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over a year ago
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Your as bad and as nawty as married guys funny enough
Although married guys on here should be
Burnt at the stake after bein beheaded, drawn
And quartered!!
Keep up the nawtness |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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male or female. Doesnt make any differnce to me. They are treated exactly the same if they are cheating on someone.
Cant stand any of the liars and make that perfectly clear to them
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"So wha aboutt those that do it with the consent of there partner.... "
Well if they are doing it with the partners consent then it's not cheating .
The point I was trying to make is the way it was worded sound to me like whoo hoo look at me I'm married and cheating on my partner ..maybe others on here who have been cheated on will understand what I mean |
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"Your as bad and as nawty as married guys funny enough
Although married guys on here should be
Burnt at the stake after bein beheaded, drawn
And quartered!!
Keep up the nawtness "
You first, then?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Cheating is cheating whether it be male or female. Definitely the one thing we won't even entertain. My opinion(devil) Everboby should block anybody they find on the site that's cheating on their partners but that's my opinion.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Loads do it and good for you for being so honest about it, loads on here are in the same boat .I have came across many a male.from a couple here cheating and a few females, you can never truely tell who is single and who is not and im sure we all have skeletons in the closet.
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"So itz cheating even if your partner knew about it and okayed it...."
I guess many would see it like that but I wouldn't see it like if one partner or the other is giving consent and know all about meets then no it's not cheating
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So itz cheating even if your partner knew about it and okayed it...."
No but if that was ever to come up for us we would won't confirmation from the partner before anything happened.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If they are being open and honest about it then its down the the person whether they want to enter into that scenario. Nobody knows what goes on behind closed doors or for what reasons people are indeed cheating, being cheated on or on here without their partners .. but I try never to tar folk with the same brush.. and I'm sure there a lot more do it and aren't honest about it than the ones who have "im attached or married" on their profiles |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If they are being open and honest about it then its down the the person whether they want to enter into that scenario. Nobody knows what goes on behind closed doors or for what reasons people are indeed cheating, being cheated on or on here without their partners .. but I try never to tar folk with the same brush.. and I'm sure there a lot more do it and aren't honest about it than the ones who have "im attached or married" on their profiles "
In total agreement on your _iew Shelley! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cheating is cheating whether it be male or female. Definitely the one thing we won't even entertain. My opinion(devil) Everboby should block anybody they find on the site that's cheating on their partners but that's my opinion. "
geez peace!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cheating is cheating whether it be male or female. Definitely the one thing we won't even entertain. My opinion(devil) Everboby should block anybody they find on the site that's cheating on their partners but that's my opinion. geez peace!!"
geez peace so am I to assume that your one of those people who condone cheating on their partners and intern are quite happy to see possibly a family torn apart. Well sorry but having been through that when I was younger and having to watch my 2 younger sisters being torn between parents never mind all the shit I had to deal with being the eldest. I just hope you never have to go through it. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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do your thing, you mention it on your profile.
people can decide to meet you or not 
you will find people's appetite for what you do significantly differs to what it would be if you had a penis and 2 testicles hanging between your legs.
enjoy
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People in glass houses and all that. The average non swinger in the street won't see much to differentiate between a swinging couple and a "cheat", so I see no reason why anyone here should think themselves whiter than white, or look down their nose at anyone.
Just think, the shoe could be on the other foot one day. |
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"If they are being open and honest about it then its down the the person whether they want to enter into that scenario. Nobody knows what goes on behind closed doors or for what reasons people are indeed cheating, being cheated on or on here without their partners .. but I try never to tar folk with the same brush.. and I'm sure there a lot more do it and aren't honest about it than the ones who have "im attached or married" on their profiles "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Each to their own its a swing site therefore I'm sure society would judge us regardless . As a single female all I ask for is honesty then I make an informed choice.. So being on either side of the fence we're damned if we do and damned if we don't ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Cheating is cheating whether it be male or female. Definitely the one thing we won't even entertain. My opinion(devil) Everboby should block anybody they find on the site that's cheating on their partners but that's my opinion. geez peace!!geez peace so am I to assume that your one of those people who condone cheating on their partners and intern are quite happy to see possibly a family torn apart. Well sorry but having been through that when I was younger and having to watch my 2 younger sisters being torn between parents never mind all the shit I had to deal with being the eldest. I just hope you never have to go through it."
