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over a year ago
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Of course there are cliques on here....there are in every walk of life.
Wouldn't let it worry you thou...do your own thing if that's what u want...i certainly do lol   |
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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago
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people on here have friends? Well, fuck me sideways, that must be where I am going wrong!!!!
Fab is "A" part of life, not the be all and end all and, as has been said before, people make friends. It's only natural.
Think to your own group of friends OUTSIDE Fab, do you automatically welcome a new person into your circle and include them with everything and tell them everything?
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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago
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"im not in the clique, and im not alone, am i an alien on fab then?
no you are not am just like you which makes you in my clique haha"
Careful mate, 'tomic IS ACTUALLY an alien..... 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im an alien ..im A legal alien a Scottish man on tit tinternet .
(to get the real effect sing along to the sting tune an Englishman in new York and repeat ) .. X x X  "
glad you explained that, i was trying to make it fit the twinkle twinkle little star tune  |
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By *rallvalCouple
over a year ago
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"Does anyone else think there is a clique on here in Scotland?
Unless FAB is your life you get ostracised.
And I'm not alone in this opinion. "
Define clique.
Are there groups of friends? Yes
Are there groups who actively try to exclude and control? No
We dip in and out of Fab, we have had quite a few meets, we have cammed, we have chatted, we have been to socials and were welcomed (although had to put in a little effort... we talked to people instead of waiting for people to talk to us).
We have never felt excluded, never felt that they have actively tried to shut us out, once they get going the usual suspects can be a little harder to break into but they have never been deliberately exclusive or rude.
Your experience may vary of course...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone else think there is a clique on here in Scotland?
Unless FAB is your life you get ostracised.
And I'm not alone in this opinion. "
cant say that ive noticed any cliques.
is it possible that feeling ostracised is a reflection of your state of mind ? If so i would recomend the samaritans
Then again it might just be that naebody likes ye,in which case yer fekked |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"folks form friendships on here and folks are loyal to their friends, its life "
Agree with this. People form friendships and bonds and are very protective of those things. Not necessarily a clique, just a fact of life. |
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I'm not aware of being in a clique. I have made friends on here though my constant barrage of nonsense on the forums & attending socials. But that's just getting to know people, right?
Mind you I do judge people who enjoy my posts. Cos they're shit. If you enjoy them, shame on you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not aware of being in a clique. I have made friends on here though my constant barrage of nonsense on the forums & attending socials. But that's just getting to know people, right?
Mind you I do judge people who enjoy my posts. Cos they're shit. If you enjoy them, shame on you."
you're funny.I used to be funny and then people stole my funny, I will visit your profile and bask in your funniness.I too love cake and will denounce family and friends , grandmothers etc for cake.
But erm cliques .. every social grouping is a clique in itself in some way.And as in life ( a facet of which FABS is ) there are people on your wavelength that you will click (see what I did there ?) with and those that you won't ..As everyone says, just dive in and be nice and you're on your way,worked for me when I tried it anyway  |
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you're funny.I used to be funny and then people stole my funny, I will visit your profile and bask in your funniness.I too love cake and will denounce family and friends , grandmothers etc for cake.
But erm cliques .. every social grouping is a clique in itself in some way.And as in life ( a facet of which FABS is ) there are people on your wavelength that you will click (see what I did there ?) with and those that you won't ..As everyone says, just dive in and be nice and you're on your way,worked for me when I tried it anyway "
Mmmmmmmmmmmm cake....
Sorry I got distracted there. Haha yeah click, clique, click, clique I get it. You have the same funny as me. People should feel sorry for us two  |
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By *andACouple
over a year ago
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If there is a clique would you want to be a part of it???
Gonna go against the grain here. We've had a few meets over the years and enjoyed them very much. Also had a connection with the people we've met and enjoyed their company (very much). But.....friends are people we've known all our lives, not people we've met on a website. There is a big difference between friends and acquaintaces.
I may be in the minority here but I find it bizarre that people claim to find lots of friends on here. I could be the one in the wrong though
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"If there is a clique would you want to be a part of it???
