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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well i have been on here a few months and trying to look into it all spoke to n met some really nice people.Aswell as read alot of great things on forums. But i dont know whether fab is better for singles or couples? would i be better as a couple(dont see that happening anytime soon lol) or just carry on as me n see what comes? x x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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stay as a single female is my advice.... a million single guys desperate to be a couple for one reason only ..... get more fun..
or if yu do change to couple , make sure the guys reasons are for YOU and not his...
if yu meet a guy and sexually click, mentally click ( lets leave heart clicking out, its swinging no dating site ) then maybe go for it.....
but take your time, dont be rushed into owt....
and most of all have fun xxxxxx
best wishes and welcome to fab lol xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just to throw in my tuppence worth... I honestly don't think that it should matter to you! Surely people will want to meet you for the attractive, sexy, bubbly lady that you seem to be?
That said, we've been put off meeting 1 or 2 couples because Mrs.Classy did'nt find the male partner to be particularly attractive. So, if you do decide to 'team-up' then make sure that your new 'team-mate'(lol) will compliment you & not hold you back!
either way- happy swinging,
Mr.Classy xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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hi thanks for the good input yeah i totally agree. i really want to get into the whole social side too but find i feel really nervous doing so as a single seems a more for partners x x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is nothing to worry about, Social a great laugh and very welcoming.
Agree with what view says, don't become a couple for a couples sake and he is right so many single guys are incapable of getting their own meets so try to use the lovely single fems of fab and tell them anything just to get more meets.
Personally I enjoy myself as a single, I can meet who I want when I can.
The dynamics of couples are actually quite complex from a swing perspective instead of just having to please yourself as a single you then take into account the whole does she like her and him and does he like him and her, then do we all get on and does he fancy her enough to perform and does she fancy him enough to bother and does her fancy her enough to do girl.
Argh!!! mind fcuk, stay single, play easier.
Rock. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Play single, guys who go at you to be "swing partner" in a very short space of time are,quite simply seeing you as a ticket to meets, i play single and simply occasionaly call up a good single fem friend when a party is happening, i dont label her as "partner" or " f buddy" she simply is a fellow swinger having fun like me,works fine, xx |
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