No not at all that's my point stop assuming you know people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cheating is just wicked I don't care about behind closed doors shut the doors and speak or end it without making someone you once cared about look like a fool  C xx"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ppl don,t know whats goes on behind somebody elses front door so therefore cannot comment on why ppl do what they do.but i agree ppl who have partner should tell the person they are meeting that they have a partner so they can make the call.
But to said that we are bad throught to the bone and should be shot those ppl should have a look at themself and see if they are whiter than white. Oh yes am married so where do i stand to shot |
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I think most have missed the point in what the op posted and to me that looked like its ok to boast about cheating on your partner/husband/wife .
As I said if people want to cheat on here that's upto them but it should not be made a joke of and I think it was in bad taste as im sure there have been a few people on the site who have been cheated on and know what pain that brings .
I just wonder if the op would think if her partner cheated on her would she still think is was naughty of him? ...I think not he'd probably be branded the biggest B*****d that walked the earth. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think most have missed the point in what the op posted and to me that looked like its ok to boast about cheating on your partner/husband/wife .
As I said if people want to cheat on here that's upto them but it should not be made a joke of and I think it was in bad taste as im sure there have been a few people on the site who have been
cheated on and know what pain that brings .
I just wonder if the op would think if her partner cheated on her would she still think is was naughty of him? ...I think not he'd probably be branded the biggest B*****d that walked the earth."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think most have missed the point in what the op posted and to me that looked like its ok to boast about cheating on your partner/husband/wife .
As I said if people want to cheat on here that's upto them but it should not be made a joke of and I think it was in bad taste as im sure there have been a few people on the site who have been cheated on and know what pain that brings .
I just wonder if the op would think if her partner cheated on her would she still think is was naughty of him? ...I think not he'd probably be branded the biggest B*****d that walked the earth."
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Couldn't have said it better Jacs |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think most have missed the point in what the op posted and to me that looked like its ok to boast about cheating on your partner/husband/wife .
As I said if people want to cheat on here that's upto them but it should not be made a joke of and I think it was in bad taste as im sure there have been a few people on the site who have been cheated on and know what pain that brings .
I just wonder if the op would think if her partner cheated on her would she still think is was naughty of him? ...I think not he'd probably be branded the biggest B*****d that walked the earth."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been cheated on, cheated and been the other woman. Been hurt and hurt others, don't regret any of it as it makes me who I am.
Each to their own and all that jazz, no one needs to pass judgement when you don't know the situation.   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cheatings cheating if you can cheat on a partner what else are you capable off makes no diffrence if male or female"
I agree with kola. A cheat is a liar and i detest liars. Been cheated on many times. Only ever did it once myself and that was enough. But then high morals are why i am probably alone and cynical now. I can detect bull shit at ten paces! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone has their opinion but I notice a few from some that play with those that are married and cheat so its wrong for this married female to be honest and say what she does but right for others to play with married and slate , this is why I love the forums |
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By *andsCouple
over a year ago
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So many people so many opinions! ...If you know the person is married you and you alone have the option to say yes or no it really is as simple as that.
To be perfectly honest I couldnt care less who has been cheated on and hurt who has been the other woman/man in a relationship, all I care about is my relationship. I dont feel the need to pass judgement on others as has been said before NOBODY other than the people involved know what goes on behind closed doors nor should they.
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"So many people so many opinions! ...If you know the person is married you and you alone have the option to say yes or no it really is as simple as that.
To be perfectly honest I couldnt care less who has been cheated on and hurt who has been the other woman/man in a relationship, all I care about is my relationship. I dont feel the need to pass judgement on others as has been said before NOBODY other than the people involved know what goes on behind closed doors nor should they.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So many people so many opinions! ...If you know the person is married you and you alone have the option to say yes or no it really is as simple as that.
To be perfectly honest I couldnt care less who has been cheated on and hurt who has been the other woman/man in a relationship, all I care about is my relationship. I dont feel the need to pass judgement on others as has been said before NOBODY other than the people involved know what goes on behind closed doors nor should they.
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Totally agree.
We are all individual entities with individual beliefs and moral standards. People do what they do is their business and nobody else's.
If an individual chooses to have extra curricular fun on a site like this that is their business and not yours.
If you inadvertently meet, play and they are found out, it has nothing to do with you. Just simply walk away, the consequence they face is their problem and theirs alone.