Gonna go against the grain here. We've had a few meets over the years and enjoyed them very much. Also had a connection with the people we've met and enjoyed their company (very much). But.....friends are people we've known all our lives, not people we've met on a website. There is a big difference between friends and acquaintaces.
I may be in the minority here but I find it bizarre that people claim to find lots of friends on here. I could be the one in the wrong though
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You're not in the wrong, also you're not 100% right. Each of us will make different kinds of connections in life, whether online or off it. To some, the people they meet on fab are friends, to others they are acquaintances, to others they are just a cock or pussy in the right place at the right time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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you're funny.I used to be funny and then people stole my funny, I will visit your profile and bask in your funniness.I too love cake and will denounce family and friends , grandmothers etc for cake.
But erm cliques .. every social grouping is a clique in itself in some way.And as in life ( a facet of which FABS is ) there are people on your wavelength that you will click (see what I did there ?) with and those that you won't ..As everyone says, just dive in and be nice and you're on your way,worked for me when I tried it anyway
Mmmmmmmmmmmm cake....
Sorry I got distracted there. Haha yeah click, clique, click, clique I get it. You have the same funny as me. People should feel sorry for us two "
are you two interested in a career in show business ?? I have an acquaintance who runs a freak show.... sorry i mean unique entertainment troupe, always on the lookout for new emmmm, talent, yes thats the word talent. |
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By *andACouple
over a year ago
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"If there is a clique would you want to be a part of it???
Gonna go against the grain here. We've had a few meets over the years and enjoyed them very much. Also had a connection with the people we've met and enjoyed their company (very much). But.....friends are people we've known all our lives, not people we've met on a website. There is a big difference between friends and acquaintaces.
I may be in the minority here but I find it bizarre that people claim to find lots of friends on here. I could be the one in the wrong though
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You're not in the wrong, also you're not 100% right. Each of us will make different kinds of connections in life, whether online or off it. To some, the people they meet on fab are friends, to others they are acquaintances, to others they are just a cock or pussy in the right place at the right time."
I may be old fashioned in a sense. I'm just not into declaring people I've met online to be 'friends'. I realise that some people are, and good for them, but my friendships are generally long lasting and involve people I've known for a long long time. |
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Totally understand that point of view. Personally I see no difference between selecting a person or persons to talk to online & then spending lots of time with them & selecting a person or persons from those you are thrown together with in work or education to talk to & spend lots of time with. There are of course, levels of friendship & long term friends may well be far dearer to you which is normal. |
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are you two interested in a career in show business ?? I have an acquaintance who runs a freak show.... sorry i mean unique entertainment troupe, always on the lookout for new emmmm, talent, yes thats the word talent. "
If we get paid in cake I'm interested |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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are you two interested in a career in show business ?? I have an acquaintance who runs a freak show.... sorry i mean unique entertainment troupe, always on the lookout for new emmmm, talent, yes thats the word talent.
If we get paid in cake I'm interested"
not a problem, they have a bavarian hermaphrodite cook called hans so plenty of struddle and the occasional stollen.
you would be filling in for mai tai the ladyboy who had an unfortunate accident involving a george foreman grill while making a sausage sandwich during a 2 day sambuca binge, ouch. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Le clique....c'est chic......
(That's not right is it? Was it Le freak???)
Yes friendships will always exist....and I like to think that's exactly what they are. You get back what you give. But the forum is for everyone....and no one should feel excluded. Its up to all of us to treat each other with respect and be inclusive. Group hug everyone??? |
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"Le clique....c'est chic......
(That's not right is it? Was it Le freak???)
Yes friendships will always exist....and I like to think that's exactly what they are. You get back what you give. But the forum is for everyone....and no one should feel excluded. Its up to all of us to treat each other with respect and be inclusive. Group hug everyone??? "
((((big hugs)))) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Le clique....c'est chic......
(That's not right is it? Was it Le freak???)
Yes friendships will always exist....and I like to think that's exactly what they are. You get back what you give. But the forum is for everyone....and no one should feel excluded. Its up to all of us to treat each other with respect and be inclusive. Group hug everyone??? "
Votre photo est encore plus chique :P |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Le clique....c'est chic......
