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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Why are people, especially ladies so bloody ignorant on here?
send them a very polite message and they think it's ok to send messages back to you calling you ugly. no wonder this place gets a bad name.
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
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Well I'm afraid there are lots of ignorant people on here, male/female/couples. There are also loads of wonderful people on here too.
Some don't have time to reply to 34524 messages a day so just delete. Some delete because the sender isn't their type.
I send the odd message to people I don't know once in a blue moon. I would say 70% of those lead to making a new friend. But then I am very selective.
So, block the rude ignorant ones, ignore the ones who don't reply and just keep trying.
As lots of people will tell you, be patient, you get out what you put in, try a social, try a club, maybe use the forum, maybe use chat. All different ways to get to know people
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"Why are people, especially ladies so bloody ignorant on here?
send them a very polite message and they think it's ok to send messages back to you calling you ugly. no wonder this place gets a bad name.
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Some people are very blunt and straight to the point but I think you will find most people are decent people and not here to offend .
If your offended by these peoples comments are they really people you wish to send any time with anyway ?
Just block and move on ....good luck  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are many sorts of people on fab...good guys, bad guys, sneaky guys,you just got to grow a thick skin, look for the good guys and if anyone is rude, at least remember them, and block if need be. I block most, and there's only one I've not as I'm keeping an eye on them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some guys can be rude to tho after i polielty said no thanks to a random invite to a meet the reply i got bk was ,,, hope you get aids ,,,, charming to say the least  |
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"Some guys can be rude to tho after i polielty said no thanks to a random invite to a meet the reply i got bk was ,,, hope you get aids ,,,, charming to say the least "
Think we've had the same guy messaging
But as has been said if someone is rude to you just block  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some guys can be rude to tho after i polielty said no thanks to a random invite to a meet the reply i got bk was ,,, hope you get aids ,,,, charming to say the least
Think we've had the same guy messaging
But as has been said if someone is rude to you just block "
seems he said it to a few then yeah hes blocked ,,, |
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By *nnyMan
over a year ago
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"Why are people, especially ladies so bloody ignorant on here?
send them a very polite message and they think it's ok to send messages back to you calling you ugly. no wonder this place gets a bad name.
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Maybe, just maybe, some of these 'ladies' aren't female at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry are we meant to be polite to people? I didn't get the memo...
In all seriousness, if someone says something you don't like or vice versa just block and move on. I get hundreds of messages, with me sending a polite 'no thanks' and has ended with 'i wouldn't fuck you anyway' 'you're fat' etc etc, so men aren't any better.. I've gotten to the point where I just don't reply to people I'm not interested in  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I for one would never be rude in a pm, especially not to you, Boabies, as you're bigger than me, and I don't want a doing.  "
I don't hit the elderly... |
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"I for one would never be rude in a pm, especially not to you, Boabies, as you're bigger than me, and I don't want a doing.
I don't hit the elderly... "
So does that mean you'll be gentle with me?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we cant count the number of messages we receive so there is no way we can answer them all. We answer the people we think are on our radar and who we think we would like to meet. Some people are absolutely terrble making absolutely disgusting remarks after we have declined their offer. So its block and move on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I for one would never be rude in a pm, especially not to you, Boabies, as you're bigger than me, and I don't want a doing.
I don't hit the elderly...
So does that mean you'll be gentle with me? "
Don't push it..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"its just the normal for here mate because of the fast amount of guys to women but there again would you really want to meet some of them on here or are you one of the desperate club lol"
i'm sorry, but why stay if you feel that way? i'm guessing u are referring to the ladies YOU don't happen to fancy??? |
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I would never reply with a "you are too ugly" response. I try to respond to all messages and be polite if the person isn't what I am looking for. There are a lot of really lovely people on here. Don't let the minority spoil what could be a lot of fun for you and get along to some socials! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't hit the elderly...
So does that mean you'll be gentle with me?
Don't push it..
Yer all heart,stretch!  "
It might be cold but it's still there
Just had a lovely message saying I'm a slut from some random, gotta love it eh, thank fuck I'm drinking! |
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By *yz69Man
over a year ago
Glasgow |
It only takes two mins to politely say you aren't my type or not interested etc. Better than ignoring as at least then you know what the score is and aren't left wondering if it was a bulk delete or a not interested delete. |
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By *nnyMan
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"It only takes two mins to politely say you aren't my type or not interested etc. Better than ignoring as at least then you know what the score is and aren't left wondering if it was a bulk delete or a not interested delete. "
Surely a delete is a delete. |
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I don't hit the elderly...
So does that mean you'll be gentle with me?
Don't push it..
Yer all heart,stretch!
It might be cold but it's still there
Just had a lovely message saying I'm a slut from some random, gotta love it eh, thank fuck I'm drinking!"
Can I just say that that wasn't me?!
