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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have found that either on this profile or my singles one I've very rarely been blocked. Recently it was a couple who arranged for me to go to theirs, when I got there I got blocked. The other was someone who took the huff at mistress & I having our profile. Other than that, no. I would say I am civil & polite & it doesn't end in being blocked. Just my experience ofcourse. |
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"It seems being nice n civil only get you blocked. What others thoughts on this???? "
I'm only civil to those who are civil to me ,the rest I couldn't give a toss about and ignore.
I only ever block if someones been rude or abusive or just being an arse lol   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What's your definition of nice and civil?  "
Definition of being civil is not to call them bitches n say hey you wana suck ma cock. Asking how some one is and if they'd like to exchange messages n take things from there. But hey ho maybe I should ask rudely maybe have more lu K lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It seems being nice n civil only get you blocked. What others thoughts on this???? I'm only civil to those who are civil to me ,the rest I couldn't give a toss about and ignore.
I only ever block if someones been rude or abusive or just being an arse lol "
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From all these threads by guys saying how nice they are and hard it is for them, i'm starting to wonder if the women are telling us porky pies in here 
*Read above with a genourous amount of sarcasm included*  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"From all these threads by guys saying how nice they are and hard it is for them, i'm starting to wonder if the women are telling us porky pies in here
*Read above with a genourous amount of sarcasm included* "
I don't care how nice, funny or 'hard' you are for me, if you've got a face like a smacked arse you're not getting anywhere near my hole |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"From all these threads by guys saying how nice they are and hard it is for them, i'm starting to wonder if the women are telling us porky pies in here
*Read above with a genourous amount of sarcasm included*
I don't care how nice, funny or 'hard' you are for me, if you've got a face like a smacked arse you're not getting anywhere near my hole "
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
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"From all these threads by guys saying how nice they are and hard it is for them, i'm starting to wonder if the women are telling us porky pies in here
*Read above with a genourous amount of sarcasm included*
I don't care how nice, funny or 'hard' you are for me, if you've got a face like a smacked arse you're not getting anywhere near my hole
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That's me out then
But hey, I try to be nice to people, I I have nothing nice to say then I say nothing at all. I'm sure I'm on block lists somewhere for something but I really couldn't care less  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"From all these threads by guys saying how nice they are and hard it is for them, i'm starting to wonder if the women are telling us porky pies in here
*Read above with a genourous amount of sarcasm included*
I don't care how nice, funny or 'hard' you are for me, if you've got a face like a smacked arse you're not getting anywhere near my hole "
Agreed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"From all these threads by guys saying how nice they are and hard it is for them, i'm starting to wonder if the women are telling us porky pies in here
*Read above with a genourous amount of sarcasm included*
I don't care how nice, funny or 'hard' you are for me, if you've got a face like a smacked arse you're not getting anywhere near my hole
That's me out then
But hey, I try to be nice to people, I I have nothing nice to say then I say nothing at all. I'm sure I'm on block lists somewhere for something but I really couldn't care less "
Say nothing at all? That's so disappointing  I'll take you for a drink bud... You never know |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i get ignored in bars, i get spoken to in bars, i get no looks walking around a town i get looks walking round a town, i get added on fab i get blocked on fab That is the way of the world.
The Fabswingers website is a small snapshot of real life with real people. just because this is a website for people with an alternative lifestyle we should not 'expect" to get replies to every mail we send nor should we not expect to get blocked.
If we got ignored in a bar from a guy/girl we would not run home to our mates and bleat about it, I dont see the need for some to do so on this site.
yes im a single male,no i have not wrote this to pander to an audience and look "understanding" therefore more desirable,it is as alway only my 2p worth.
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"i get ignored in bars, i get spoken to in bars, i get no looks walking around a town i get looks walking round a town, i get added on fab i get blocked on fab That is the way of the world.
The Fabswingers website is a small snapshot of real life with real people. just because this is a website for people with an alternative lifestyle we should not 'expect" to get replies to every mail we send nor should we not expect to get blocked.