(That's not right is it? Was it Le freak???)
Yes friendships will always exist....and I like to think that's exactly what they are. You get back what you give. But the forum is for everyone....and no one should feel excluded. Its up to all of us to treat each other with respect and be inclusive. Group hug everyone???
Votre photo est encore plus chique :P"
Je rougis. Vous êtes trop gentil. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Le clique....c'est chic......
(That's not right is it? Was it Le freak???)
Yes friendships will always exist....and I like to think that's exactly what they are. You get back what you give. But the forum is for everyone....and no one should feel excluded. Its up to all of us to treat each other with respect and be inclusive. Group hug everyone???
Votre photo est encore plus chique :P
Je rougis. Vous ?tes trop gentil. "
Awww merci  cela fait deux rougire ;} |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Le clique....c'est chic......
(That's not right is it? Was it Le freak???)
Yes friendships will always exist....and I like to think that's exactly what they are. You get back what you give. But the forum is for everyone....and no one should feel excluded. Its up to all of us to treat each other with respect and be inclusive. Group hug everyone???
Votre photo est encore plus chique :P
Je rougis. Vous ?tes trop gentil. "
Oh mon cher, que je suis d'accord votre photo est tr?s belle |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Le clique....c'est chic......
(That's not right is it? Was it Le freak???)
Yes friendships will always exist....and I like to think that's exactly what they are. You get back what you give. But the forum is for everyone....and no one should feel excluded. Its up to all of us to treat each other with respect and be inclusive. Group hug everyone???
Votre photo est encore plus chique :P
Je rougis. Vous êtes flop genitaile. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Clique - no... Just the same sexy crazy peeps who chat all the time. Being relatively new to all this I find their posts helpful & entertaining at times lol. But then again just my opinion |
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I'm sorry OP, but you're on a hiding to nothing with this thread. It comes up quite regularly and the result is always the same.
Those who you see as being in a clique will defend and deny it, others will side with you.
You say you feel ostracised, how? D'you mean you want to be part of this supposed clique? You obviously feel 'left out'', so what would you want people to do to make you feel included? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What's the point in bringing this subject up yet again? There are, there is, and there will be. I've noticed a change in the years I've been on and off this site. Some lead, others will follow.
Basically, if you can't take a joke, you shouldn't have joined! Just a case of getting on with your own thing. |
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
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As has already been said, you get out what you put in.
I know quite a few users who read the forums but don't post. I've seen new users get jumped on by regulars for their views but those are in the minority and I have always tried to defend their right to say what they want - even if I don't agree!
My main rule is - 'If you don't like it - don't post on it!'
I encourage everyone to post - there is no wrong way or right way, no wrong opinion or right opinion, just be yourself.
Yes, there are people who know each other better because they talk and meet away from the forum, but that's the same in every part of life.
Just post, have a laugh and enjoy
(Cake is always good though ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As has already been said, you get out what you put in.
I know quite a few users who read the forums but don't post. I've seen new users get jumped on by regulars for their views but those are in the minority and I have always tried to defend their right to say what they want - even if I don't agree!
My main rule is - 'If you don't like it - don't post on it!'
I encourage everyone to post - there is no wrong way or right way, no wrong opinion or right opinion, just be yourself.
Yes, there are people who know each other better because they talk and meet away from the forum, but that's the same in every part of life.
Just post, have a laugh and enjoy
(Cake is always good though )"
.. what he said, especially the cake bit. |
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
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"As has already been said, you get out what you put in.
I know quite a few users who read the forums but don't post. I've seen new users get jumped on by regulars for their views but those are in the minority and I have always tried to defend their right to say what they want - even if I don't agree!
My main rule is - 'If you don't like it - don't post on it!'
I encourage everyone to post - there is no wrong way or right way, no wrong opinion or right opinion, just be yourself.
Yes, there are people who know each other better because they talk and meet away from the forum, but that's the same in every part of life.
