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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We know not everybody will be compatible on fab and that there obviously has to be an attraction between all parties but how long honestly dose it take to say sorry not my type or something along those lines instead people just delete and ignore. to us thats the height of ignorance. Even got a couple today who have only been on a short time saying their fed up with the site try to give them abit of advice telling them it will get better all we get back is message deleted. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes have experienced this a lot recently!
We sent about ten couples last week a friendly message introducing ourselves and message just got deleted
Would have been nice to have had a no thanks I agree
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes have experienced this a lot recently!
We sent about ten couples last week a friendly message introducing ourselves and message just got deleted
Would have been nice to have had a no thanks I agree
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This is what single guys have to put up with on a daily basis. When queationed the response is they have too many messages to reply to everyone to say no. Maybe its the same for these cpls. Its not nice, I agree. But thats just the way fab is... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Its the ones that say they are giving up and the site is rubbish that drive you nuts we were only giving them some advice absolutely no need to be so rude.
I angel always reply even just to say no and dont get me wrong we did get a lot of mail until we stopped looking for single guys. |
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I used to get annoyed and really riled up.....now I just laugh and think nextttttt......
This site ain't worth getting stressed over....just smile and think forward...forget the twats, fakes, wannabe's etc etc the lists endless lol..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I used to get annoyed and really riled up.....now I just laugh and think nextttttt......
This site ain't worth getting stressed over....just smile and think forward...forget the twats, fakes, wannabe's etc etc the lists endless lol....."
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"Tell me about the fakes and time wasters are really getting out of hand. We really need a name and shame section. "
Name and shame will never work.....too many childish people, fall outs, personal vendettas so would never be accurate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tell me about the fakes and time wasters are really getting out of hand. We really need a name and shame section. "
They not worth any more of your time.... it's their loss  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well if anyone wants to send a thanks but no thanks to the 487 unread messages in my inbox....feel free.
Until then I'll stick to replying to those I'm interested in and deleting those I'm not... "
That's cos you are a hot sexy bitch that you get so many lol  |
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Well we have been swinging for 9 years and only had a no show once......
Maybe we are really lucky.....but I would say I am a good judge of character and always manage to work out who is and isn't genuine.....6th sence.....
I think a lot of peeps are that keen to arrange meets they don't give things enough time to get a vibe if peeps are genuine or not..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone has a profile, most are messageable,,,therefore they tend to message in the hope they may be of interest.
Delete, is a good sign you may not be,certainly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We know not everybody will be compatible on fab and that there obviously has to be an attraction between all parties but how long honestly dose it take to say sorry not my type or something along those lines instead people just delete and ignore. to us thats the height of ignorance. Even got a couple today who have only been on a short time saying their fed up with the site try to give them abit of advice telling them it will get better all we get back is message deleted. "
up to them
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No sorry i agree it doesn't to say thanks but no thanks. That really annoys me when ppl can't even be arsed to reply to ur message after uve took time to write it |
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
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"No sorry i agree it doesn't to say thanks but no thanks. That really annoys me when ppl can't even be arsed to reply to ur message after uve took time to write it"
Dont apologise for agreeing..... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Complaining mmm maybe a bit. would say more annoyed that some people don't have manners. Fair enough we all understand single fems get probably hundreds of mail every week and they can't answer them all. But couples well maybe it's just us, maybe we should be like them and just delete if we don't like the look of you/them. Sorry we understand that people are looking for nsa sex but at the end of the day the same people do have feelings so no we will never be that ignorant |
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Why let it piss you off etc.....they obviously were not the people for you.....
As for taking the time to message....it takes seconds to send a message lol .....
Anyway let it all go over yer head lol |
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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago
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"Well guy's thanks for your responses some agree some don't. First time using the forum think I could get to like this   "
Ranting is only permitted on a Thursday, Monday's are for general moaning. Did you bring cake? It's in the rules, you know.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well we have been swinging for 9 years and only had a no show once......
Maybe we are really lucky.....but I would say I am a good judge of character and always manage to work out who is and isn't genuine.....6th sence.....
I think a lot of peeps are that keen to arrange meets they don't give things enough time to get a vibe if peeps are genuine or not....."
Well said .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive had the same bother. It only tajes a qyick reply to say sorry not interested. I mail everyone back unless theyre giving ne hassle"
maybe learn to spell correctly;
you might get a response.
not being cheeky but when a lot of females get mail
why would they send you 1
they be here for ever |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive had the same bother. It only tajes a qyick reply to say sorry not interested. I mail everyone back unless theyre giving ne hasslemaybe learn to spell correctly;
you might get a response.
not being cheeky but when a lot of females get mail
why would they send you 1
they be here for ever"
i can spell properly but i was typing on the move. Sorry for offending your eyes. Yes females get a lot of mail yes but i also get a lot from the gay community and i take my time to reply saying sorry but im not gay. Its not very hard |
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"Ive had the same bother. It only tajes a qyick reply to say sorry not interested. I mail everyone back unless theyre giving ne hasslemaybe learn to spell correctly;
you might get a response.
not being cheeky but when a lot of females get mail
why would they send you 1
they be here for ever i can spell properly but i was typing on the move. Sorry for offending your eyes. Yes females get a lot of mail yes but i also get a lot from the gay community and i take my time to reply saying sorry but im not gay. Its not very hard"
Sorry but why should I reply to mail that just says " when you available" or " meet now" etc I'd rather spend my time replying to folk that id be interested in meeting...... But feel free to reply to my 86 unread messages then back again when you get the abuse or " why not" messages |
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"Ive had the same bother. It only tajes a qyick reply to say sorry not interested. I mail everyone back unless theyre giving ne hasslemaybe learn to spell correctly;
you might get a response.
not being cheeky but when a lot of females get mail
why would they send you 1
they be here for ever i can spell properly but i was typing on the move. Sorry for offending your eyes. Yes females get a lot of mail yes but i also get a lot from the gay community and i take my time to reply saying sorry but im not gay. Its not very hard
Sorry but why should I reply to mail that just says " when you available" or " meet now" etc I'd rather spend my time replying to folk that id be interested in meeting...... But feel free to reply to my 86 unread messages then back again when you get the abuse or " why not" messages "
so "when you available" pmsl |
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Just wondering if you take the time to reply to every piece if junk mail you receive at home ? I very much doubt it .
So it's no diffrent on here most people with common sence would know a no reply simply means thanks but no thanks . |
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"so "when you available" pmsl
Just pop round at 2 I've half hour inbetween the "wanna shag?" And the " I'm gonna destroy your ass" meets no probs strawberry condoms again ??? "
Unless you've got the cherry ones  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Erm is this not what happens to single guys when they mail and they aren't wanted/liked? Don't they just get deleted. And I'm sure I've read or heard it somewhere that to take the deletion of a mail as a polite 'no thanks'.
Same rule should be applied across the board... If someone deletes your mail without reply take it as a polite no thanks, dust yourself down and shout 'next'. |
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It's not good for my ego when every message I send with a decent amount of detail and a recent face photo gets deleted without a reply.
It's not like I'm sending a one liner and a photo of my nether regions.
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