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So far no luck on FAB
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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4 weeks is not a long time...most folks like to chat for a bit before meeting for fun..or even meet up for a social first...it takes time and patience.
If this was a single guy we would basically be saying this is not instashag!!
Get along to a social...participate in the forums..its a good way of getting chatting to everyone......but mind bring cake 
good luck in whatever you find x  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi there, I know it's tough here, but have a bit more patience, maybe try getting yourselves to a social or to one of the club's, failing that why not put up a meet on the meet/events forum stating who,where and when you want to meet.
Hang in there and good luck.  c x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"4 weeks is not a long time...most folks like to chat for a bit before meeting for fun..or even meet up for a social first...it takes time and patience.
If this was a single guy we would basically be saying this is not instashag!!
Get along to a social...participate in the forums..its a good way of getting chatting to everyone......but mind bring cake
good luck in whatever you find x "
Damnit I always forget to mention cake.
Repeats " must remember cake , must remember cake" |
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Hi thank you so much for getting back to us. I know we need to be patient it's just we don't seem to be getting anywhere with anyone, lots of false hopes.
We are going to CJs in October to see what that's about and maybe something will happen.
Do have to ask as completely new to this, what is bring cake lol? Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Do have to ask as completely to this, what is bring cake lol? Xx"
lol all.newcomers to the forums have to bring cake....any kind will do ..this lot eat anything Hehe x |
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Seeing as you're only looking for women its gonna be tough. A sensible woman won't rush to meet a couple, she will need to consider her safety no matter how decent & normal you are.
Also, I'll put a wig & mascara on & pretend to be a woman for you if there is cake on the go. What can I say, I'm a slut for cake. |
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
Falkirk |
I would echo what's been said here already. Patience is the key. Don't rush in head first, socials are a good way to meet people, CJs will be a great experience for you both.
Join in the forum and people will get to know you a bit more, just let us know which one of you is posting lol
As for cakes, you can't beat a cream scone...... 
Have fun, and I hope you find what you are looking for  |
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Single females have the pick of the whole site....literally hundreds looking for the same as you.....the illusive single female....so I am afraid to say you might be in for a bit of a wait lol...maybe not what you want to hear but it's reality with so many hunting for the same thing. |
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"Single females have the pick of the whole site....literally hundreds looking for the same as you.....the illusive single female....so I am afraid to say you might be in for a bit of a wait lol...maybe not what you want to hear but it's reality with so many hunting for the same thing.
Times like these I wish I was a girl, then fitbaw season starts and I regress.
It's also harder because its sooo easy to join and look like a genuine person. Wouldn't be first site I've used that had loads of single white (fe)males.
Sorry to put a downer, I've left cake and I'll leave now   "
Of course there are lots pretending...that's the Internet for you....part n parcel of every site.....but you get used to spotting them |
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"Times like these I wish I was a girl, then fitbaw season starts and I regress.
It's also harder because its sooo easy to join and look like a genuine person. Wouldn't be first site I've used that had loads of single white (fe)males.
Sorry to put a downer, I've left cake and I'll leave now
Of course there are lots pretending...that's the Internet for you....part n parcel of every site.....but you get used to spotting them"
True but even the internet has lost the little love it had, bring back 80's hair and music and 90's love and 2013 internet speeds, man that's be some place I'd wanna be lol
Nite peeps |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe....and this is simply our opinion....having watersports as the first of your likes is a bit full on...
I know you are probably being honest....but it would deter us from reaching out to you or replying to a message... |
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Hi guys, thank you so much for the advice everything helps. In relation to the water sports, we are not into that, it must have just been a mistake when we were setting up the profile, but thanks for pointing that out, could explain a lot. Next challenge is socials lol xxx
P.S we will bring cake I haven't forgot lol xxx |
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
Falkirk |
"Hi guys, thank you so much for the advice everything helps. In relation to the water sports, we are not into that, it must have just been a mistake when we were setting up the profile, but thanks for pointing that out, could explain a lot. Next challenge is socials lol xxx
P.S we will bring cake I haven't forgot lol xxx"
Ahhhhh that's what I like to hear - newbies who've paid attention |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi guys, thank you so much for the advice everything helps. In relation to the water sports, we are not into that, it must have just been a mistake when we were setting up the profile, but thanks for pointing that out, could explain a lot. Next challenge is socials lol xxx
P.S we will bring cake I haven't forgot lol xxx"
Its cool, u2 look great, yet up front enough to tell us, your kinda hesitant like most people,, thats understandable (kinda),lol, forum crunching will add to the confusion,,, my wee tip,, |
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
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"Hi thank you so much for getting back to us. I know we need to be patient it's just we don't seem to be getting anywhere with anyone, lots of false hopes.
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Afraid you will have to join the queue of the numerous other couples only looking for bi fems |
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Friendly foe, thanks for you comments, all comments are always looked at and I appreciate your opinion. We have only one thing to reply to that, maybe there is a queue but I believe personality and attitude plays a big part in where you are in the queue, I'm hoping we don't have long to wait xxx |
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"Friendly foe, thanks for you comments, all comments are always looked at and I appreciate your opinion. We have only one thing to reply to that, maybe there is a queue but I believe personality and attitude plays a big part in where you are in the queue, I'm hoping we don't have long to wait xxx"
Positivity is never a bad thing |
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
In a crisp poke on the A814 |
"Friendly foe, thanks for you comments, all comments are always looked at and I appreciate your opinion. We have only one thing to reply to that, maybe there is a queue but I believe personality and attitude plays a big part in where you are in the queue, I'm hoping we don't have long to wait xxx"
You have only been here 4 weeks....
As well as attitude and personality, you need patience!
I hope you dont have to wait long for what you are looking for, just dont be disheartened when it doesnt happen as quick as you had hoped.... |
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Thanks guys, I need to improve my baking skills as well as the obvious lack of experience in the other thing. We are trying to just get to know people and we have spoken to some very nice people, present company included. We will take all the advice on board and especially the cake thing, still can't get that out of my head that it's a secret code word about sex lol xxx |
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
In a crisp poke on the A814 |
" We will take all the advice on board and especially the cake thing, still can't get that out of my head that it's a secret code word about sex lol xxx"
Its not....
Most of them just like drinking coffee and eating cake |
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" We will take all the advice on board and especially the cake thing, still can't get that out of my head that it's a secret code word about sex lol xxx
Its not....
Most of them just like drinking coffee and eating cake "
It's a forum thing lol.....good things come to patient people......trust me |
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"We are new to this and finding it difficult to meet anyone after 4 weeks. Are there any other forums that anyone could recommend that would maybe be better for us. Thanks x "
The best advice i can give is come along to cjs and meet people face to face and try the old fashioned way ,,by talking and flirting,, |
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"Forgot to say in the last message, CJ'S is booked for the 12th October. You will recognise us, we will be the quivering newcomers in the corner lol, S xxx"
We thought we would be the same on our first visit to cjs last week ....don't worry they all make you feel very welcome and after ten minutes you will wonder why did you get yourself worked up |
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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago
Livingston |
" We will take all the advice on board and especially the cake thing, still can't get that out of my head that it's a secret code word about sex lol xxx
Its not....
Most of them just like drinking coffee and eating cake "
Stop waffling shite ya muppet. Everyone knows Ratshit has you on Tramadol and Gin!!!!! |
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
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Stop waffling shite ya muppet. Everyone knows Ratshit has you on Tramadol and Gin!!!!! "
And iv told you before.....
Only works with RUM!!! But do you listen?? NO...do you fuck!
Useless bloody nurse |
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