Just post, have a laugh and enjoy
(Cake is always good though )
.. what he said, especially the cake bit."
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this thread really makes me chuckle so many proclaim me no im not in clique while all the while intentionally or otherwise they are in one me i stand alone with my opinions dont actually care if my views are liked or disliked wont ever capitulate to the masses and wake up each morning im glad i aint capitulated like so many others |
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"As has already been said, you get out what you put in.
I know quite a few users who read the forums but don't post. I've seen new users get jumped on by regulars for their views but those are in the minority and I have always tried to defend their right to say what they want - even if I don't agree!
My main rule is - 'If you don't like it - don't post on it!'
I encourage everyone to post - there is no wrong way or right way, no wrong opinion or right opinion, just be yourself.
Yes, there are people who know each other better because they talk and meet away from the forum, but that's the same in every part of life.
Just post, have a laugh and enjoy
(Cake is always good though )
.. what he said, especially the cake bit.
You know I like to share my cake but not just with anyone - they have to be nice to get some "
and by 'get some' you're still referring to cake?
I'm not nice, weird and creepy about covers it. |
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
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"this thread really makes me chuckle so many proclaim me no im not in clique while all the while intentionally or otherwise they are in one me i stand alone with my opinions dont actually care if my views are liked or disliked wont ever capitulate to the masses and wake up each morning im glad i aint capitulated like so many others "
But at the same time, I've also seen you jump to some people's defence if you think they are being treated harshly or unfairly like I have - so you aren't as rebellious as you like to make out young man - there is also the nice protective side of you that comes out on here too |
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
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"As has already been said, you get out what you put in.
I know quite a few users who read the forums but don't post. I've seen new users get jumped on by regulars for their views but those are in the minority and I have always tried to defend their right to say what they want - even if I don't agree!
My main rule is - 'If you don't like it - don't post on it!'
I encourage everyone to post - there is no wrong way or right way, no wrong opinion or right opinion, just be yourself.
Yes, there are people who know each other better because they talk and meet away from the forum, but that's the same in every part of life.
Just post, have a laugh and enjoy
(Cake is always good though )
.. what he said, especially the cake bit.
You know I like to share my cake but not just with anyone - they have to be nice to get some
and by 'get some' you're still referring to cake?
I'm not nice, weird and creepy about covers it."
Of course! Did you think I meant sex on a sex site???? 
Weird and creepy works too - I don't discriminate |
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
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I always give my opinion - if it's worth giving- and if people don't like it then tough.
Sometimes I agree with people, sometimes I don't. Usually if I've got nothing good to say, I won't even bother posting as in the past I've ended up with a ban for doing so. |
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"I always give my opinion - if it's worth giving- and if people don't like it then tough.
Sometimes I agree with people, sometimes I don't. Usually if I've got nothing good to say, I won't even bother posting as in the past I've ended up with a ban for doing so. "
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"16 hours and nothing more from the OP.
I thought someone from the clique might have sent him an invitation by now. Do they not have a membership secretary?
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They do but there's a waiting list. I've been waiting to join for weeks now but my application hasn't been read yet. |
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over a year ago
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I need a job and have excellent admin and organisational skills. Can I apply for the post of Clique Secretary. I have specs and can also put my hair up in a bun...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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There is of course a clique, but there is no problem with that....
Stop whining if you are that worried about be more entertaining and get in with the cool kids or start your own clique.....
I wouldn't want to be a member of a clique who would have someone like me in it.....
A one boi wolf pack..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Whatever happened to the Posse, or whatever it was called?
Think I might be showing my Fab age with that question! "
the pussy posse still lives strong, but mostly in the main forum pages (lounge etc) not in scottish forums |
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"Whatever happened to the Posse, or whatever it was called?
Think I might be showing my Fab age with that question!
the pussy posse still lives strong, but mostly in the main forum pages (lounge etc) not in scottish forums "
I knew it was national, but never see any mention these days. |
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"Be prepared to duck.... lol
Tis a wise man who keeps his head down!!!! .....pardon? Lol. depends where abouts he is keeping his head down "
As if you didn't know tinker!!!! |
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