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Your first threesome?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I've been extremely tempted to maybe join a couple in the bedroom, but I'm not too sure on what to expect from my first time.

Does anyone want to share their first experience? Was it awkward, embarrassing, or even amazing?

Thanks y'all!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My first mff was with a guy I knew and a lady iv become great friends with, twas in her car in the snow back in like 2010 I think it was, my advice is get to know a couple first become friends then join them because iv had treesomes where its hella nervy and the pressure to play was really heavy also if you intend to have a drink dont get overly d*unk. Good luck!!

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By *UNKIEMan over a year ago

south east

My first ffm started off amazing everyone was as horny as fook ...just as we were about to get right into each other in a big way .....my alarm went off n i woke up....put a right downer on my day

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If genuinely your first one you are best to build up a rapport first. You will be more relaxed and comfortable with whats to come. Avoid excess alcohol too. Sex with pissheads is never the best idea.....

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By *UNKIEMan over a year ago

south east

" Sex with pissheads is never the best idea....."

Some of us need our meets to have the beer goggles on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We're on the other side of this being a couple. We've met quite a few other lovely couples since we joined but we only had our first threesome with another woman a few weeks ago. I (S) have to admit to being a bit more nervous than usual, think it was down to being the only guy but it was fantastic fun!

J had met the lady for a coffee previously so when she came round the second time to have some fun there wasn't any awkwardness at all. We had a coffee and a blether (it was during the day) and then headed upstairs an there wasn't any awkwardness at all. Everyone was into everyone else (as opposed to the two women favouring playing with each other mostly) so yeah, fantastic time!

If you know the couple well enough or feel comfortable enough, go for it!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Our first mff was amazing! Was with a close friend, she was over for a few drinks one night one thing lead to another and the rest is history. Ended up she'd come round every friday after that! Go for it! You'll never look back!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Cant remember mine , nerves v drink and all there was was pics to prove it happened

.relax enjoy and always set limits before hand

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

First 3sum I had was a ffm with 2 sisters when I was about 16. They were a bit older and wiser so made me feel at ease.

My first mmf was a couple where the lady was looking at her first 3sum. Met at a pub first and had a wee chat to break the ice. We had a role play scenario arranged and she left the pub to set it up. Me and him left 10 mins later and all went as smooth as could be.

Yes if you need a drink to calm the nerves don't get bladdered as it f***s it up for all.

Most enjoyable experience

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My first mff was fantastic we became good friends first and remain friends to this day. The actual day was a surprise for the male, the meet was so relaxed no pressure and lots of improvisation

have had further meets with them to date

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've been very fortunate and participated in a few mff threesomes, my first was absolutely fantastic. Lots of nerves, but was soon put at ease by both females who began playing first prior to allowing me to participate. Once we got over the initial nerves we played all night long into the next day had a sleep for a few hours and then started all over again once we woke and had eaten. Just enjoy, you will be nervous but relax take your time and make it everything you want it to be. For me there was nothing better than spending many hours with two gorgeous women who were completely at ease with each other and this led to the most amazing night of fun. Good luck and am sure you will not be disappointed.

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By *ndykayMan over a year ago

Falkirk

Had 3somes as part of a couple and as the singleton, most people have already said this but excess alcohol is a waste of time and it's much better if you get to know each other a bit first - it really does get rid of any awkwardness

Good luck and just relax and enjoy yourself

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thanks folks! So what I've taken from this so far is, don't get hammered and meet the couple before hand

Eek! Fingers crossed I don't completely cock it up my first time and traumatise a couple

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By *ndykayMan over a year ago

Falkirk

"Thanks folks! So what I've taken from this so far is, don't get hammered and meet the couple before hand

Eek! Fingers crossed I don't completely cock it up my first time and traumatise a couple

You can't 'cock' it up lol. Ask them if there's anything they'd like to try and likewise tell them if there's something you want to try. Communication is key.

And just enjoy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You've already got a verification so I assume you have a vague idea what a meet is all about but you'll be fine! Just chill, have a glass of wine, breath deeply and it'll be fantastic! When its over, you'll wonder what all the nerves were for!

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By *lamMan over a year ago

Greenock

You'll be fine, As ppl have mentioned get to know the cpl first, It takes away the awkwardness as opposed to just turning up with no idea what to expect, I'll be honest and say even at that you will still feel nervous travelling or waiting for them to arrive, But its also a bit of a buzz, Nerves are a good thing if you use them to your advantage rather than let it worry you.

Drink is fine if its a sociable drink, Loosens the tongue and relaxes you a little, Getting hammered on a 1st meet isnt gonna cover you in glory.

Good luck i hope its everything you wanted for your first time.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As most have said, get to know the couple first. I've never been with a couple but have had plenty of threesomes and they've always been friends or at least people I've been with before separately so know what to expect from them both.

Couple drinks is fine to ease the nerves just don't go mental.

Good luck

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By *iskjokkeMan over a year ago

Glasgow

Mine was with 2 friends, both girls who were friends with each other too. One night we were out and as they were flirting with me. I was pulled into their girls bathroom in a pub and they said "If we can't have you on our own, we'll have you together..!" then they both kissed me...well I was straight out the door with them, back to mine in a taxi, all over each other. The driver must have had an eyeful.