After hearing of a few horror stories of people going str8 to peoples houses rather than doing a social meet first ie coffee or drink somewhere public ,how many of you out there take the risks and go to someones home without meeting socially first ?
I always do a social meet first and wouldn't take the risk of getting to someones home and maybe finding they aint what u or I aint what they expected making both parties feel awkward lol
so how many of you would take the risk ? |
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"After hearing of a few horror stories of people going str8 to peoples houses rather than doing a social meet first ie coffee or drink somewhere public ,how many of you out there take the risks and go to someones home without meeting socially first ?
I always do a social meet first and wouldn't take the risk of getting to someones home and maybe finding they aint what u or I aint what they expected making both parties feel awkward lol
so how many of you would take the risk ?"
cant speak as a single person but as a couple we have had no problems with meets at our home. |
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Being the Gentleman I'am I wouldn't go too a females house unless I had meet her for a social first just too see how we got on and to see if we where attracted to each other as picture's don't talk  |
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"After hearing of a few horror stories of people going str8 to peoples houses rather than doing a social meet first ie coffee or drink somewhere public ,how many of you out there take the risks and go to someones home without meeting socially first ?
I always do a social meet first and wouldn't take the risk of getting to someones home and maybe finding they aint what u or I aint what they expected making both parties feel awkward lol
so how many of you would take the risk ?cant speak as a single person but as a couple we have had no problems with meets at our home."
Did the right thing and met socially once....catwalk dressed and absolutely georgeous she was....back to flat it was a pigstye... |
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"After hearing of a few horror stories of people going str8 to peoples houses rather than doing a social meet first ie coffee or drink somewhere public ,how many of you out there take the risks and go to someones home without meeting socially first ?
I always do a social meet first and wouldn't take the risk of getting to someones home and maybe finding they aint what u or I aint what they expected making both parties feel awkward lol
so how many of you would take the risk ?cant speak as a single person but as a couple we have had no problems with meets at our home."
yeah if I was meeting as a couple it might not be so bad but as a single female id never do it . |
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"Being the Gentleman I'am I wouldn't go too a females house unless I had meet her for a social first just too see how we got on and to see if we where attracted to each other as picture's don't talk just curious but why if your a gentleman couldnt you meet at their home being a gentleman is about your conduct not where you meet
I wouldnt meet at someones house as like to see if there is any chemistry there first  "
Good point will reframe that , being a decent guy |
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Well I accommodate and rarely have social meets first, never had any problems..... But it's always on the understanding that if there's no spark then there's no problem..... Saying that I takes me a while chatting before I meet so I'm usually pretty certain  |
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doesnt really bother us, if things aren't what you think they should be its easy to say thanx but no thanx. We have only had to do that once though as the biggest majority of people are fine |
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I've done it both ways - social meets first, or just heading straight to someone's house. Equally, I've had people come straight here a couple of times.
It's never caused any problems, but like others have said up there - I've always chatted enough beforehand to feel pretty comfortable about meeting, otherwise I wouldn't do it.
I think it only really went wrong once, and even then things were fine - it was just a case of chatting over a bottle of beer at their place and deciding not to go ahead with anything naughtier. Not as big a deal as you'd think it could be, and we ended up staying friends anyway. |
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I always take my time to meet talk and exchange messages I always have a social meet meet in a public place with the exception of one which I was 100% comfortable in meeting at his house after a fair amount of time communicating so thus turned out to be very successful . On saying that I would say there's no right or wrong way it's very much a personal call I'm sure like me your instincts will keep you right.. |
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I never go to a house meet without a fully charged taser, pepper spray, and an escape kit, in case she is a psycho, or a munter, or, worst case scenario, both.
I also update my last will and testament, & leave letters for my loved ones.
So far, so good....  |
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"I never go to a house meet without a fully charged taser, pepper spray, and an escape kit, in case she is a psycho, or a munter, or, worst case scenario, both.
I also update my last will and testament, & leave letters for my loved ones.
So far, so good.... "
pmsl ya dafty lol |
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"I never go to a house meet without a fully charged taser, pepper spray, and an escape kit, in case she is a psycho, or a munter, or, worst case scenario, both.
I also update my last will and testament, & leave letters for my loved ones.
So far, so good.... "
Oh hun that's so funny whaaaaahahaha  |
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Dnt do social meets just for the reason we dnt get much time to play due to kids and work so when get the time we wana use it wisely lol .
So far so gm but i (fem) do message bk and forth alot to sed if we click and never been let down
Womens intuition usually right |
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I have done both.... meeting at home and meeting for a coffee / drink first...
The only real horror story for me was someone I met for a 3rd or 4th time.... just flipped and decided trying to strangle me was a good idea.... I'd met him socially twice... If someone's a loonball having a social meet won't always make that obvious |
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Done a couple of meets where I went straight to the couple's house only to find that the "couple" was just a dreaming bloke. Even had the "She'll be back in a minute so let's just get started" line  |
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I have also done both, I've had varied results in the past when I didn't do a special meet first, usually have a good sexy meet if I have a social first. Me & my favourite girl have had 2 really good social meets in the last wee while which we are hoping will lead to something very good :D |
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"Done a couple of meets where I went straight to the couple's house only to find that the "couple" was just a dreaming bloke. Even had the "She'll be back in a minute so let's just get started" line "
Its things like this I mean real horror stories we all know if we have good vibes about meeting someone then its more than likely to go swimmingly but u can never be 100% about that lol |
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I (Jacqui) did when I met my Master/ partner. We had talked for hours on the phone prior to this & I trusted him. I can honestly say it was the best meet/ encounter I have ever had. I am so glad I did do it as otherwise I would have missed out. But I do believe we would have got together anyway,,this way was just more mind blowing |
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"I never go to a house meet without a fully charged taser, pepper spray, and an escape kit, in case she is a psycho, or a munter, or, worst case scenario, both.
I also update my last will and testament, & leave letters for my loved ones.
So far, so good.... "
aye...im aware mister!!! 3 points....
The pepper spray stings like f**k and my eyeballs are currently resting on my chest....
I posted yer letters 2nd class...ye might have stamped them tight wad.....
...and the taser..although not as unpleasant as id feared has left huge burns on my shag pile.....
Same time next week???  |
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"I never go to a house meet without a fully charged taser, pepper spray, and an escape kit, in case she is a psycho, or a munter, or, worst case scenario, both.
I also update my last will and testament, & leave letters for my loved ones.
So far, so good....
aye...im aware mister!!! 3 points....
The pepper spray stings like f**k and my eyeballs are currently resting on my chest....
I posted yer letters 2nd class...ye might have stamped them tight wad.....
...and the taser..although not as unpleasant as id feared has left huge burns on my shag pile.....
Same time next week??? "
Yes, and remember the milk for my te this time. |
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"We never do social meets first just the way we work and have gone to both couples and single blokes houses and have had no probs x"
Likewise couples and girls, if we get along as in hit it off banter wise then a drink is always on cards next time.
I'm here to fuck and have fun and can seperate the "act" for what it is.  |
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