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anyone breathing in Angus Angus or Tayside?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've been on and off here a few times over the past couple of of years and just wondered where all the ladies hang out? I sure as hell can't find you.
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By *nnyMan
over a year ago
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"I've been on and off here a few times over the past couple of of years and just wondered where all the ladies hang out? I sure as hell can't find you.
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There's some fine ladies in Grotty Ferry. |
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Area seems to be getting quieter by the week. I was on friday night around midnight and there were only 3 females/couples "looking" for guys. The ones are here seem to either have their regulars or have no intention of meeting anyone(Thats if they are infact the female/couple they claim to be). Theres also some who are downright rude and you wouldnt want to meet anyway. In short there are very very people out there for the majority of blokes in this area. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I get that there was a party...but I'm talking about in general. I think I've messaged every available woman out out there and 4 responded...2 not interested one way slutty and the other can't be available when when I'm available.
Ignorance seems to be high high on this site or maybe to 'groupy'....If your face doesn't fit then tough.  |
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"Your profile isn't exactly that exciting or interesting.
It would also do you good to have more pictures of yourself on your profile
Patience is a virtue. "
The reality is though that most guys dont even get their messages read let alone their profiles |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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No....I mailed her when she was 'new' and a matter of days and she has been with more guys than I've had hot dinners. Where is the ignorance in that? That's observant. |
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"I get that there was a party...but I'm talking about in general. I think I've messaged every available woman out out there and 4 responded...2 not interested one way slutty and the other can't be available when when I'm available.
Ignorance seems to be high high on this site or maybe to 'groupy'....If your face doesn't fit then tough. "
ignorance ? why so cause you fancy a fuck they should cue up for you to have your way simple if females dont find you attractive they wont want you and calling them ignorant and slutty aint helping your cause  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So what you are saying is that that my profile should divulge everything to entice you all to message me back? Has the art of conversation really died? I though a message saying 'hello how are you?' would instigate a flow of conversation as it would if in the street but clearly not.
I can fill my profile with pointless stories to drive you wild but I'd rather do it in person. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I get that there was a party...but I'm talking about in general. I think I've messaged every available woman out out there and 4 responded...2 not interested one way slutty and the other can't be available when when I'm available.
Ignorance seems to be high high on this site or maybe to 'groupy'....If your face doesn't fit then tough. ignorance ? why so cause you fancy a fuck they should cue up for you to have your way simple if females dont find you attractive they wont want you and calling them ignorant and slutty aint helping your cause "
Didn't think id asked for a queue! Just a simple response would be nice or at least converse with someone to find out what they are like before judging based on a torso picture. If the world is so vain then you are welcome welcome to it. Attraction is physically and mentally. You can't be stimulated mentally without first conversing. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Now i know why im glad i dont show my verifications ..get judged enough without adding too it lol"
Maybe so...If I was with several girls a day or even a week I'd get called slutty. Quality not quantity. Maybe both at the same time lol |
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By *nnyMan
over a year ago
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"....... Just a simple response would be nice or at least converse with someone to find out what they are like before judging based on a torso picture. If the world is so vain then you are welcome welcome to it. Attraction is physically and mentally. You can't be stimulated mentally without first conversing."
Lady Fabsters are in the fortunate position of being able, if they so choose, to out on the basis or appearance or profile content.
As has been said, you don't get a second chance to make a first impression.
If that first impression doesn't do it, it may be that nothing will. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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takes a wee while to build up a network of people that you are compatible with, you going on and off the site may give a negative impression..
please note 'may'
sometimes it is linked with drama.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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think you need a chill pill my friend, just because we indulge in the lifestyle every woman you message will not reply and certainly will not want to jump into bed with you after a message... there still needs to be an interest of some kind or attraction for them to meet you, if you seem to think its just a case of jump in n wave yer willy and get laid i think you`d do better at some seeedy nightclub or Pof.. sorry bud you seem to be too keen too forward and maybe just a bit too rude and full of yourself!! happy swinging
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Now i know why im glad i dont show my verifications ..get judged enough without adding too it lol
Maybe so...If I was with several girls a day or even a week I'd get called slutty. Quality not quantity. Maybe both at the same time lol"
might be better trying to go to a social event or two,get your face known and you might have a bit more luck |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"think you need a chill pill my friend, just because we indulge in the lifestyle every woman you message will not reply and certainly will not want to jump into bed with you after a message... there still needs to be an interest of some kind or attraction for them to meet you, if you seem to think its just a case of jump in n wave yer willy and get laid i think you`d do better at some seeedy nightclub or Pof.. sorry bud you seem to be too keen too forward and maybe just a bit too rude and full of yourself!! happy swinging
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I think km far from jumping in and waving my willie around. I have a little more respect and decorum than that. Full of myself? Why? Because I was was brought up to be respectful and to give people the time if day and not to be ignorant. Sounds like I'm full of myself eh. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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well it does seem your reluctant to listen to advice and justw ant to bite at everyones offers of help or advice..... some of us have been here a lot longer than you and know what manners and decorum are... not only in private message but aswell as in forums.... and not to put too fine a point on it... the people that leave these kinda " begging for attention" posts like you have done here are the ones who dont show the best manners... patience is a virtue...
All i`m saying on the manner so shall not be replying to any more arguments/retorts you care to post |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For what it's worth OP, and whether you like it or not, threads like this seldom produce a positive outcome.
The ladies see it and don't usually like moaners, and again whether you like it or not, that's how your post will be seen.
So take the advice given here and remember the three Ps; patience, patience, patience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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and remember, dont constantly mail someone asking why they wont meet you or sending mail like "you had a meet the other day but told me you are not meeting" smacks or insecurity and desperation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So what you are saying is that that my profile should divulge everything to entice you all to message me back? Has the art of conversation really died? I though a message saying 'hello how are you?' would instigate a flow of conversation as it would if in the street but clearly not.
I can fill my profile with pointless stories to drive you wild but I'd rather do it in person. "
I do understand where you're coming from but when I log into a lot of messages from guys that all have the same 'hello, how are you?' there has to be something in to profile before I'll respond. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So what you are saying is that that my profile should divulge everything to entice you all to message me back? Has the art of conversation really died? I though a message saying 'hello how are you?' would instigate a flow of conversation as it would if in the street but clearly not.
I can fill my profile with pointless stories to drive you wild but I'd rather do it in person.
I do understand where you're coming from but when I log into a lot of messages from guys that all have the same 'hello, how are you?' there has to be something in to profile before I'll respond. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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After reading the op's reactions to intelligent replies to his question I'm not surprised by the lack of interest people have in him. I'm sure its only going to get worse after posting such diatribe..
You my man are why a lot of folk don't want to speak with single guys.
Do us all a favour and delete your profile and forget you ever heard of fab.. And go look up the words, manners, ettiquet and decorum..   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why not use your initiative and open a female account for research purposes?
I can guarantee you'd be sick of 50+ messages a day asking "hi, how are you?"
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