Put fab to the side brush yourself down everyone has curved balls lobbed at then but you always bounce back stronger.
Sometimes the less said the better as you only confuse fuck out yourself.
Solitude and direction is what you need reading between the lines.
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"Put fab to the side brush yourself down everyone has curved balls lobbed at then but you always bounce back stronger.
Sometimes the less said the better as you only confuse fuck out yourself.
Solitude and direction is what you need reading between the lines.
Good luck "
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"Put fab to the side brush yourself down everyone has curved balls lobbed at then but you always bounce back stronger.
Sometimes the less said the better as you only confuse fuck out yourself.
Solitude and direction is what you need reading between the lines.
Good luck "
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This is going to sound brutal, it isn't meant to but man up.....
It isn't where we stand at times of comfort that defines us as human beings....it is where we stand when things are piling up that shows us what we can be....
We can all say this was how we dealt with theses situations in my life, that won't help you.....
Hence the man up... |
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Well PP and anothersissy have different ways of saying the same thing here and I agree with both no matter how brutal they may seem.
It will get better and right now you just need to earn a crust  |
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"This is going to sound brutal, it isn't meant to but man up.....
It isn't where we stand at times of comfort that defines us as human beings....it is where we stand when things are piling up that shows us what we can be....
We can all say this was how we dealt with theses situations in my life, that won't help you.....
Hence the man up..."
Maybe the term "man up" isn't quite what he needs to hear right now. That's like telling a manic depressive to pull their socks up. Yes we all go through shit and yes we all deal with it one way or another, but sometimes, being able to talk to others is the one aid we need. Positive words such as those from PP are much more helpful that "man up" - at least that's my experience. |
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"This is going to sound brutal, it isn't meant to but man up.....
It isn't where we stand at times of comfort that defines us as human beings....it is where we stand when things are piling up that shows us what we can be....
We can all say this was how we dealt with theses situations in my life, that won't help you.....
Hence the man up...
Maybe the term "man up" isn't quite what he needs to hear right now. That's like telling a manic depressive to pull their socks up. Yes we all go through shit and yes we all deal with it one way or another, but sometimes, being able to talk to others is the one aid we need. Positive words such as those from PP are much more helpful that "man up" - at least that's my experience."
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"Maybe the term "man up" isn't quite what he needs to hear right now. That's like telling a manic depressive to pull their socks up. Yes we all go through shit and yes we all deal with it one way or another, but sometimes, being able to talk to others is the one aid we need. Positive words such as those from PP are much more helpful that "man up" - at least that's my experience."
We manic depressives call ourselves bipolar these days  It's less emotionally loaded and manic depressive is generally overly stigmatised in society. But I like the sentiment behind what you wrote, find a reason to smile and be positive, even laughing once a day can make all the difference. You'll get through it, and you'll have days you are raring to go pal. Keep the chin up and don't let the bastards grind you down.  |
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Well for what it's worth I just tried to close off my mind to anything other than what I had to teach. So that's me through the first hurdle of dealing with people & teaching. Now I can go hide ha. Well, after taking one more group of students for labwork. |
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Talk to people who understand you. People will always give you advice and some of it will be helpful some won't. Take the bits you find of use and disregard the stuff you don't think will work for you. Everyone is different. Some hide some talk its down to what works for the individual but you will get throw it there's no right or wrong way to do it. Take small steps and do what feels right for you. Good Luck |
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"Maybe the term "man up" isn't quite what he needs to hear right now. That's like telling a manic depressive to pull their socks up. Yes we all go through shit and yes we all deal with it one way or another, but sometimes, being able to talk to others is the one aid we need. Positive words such as those from PP are much more helpful that "man up" - at least that's my experience.
We manic depressives call ourselves bipolar these days It's less emotionally loaded and manic depressive is generally overly stigmatised in society. But I like the sentiment behind what you wrote, find a reason to smile and be positive, even laughing once a day can make all the difference. You'll get through it, and you'll have days you are raring to go pal. Keep the chin up and don't let the bastards grind you down. "
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No one, and I mean no one who has not suffered from depression should be advising anyone who has, or is suffering. It is not a simple case of feeling down, or a bit miserable. Until you have been there, you know nothing about it. |
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"This is going to sound brutal, it isn't meant to but man up.....
It isn't where we stand at times of comfort that defines us as human beings....it is where we stand when things are piling up that shows us what we can be....
We can all say this was how we dealt with theses situations in my life, that won't help you.....
Hence the man up...
Maybe the term "man up" isn't quite what he needs to hear right now. That's like telling a manic depressive to pull their socks up. Yes we all go through shit and yes we all deal with it one way or another, but sometimes, being able to talk to others is the one aid we need. Positive words such as those from PP are much more helpful that "man up" - at least that's my experience."
I agree what I said wasn't the best choice of words, we all have different experiences.... And we are all very different people. When everyone thought I was "going through a phase" or "just attention seeking" man up would've been a soft answer I was given.....
I am truly sorry the OP is depressed but in reality no one is going to fix the issues for him, he needs to do it for himself....
Depression is a real illness, there is no stigma in it in my eyes, I battle demons on a daily basis..... How we deal with it is what defines us, I was genuinely trying to make the OP see that we fix these things by being strong inside....on that note I am taking the only good advice my father gave me which was " when you find yourself in a hole....stop digging"
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"This is going to sound brutal, it isn't meant to but man up.....
It isn't where we stand at times of comfort that defines us as human beings....it is where we stand when things are piling up that shows us what we can be....
We can all say this was how we dealt with theses situations in my life, that won't help you.....
Hence the man up...
Maybe the term "man up" isn't quite what he needs to hear right now. That's like telling a manic depressive to pull their socks up. Yes we all go through shit and yes we all deal with it one way or another, but sometimes, being able to talk to others is the one aid we need. Positive words such as those from PP are much more helpful that "man up" - at least that's my experience.
I agree what I said wasn't the best choice of words, we all have different experiences.... And we are all very different people. When everyone thought I was "going through a phase" or "just attention seeking" man up would've been a soft answer I was given.....
I am truly sorry the OP is depressed but in reality no one is going to fix the issues for him, he needs to do it for himself....
Depression is a real illness, there is no stigma in it in my eyes, I battle demons on a daily basis..... How we deal with it is what defines us, I was genuinely trying to make the OP see that we fix these things by being strong inside....on that note I am taking the only good advice my father gave me which was " when you find yourself in a hole....stop digging"
Peace out "
Sometimes what is said in our heads doesn't translate well into the type written word which is a huge problem on here sometimes. I think it is safe to say that we all hope the OP finds what is needed to get through this difficult time. |
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