and what different people expect. I prefer to know up front wether or not its going to happen, so I get straight to the point, the flirting and compliments can come later. As a single guy there is nothing worse than spending an age putting in groundwork only to get a KB! |
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