If we got ignored in a bar from a guy/girl we would not run home to our mates and bleat about it, I dont see the need for some to do so on this site.
yes im a single male,no i have not wrote this to pander to an audience and look "understanding" therefore more desirable,it is as alway only my 2p worth.
mike"
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"You just have to realise that this entire forum is hormonal all the time, and you can't win. 
I only get hormonal when I am trying to figure out what the hell is going on in an avatar pic!!!! "
Feel free to ask.... |
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"You just have to realise that this entire forum is hormonal all the time, and you can't win.
I only get hormonal when I am trying to figure out what the hell is going on in an avatar pic!!!!
Feel free to ask.... "
Not sure I really want to know! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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its been my reality away from reality for near 7 yrs so tbh i really cudney gie 2 flyin fucks , im a cheeky sod so i like cheek back its banter so all good just do what you think is best an suits you personally not everyone else's,
only wan erse ye need be up an thats yer ain hun do it your way |
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By *ICEFITMan
over a year ago
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I agree but ya gotta accept the girlies must get hammered by single guys, and that leads to us all being tarred with the same brush! I always try to be cool and leave the sexier conversation stuff till we messaged a few times. Its there choice, and am sure even the girls miss out on a few good things because of their "fuck you" attitude. Hey plenty happy horny girls, keep smiling and move on-plenty plenty fish on the sea. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's the same old problems on this site selfishness plays a huge part in this and with so many people into different types things and more however I agree that everyone should be given a chance on this site whether you are looking for single guys couples two three or four cocks two females etc etc 7inchers or 14inchers have fun and gain the ultimate experiences that I have achieved related to swinging since 1999 kind regards Andy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I agree but ya gotta accept the girlies must get hammered by single guys, and that leads to us all being tarred with the same brush! I always try to be cool and leave the sexier conversation stuff till we messaged a few times. Its there choice, and am sure even the girls miss out on a few good things because of their "fuck you" attitude. Hey plenty happy horny girls, keep smiling and move on-plenty plenty fish on the sea."
Yes, but your getting the opinions of people with comfy,established meets rubbishing the ask! So theres zero sympathy for the ask by the majority.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I agree but ya gotta accept the girlies must get hammered by single guys, and that leads to us all being tarred with the same brush! I always try to be cool and leave the sexier conversation stuff till we messaged a few times. Its there choice, and am sure even the girls miss out on a few good things because of their "fuck you" attitude. Hey plenty happy horny girls, keep smiling and move on-plenty plenty fish on the sea.Yes, but your getting the opinions of people with comfy,established meets rubbishing the ask! So theres zero sympathy for the ask by the majority."
Sorry, i seem to post with a walloping great chunk of reality that stops a thread, can only apologise.
The, we are doing fine, dunno what yer on about, opinions help noboody!! |
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
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Unfortunately the majority of the people in same boat, those that get ignored or sent nasty replies, turn very bitter and are unable to give helpful advice!
Me personally....
I dunno what your on about, because im doing just fine and have yet to experience it
BUT, next time it happens to you....forget about it and dont give them a second thought (too many on here take it fully to heart)....block them and move on to the next |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bees. There very much is a Queen Bee, and all the other busy Bees scurry around sooking up info, comments and hurry back to the Queen Bee and she loads up with her sting, planning when to sting.
Carefully worded she swoops down with condescending,patronising comment that strikes many in one fowl swoop and off she goes,all chuffed with herself, policing reaction, shes not broken any rules, she just sits feeling kinda chuffed at her latest tactile slap. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Unfortunately the majority of the people in same boat, those that get ignored or sent nasty replies, turn very bitter and are unable to give helpful advice!
Me personally....
I dunno what your on about, because im doing just fine and have yet to experience it
BUT, next time it happens to you....forget about it and dont give them a second thought (too many on here take it fully to heart)....block them and move on to the next "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If your nice and civil and you tell someone your not into them why would they want to message that person again and why would you like another message from them asking when they know the answer would be no?
I think blocking someone who says no to you is ok saves a lot of hassle
That's my take on it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If your nice and civil and you tell someone your not into them why would they want to message that person again and why would you like another message from them asking when they know the answer would be no?
I think blocking someone who says no to you is ok saves a lot of hassle
That's my take on it |
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