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whats a guy got to do for a meet?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As one single guy to another i find best thing to do to get meets is be yourself, remember that although people on here are v sexual its not a meat market so treat people with respect and courtesy, perhaps attend one of the socials advertised in the forums letting people see you are genuine, chat in scottish chat, if see a couple or single you like look of have a good look at there profile to see if they are looking for single guys and if you match what they look for and if you do send a polite mail and just see what happens, have a laugh and just be patient never be pushy and well thats it really manners cost nothing and the results are spectacular at times  all the best. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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1.Dont stick up a meet today with no intention of acting on an invite if you get one.
2.Ditch the wee notepad loaded with "Get out of it" excuses.
3,Do be 100% available, kinda ties in with above, if your lookin for a meet but, "ohh i need to do this n that and ohh if only it was this time tommorow".
4 Try not to seem anxious,desperate,pushy,presumptuous,nor in any way twist arms to get a meet.
5.Get relevant info, dont over do the asking for contact details.
6. I personaly dont put a lot of store in chat, its a nice way to stay in touch, have a laugh and relax,but to win friends and influence people,nope, 8 yrs been playing and 2 meets have been related to chat.
7.You can cancel a meet properly,by that i mean, considerately and with thought it can be done and no "timewaster" tag will be gained, but lots do it badly to point,calling you a timewaster is,,lol,, the polite dumbed down version.
8. Simply do it properly and you and all who meet you will have mutual fun.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been on here for about a year now as a single guy and agree with all the comments above. It would probably be easier to go down to the local nightclub if you are on the pull. But just be patient, chat, go to the socials and be yourself mate. Things will start to happen for you (unless you are a complete nonentity) and the results can be awesome. But don't assume that every woman will want to jump straight into bed with you just because this is a swingers website. This isn't a meatmarket and the girls DO have high standards. And always remember, the girls are the ones in charge on here and call all the shots. We single guys are just their wee playthings....and that's why I love it!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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think it was said before, refrain from having the meet today always on the page, that shows a certain type of desperation, using it is fine, but not 24/7.
Get into the chat and on the forums, good banter = good relations x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey folks, I'm just looking for some friendly advice and suggestions on how to arrange a meet. "
Live in a part of the country where there are actual swingers who really meet always helps. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"tie a £10 note round yer knob as a wee tempter 
But that can h=get so embarrassing when you're at the Tesco checkout and you realise all your cash is still tied to your knob!!!  "
very true you may get arrested |
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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago
Livingston |
"tie a £10 note round yer knob as a wee tempter
But that can h=get so embarrassing when you're at the Tesco checkout and you realise all your cash is still tied to your knob!!! "
You get caught out again Stu?  |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
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Live in a part of the country where there are actual swingers who really meet always helps."
I hate it when people come out with snippets like the above  like there expecting it on there doorstep...
make the best of the situation...
do you go to clubs? do you go to socials? if not why not?
are you prepared to travel? because there are socials advertised for example in inverness and dundee at the moment...
if the answer is no, then you are not really doing much to help yourself then....
I do get up to scotland a lot... there are couples and singles all over the place if you are prepared to put in the effort..... |
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