Many people on here are playing away whether with or without their partners consent or knowledge, that I'm afraid people is the nature of the beast, the human race is not perfect, people have through the ages had many sexual partners at the one time and will continue to do so until we are extinct.
Live and let live, life is difficult enough and too damn short to worry about other peoples morals and feelings. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So many people so many opinions! ...If you know the person is married you and you alone have the option to say yes or no it really is as simple as that.
To be perfectly honest I couldnt care less who has been cheated on and hurt who has been the other woman/man in a relationship, all I care about is my relationship. I dont feel the need to pass judgement on others as has been said before NOBODY other than the people involved know what goes on behind closed doors nor should they.
Totally agree.
We are all individual entities with individual beliefs and moral standards. People do what they do is their business and nobody else's.
If an individual chooses to have extra curricular fun on a site like this that is their business and not yours.
If you inadvertently meet, play and they are found out, it has nothing to do with you. Just simply walk away, the consequence they face is their problem and theirs alone.
Many people on here are playing away whether with or without their partners consent or knowledge, that I'm afraid people is the nature of the beast, the human race is not perfect, people have through the ages had many sexual partners at the one time and will continue to do so until we are extinct.
Live and let live, life is difficult enough and too damn short to worry about other peoples morals and feelings."
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I had been talking to a guy for over two years. Was told he was single and had no reason to suspect otherwise. We finally met last year and have remained great friends. Then only last month I got an email on fb claiming to be his ex partner, she had discovered this May he had been on swinging sites, cheating on her with me and other women. She also referred to "slags like me". I was told I was naive to have believed he was single and she didn't have much respect for "people like me". That is what I hate about people who cheat - the lies that they tell. If a guy is honest about his situation, it gives me the chance to decide whether I meet or not. To be made to feel guilty and a total shit because of a situation I wasn't aware of, was really awful and even now, I don't feel good about it. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"Some will say bein up front on here about bein married is not enough tho, cos basically your still cheating your partner, so you cannywin  "
why do you want to win... just do your thing with people who will do their thing with you......
it is that easy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some will say bein up front on here about bein married is not enough tho, cos basically your still cheating your partner, so you cannywin
why do you want to win... just do your thing with people who will do their thing with you......
it is that easy."
EXACTLY |
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"Some will say bein up front on here about bein married is not enough tho, cos basically your still cheating your partner, so you cannywin "
Some will meet you some won't Hun.
The comments on here are only peoples opinions try not to take them so personally lol. |
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
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Im sure not one person here gives a toss that the OP is screwing about behind her husbands back....
I sure as hell dont....
But I have a lot more respect for the married men/women that dont come into an open forum shouting... LOOK AT ME, screwing about behind my partner back and oh how naughty am I...
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By (user no longer on site)
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Love the high and mighty on here am married so just drive a stake through the heart all i can say hope your never in the position of being married or having a partner who your world completly revolves around and is you world but because of a cruel twist of fate are unable to have a sex life with that person and to mention sex to them causes so much sorrow and pain because they cant and feel guilty because they feel you are being denied
But not having sex at home does make you look else where and to tell them your looking to play away from would not help the situation.
I just hope the moral high ground are never in this situation that many of us are, vilify and condem us but do not judge our morals. |
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"Love the high and mighty on here am married so just drive a stake through the heart all i can say hope your never in the position of being married or having a partner who your world completly revolves around and is you world but because of a cruel twist of fate are unable to have a sex life with that person and to mention sex to them causes so much sorrow and pain because they cant and feel guilty because they feel you are being denied
But not having sex at home does make you look else where and to tell them your looking to play away from would not help the situation.
I just hope the moral high ground are never in this situation that many of us are, vilify and condem us but do not judge our morals. "
I have no issue with married people playing away from home. As has been said several times on this thread, everyone has their reasons for doing so. What I don't like or want is a married man lying to me about his situation so I can't make an informed decision. I have been lied to about someone's status and as a direct result had my fingers burnt. Forewarned is definitely forearmed. So no judgements from me on whether you are married or not, but definitely judgements on liars. |
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"That's the points I was trying to make about this post I have no issues at all about married or attached people who use this site but that's how this post came across to me too "
my opinion is just that also mine. if others decide those actions are fine thats fine by me but dont expect me to pat someone who cheats on the back and say its ok dosnt matter about the pain lying and cheating causes |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I see where jaks is coming from it like boasting married and cheating I personal don't give a shit it someone is married half couples om ere aint married they fb from years half single women married half single men married it a swing site god sake all get a grip aint as if your going to set up home with the person you have sex with each to there own personal lifes |
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By *andsCouple
over a year ago
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"Some will say bein up front on here about bein married is not enough tho, cos basically your still cheating your partner, so you cannywin
why do you want to win... just do your thing with people who will do their thing with you......
it is that easy."
