"Is it just me being delusional but is it courtesy to reply or just ignore? "
If the person doesn't intrest me in the slightest then no I won't reply I'm too busy chartting to people who do intrest me and friends.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its courtesy for all members to read the rules of the site. It clearly states that due to the amount of mail females and couples receive from single males a non reply is to be taken the same as a reply declining their advances. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Is it just me being delusional but is it courtesy to reply or just ignore? If the person doesn't intrest me in the slightest then no I won't reply I'm too busy chartting to people who do intrest me and friends.
Do you reply to every piece of junk mail you get at home ? "
Junk goes in bucket hun in fact all mail does lol  |
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This mainly refers to single guys. Used to reply with a polite no thanks but so many single guys took this as a sign to open up dialogue we stopped.
I know it only takes 2 secs to send off a "no thanks"....but if the sender bothered to read our profile turn they should not have wasted their time sending the message in the first place.
Just got a one liner from single guy a couple of mins ago. All it said was: " I'm coming down to Glasgow next week what day can you see me"
Should we reply ..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We stress in our profile what we look for in a message to show the person has actually taken time to read our profile. If they don't bother then its seldom we will consider making the effort to reply. You get out of this site what you put into it is how we feel x  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This mainly refers to single guys. Used to reply with a polite no thanks but so many single guys took this as a sign to open up dialogue we stopped.
I know it only takes 2 secs to send off a "no thanks"....but if the sender bothered to read our profile turn they should not have wasted their time sending the message in the first place.
Just got a one liner from single guy a couple of mins ago. All it said was: " I'm coming down to Glasgow next week what day can you see me"
Should we reply ....."
Well said. 
When I've conversed with a guy previously and made it clear that he's not what I'm looking for I then simply ignore any further contact from them as they've have their 'no thanks' before, I'm not going to keep saying it. |
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By *omeBiCouple
over a year ago
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I know it only takes 2 secs to send off a "no thanks"....but if the sender bothered to read our profile turn they should not have wasted their time sending the message in the first place.
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...or your time reading it! |
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