You know I leurves ya, Boabies! |
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"It only takes two mins to politely say you aren't my type or not interested etc. Better than ignoring as at least then you know what the score is and aren't left wondering if it was a bulk delete or a not interested delete. "
Does it???
When u then get guys asking why not
You say ur not my type to them
And you get a why not to that also
And so it goes on
.......doesnt take 2 mins, especially having to do this mutiple times  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It only takes two mins to politely say you aren't my type or not interested etc. Better than ignoring as at least then you know what the score is and aren't left wondering if it was a bulk delete or a not interested delete. "
Maybe it does only two mins but when you're doing that a dozen or so times everytime you log it it gets tiresome, especially when you're profile is fairly clear you're not looking for new friends. |
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I have learnt not to send send messages out randomly to many women as I have been told by a couple of friends that they find receiving too much mail very off putting, so I keep this in mind and choose carefully who I want to get to know. Only had a few blocked  |
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"Guess we have been lucky. Never had a rude message or reply when we have declined , but have heard it happens quite regular  "
We have had it a handful of times a bit of spiteful venom but normally if we say thanks but no thanks or your not our type we get blocked lol......but hey ho plenty more fish |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like to think that for me I can take rejection and guess that if indeed a reply was of an ignorant nature I would just still reply thank you and move on.
Seems to be nature of the beast on the site but for the ones who may send an ignorant reply back then only they can justify it to themselves. Unfortunately there are a lot of single guys out there who probably push the limits with a lot of women and couples that probably causes a lot of upset, not excusing it but perhaps a reason behind it. |
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By *yz69Man
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"It only takes two mins to politely say you aren't my type or not interested etc. Better than ignoring as at least then you know what the score is and aren't left wondering if it was a bulk delete or a not interested delete.
Does it???
When u then get guys asking why not
You say ur not my type to them
And you get a why not to that also
And so it goes on
.......doesnt take 2 mins, especially having to do this mutiple times "
I wouldn't be messaging asking for a reason. I can take a hint and don't want to spoil the site for anyone. I know the women get plenty of interest and can be as picky as they like. Maybe a not interested message would stop certain people repeatedly messaging you? |
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By *ick901Man
over a year ago
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"Some guys can be rude to tho after i polielty said no thanks to a random invite to a meet the reply i got bk was ,,, hope you get aids ,,,, charming to say the least "
Would to get a thanks but no thanks lol at least it's a reply lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why are people, especially ladies so bloody ignorant on here?
send them a very polite message and they think it's ok to send messages back to you calling you ugly. no wonder this place gets a bad name.
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You have no pics! !! How do they know your ugly???? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes when your polite and say someone's not your type they are still offended and even pester you as to why not ..silly really , what do you say then y
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes when your polite and say someone's not your type they are still offended and even pester you as to why not ..silly really , what do you say then y
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If guys mail us...we reply n chat away.. if they ask to meet then we simply reply with...read our profile ya dick.....works for us |
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"It only takes two mins to politely say you aren't my type or not interested etc. Better than ignoring as at least then you know what the score is and aren't left wondering if it was a bulk delete or a not interested delete.
Does it???
When u then get guys asking why not
You say ur not my type to them
And you get a why not to that also
And so it goes on
.......doesnt take 2 mins, especially having to do this mutiple times
I wouldn't be messaging asking for a reason. I can take a hint and don't want to spoil the site for anyone. I know the women get plenty of interest and can be as picky as they like. Maybe a not interested message would stop certain people repeatedly messaging you? "
Or we can just hit delete quicker
Have we just to guess what ones are gona respond nasty or what ones are gonna try and persuade or what ones are gona keep asking why why why
It doesnt say on anyones profile, will take a thanks but no thanks and deal with it how the hell are we to know whos gona??
Simple solution, not interested = delete |
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By *yz69Man
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"It only takes two mins to politely say you aren't my type or not interested etc. Better than ignoring as at least then you know what the score is and aren't left wondering if it was a bulk delete or a not interested delete.
Does it???
When u then get guys asking why not
You say ur not my type to them
And you get a why not to that also
And so it goes on
.......doesnt take 2 mins, especially having to do this mutiple times
I wouldn't be messaging asking for a reason. I can take a hint and don't want to spoil the site for anyone. I know the women get plenty of interest and can be as picky as they like. Maybe a not interested message would stop certain people repeatedly messaging you?
Or we can just hit delete quicker
Have we just to guess what ones are gona respond nasty or what ones are gonna try and persuade or what ones are gona keep asking why why why
It doesnt say on anyones profile, will take a thanks but no thanks and deal with it how the hell are we to know whos gona??
Simple solution, not interested = delete "
Very true. I guess your solution is simple yet effective. You must have deleted most by now though? |
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By *yz69Man
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"And its also extremely ignorant for people not to even bother reading your profile
Ao should they still get a response dont think so, there you go thats half your msgs deleted in an instant "
If i am going to message someone the last thing i do before sending a message is read their profile again. Just in case i missed something the first time. |
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