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"That's the points I was trying to make about this post I have no issues at all about married or attached people who use this site but that's how this post came across to me too "
thanks wasnt singling anyone out |
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I have been in the unfotunate position of being in two sexless marriages. The first went 3 years without, her choice, no idea why, before I left, havng had enough of that, and her constantly shifting moods. The second, my current, is because of an incurable, and barely treatable, medical condition. The difference is, We both love each other, and she knows I have needs. She does not want to know what I do, or who with, or for me to bring it home, even when she is not there. We understand and respect each others' positions, I do not wave my presence here in her face, and, if I ever meet anyone from here, it will be done very discreetly.
To all those on the moral high ground, either of those situations could happen to you. Reflect on that before you judge. |
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"I have been in the unfotunate position of being in two sexless marriages. The first went 3 years without, her choice, no idea why, before I left, havng had enough of that, and her constantly shifting moods. The second, my current, is because of an incurable, and barely treatable, medical condition. The difference is, We both love each other, and she knows I have needs. She does not want to know what I do, or who with, or for me to bring it home, even when she is not there. We understand and respect each others' positions, I do not wave my presence here in her face, and, if I ever meet anyone from here, it will be done very discreetly.
To all those on the moral high ground, either of those situations could happen to you. Reflect on that before you judge. "
I was put in the first position with my ex partner. Last 5 years of us being together, I was celibate. Stayed because I cared too much, but then realised I needed more than just being a friend. Turned out all he really wanted was someone to look after him!!!!  |
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"Any other married girls playing from home.. are we bad or naughty... "
Its not cheating as much as deceiving your partner into thinking you are sexually satisfied with him alone.
Sex is a need, like food. You don`t have to eat only with your partner.
A fish supper on, your own, when your out, isnt cheating.
Neither is the occasional sexy `snack`
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"Love the high and mighty on here am married so just drive a stake through the heart all i can say hope your never in the position of being married or having a partner who your world completly revolves around and is you world but because of a cruel twist of fate are unable to have a sex life with that person and to mention sex to them causes so much sorrow and pain because they cant and feel guilty because they feel you are being denied
But not having sex at home does make you look else where and to tell them your looking to play away from would not help the situation.
I just hope the moral high ground are never in this situation that many of us are, vilify and condem us but do not judge our morals.
I have no issue with married people playing away from home. As has been said several times on this thread, everyone has their reasons for doing so. What I don't like or want is a married man lying to me about his situation so I can't make an informed decision. I have been lied to about someone's status and as a direct result had my fingers burnt. Forewarned is definitely forearmed. So no judgements from me on whether you are married or not, but definitely judgements on liars."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some will say bein up front on here about bein married is not enough tho, cos basically your still cheating your partner, so you cannywin
why do you want to win... just do your thing with people who will do their thing with you......
it is that easy."
ok cool don't want to win as such just want to be left alone to get on and not be bloody judged every two days by peeps who don't know me or my situation |
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"Some will say bein up front on here about bein married is not enough tho, cos basically your still cheating your partner, so you cannywin
why do you want to win... just do your thing with people who will do their thing with you......
it is that easy.ok cool don't want to win as such just want to be left alone to get on and not be bloody judged every two days by peeps who don't know me or my situation "
I think you are lovely and great fun on the forum. Don't let others get to you. xxx |
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
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"ok cool don't want to win as such just want to be left alone to get on and not be bloody judged every two days by peeps who don't know me or my situation "
Why let them get to you?
You dont want to meet people that are that judgemental anyways |
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"Any other married girls playing from home.. are we bad or naughty..."
We are not here to judge. If you are playing away from home then thats your business. As far as we are concerned we are all swingers and (mostly) on Fab for the same things. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I am married and did meet with my husbands ok . Unfortunately I found out that when I Was honest he wasn't, he was seeing someone and lying and worst of all trying to make out that I was going crazy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Let me just add something x
If my husband had been honest with me I would not be seeking legal separation . It was all the lies that killed the marriage and not the sex. |
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