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By *cottishsexgoddess OP   Woman  over a year ago

Glenrothes

Is going on with the Forum? When I first joined nearly 3 years ago, I used to get a good giggle at most of the threads in the forum. Regrettably, in the last few months, I have noticed more irritation, vindictive sniping and "look at me" threads than happy, fun threads. Even the ones that start out as happy, fun, silly threads get hijacked by the snippy brigade. There are a few stalwarts who inject some sense and fun back in, but over all, it's getting really dire. Come on Fabsters, get back to fun, laughter and, if you have to, reasoned debate and stop the sniping, bitching and back stabbing. We are, after all, all grown ups - allegedly!!!

Oh and a Happy Monday morning to you all.

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By *ustcutieWoman  over a year ago

edinburgh

Good morning to you dess..... Totally agree

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By *cottishsexgoddess OP   Woman  over a year ago

Glenrothes


"Good morning to you dess..... Totally agree "

Good morning Cutie - hope you are well and keeping up the sales of lusciously delicious red wine in your area teehee

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By *ustlovesexMan  over a year ago

Wishaw

See folk who create whinging threads......

They are ruining the forum.

Only kidding.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Well Said and well put post. Heres hoping they listen. hope that wasnt me in the look at me threads pmsl

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By *cottishsexgoddess OP   Woman  over a year ago

Glenrothes


"See folk who create whinging threads......

They are ruining the forum.

Only kidding. "

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By *cottishsexgoddess OP   Woman  over a year ago

Glenrothes


"Well Said and well put post. Heres hoping they listen. hope that wasnt me in the look at me threads pmsl "

pmsl, but now that you mention it............lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Is going on with the Forum? When I first joined nearly 3 years ago, I used to get a good giggle at most of the threads in the forum. Regrettably, in the last few months, I have noticed more irritation, vindictive sniping and "look at me" threads than happy, fun threads. Even the ones that start out as happy, fun, silly threads get hijacked by the snippy brigade. There are a few stalwarts who inject some sense and fun back in, but over all, it's getting really dire. Come on Fabsters, get back to fun, laughter and, if you have to, reasoned debate and stop the sniping, bitching and back stabbing. We are, after all, all grown ups - allegedly!!!

Oh and a Happy Monday morning to you all. "

I think the forum now is much better then a year go Remember ,with no names here cat fights everyday Ban,s everyday So I see it better. Things always look better looking back In saying that we all can make it better now xxx

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By *cottishsexgoddess OP   Woman  over a year ago

Glenrothes


"Is going on with the Forum? When I first joined nearly 3 years ago, I used to get a good giggle at most of the threads in the forum. Regrettably, in the last few months, I have noticed more irritation, vindictive sniping and "look at me" threads than happy, fun threads. Even the ones that start out as happy, fun, silly threads get hijacked by the snippy brigade. There are a few stalwarts who inject some sense and fun back in, but over all, it's getting really dire. Come on Fabsters, get back to fun, laughter and, if you have to, reasoned debate and stop the sniping, bitching and back stabbing. We are, after all, all grown ups - allegedly!!!

Oh and a Happy Monday morning to you all. I think the forum now is much better then a year go Remember ,with no names here cat fights everyday Ban,s everyday So I see it better. Things always look better looking back In saying that we all can make it better now xxx "

Strangely enough, I never noticed that at the time. I must have been otherwise occupied lol. So if it's better now, I dread to think what it was like.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Is going on with the Forum? When I first joined nearly 3 years ago, I used to get a good giggle at most of the threads in the forum. Regrettably, in the last few months, I have noticed more irritation, vindictive sniping and "look at me" threads than happy, fun threads. Even the ones that start out as happy, fun, silly threads get hijacked by the Isnippy brigade. There are a few stalwarts who inject some sense and fun back in, but over all, it's getting really dire. Come on Fabsters, get back to fun, laughter and, if you have to, reasoned debate and stop the sniping, bitching and back stabbing. We are, after all, all grown ups - allegedly!!!

Oh and a Happy Monday morning to you all. I think the forum now is much better then a year go Remember ,with no names here cat fights everyday Ban,s everyday So I see it better. Things always look better looking back In saying that we all can make it better now xxx

Strangely enough, I never noticed that at the time. I must have been otherwise occupied lol. So if it's better now, I dread to think what it was like. "

it was bad when women bitch it run for cover time lol no you right think it the men bitching now And that me in there lol

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By *ustcutieWoman  over a year ago

edinburgh


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Strangely enough, I never noticed that at the time. I must have been otherwise occupied lol. So if it's better now, I dread to think what it was like. it was bad when women bitch it run for cover time lol no you right think it the men bitching now And that me in there lol"

I didn't really notice it either .... But it's defo the men bitching these days

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


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Strangely enough, I never noticed that at the time. I must have been otherwise occupied lol. So if it's better now, I dread to think what it was like. it was bad when women bitch it run for cover time lol no you right think it the men bitching now And that me in there lol

I didn't really notice it either .... But it's defo the men bitching these days "

Yup, agree Cutie. They should sort it out in a manly way....handbags at dawn!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


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Strangely enough, I never noticed that at the time. I must have been otherwise occupied lol. So if it's better now, I dread to think what it was like. it was bad when women bitch it run for cover time lol no you right think it the men bitching now And that me in there lol

I didn't really notice it either .... But it's defo the men bitching these days "

Maybe the women should give us more sex pmsl

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By *uitar_antiheroMan  over a year ago

Glasgow

Can't we all just hug it out & have a wee slice of cake?

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By *cottishsexgoddess OP   Woman  over a year ago

Glenrothes


"Can't we all just hug it out & have a wee slice of cake? "

I wondered when the cake was going to be introduced! May I have a doughnut please? lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It my time of the month here Well women can get away it

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By *uitar_antiheroMan  over a year ago

Glasgow


"Can't we all just hug it out & have a wee slice of cake?

I wondered when the cake was going to be introduced! May I have a doughnut please? lol"

As soon as I turn up, cake gets brought into it

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman  over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I totally agree dess im posting less and less because of all the noncense that goes on the forums.

it used to be a case where people could pass comments on stuff and ok some people wouldnt agree with what you have to say,but now its just so blatantly obvious that some users have an opinion and its rammed down your throats constantly and god help anyone who doesnt agree with them because it then becomes all out war.

come on people we all have opinions so just accept that.

some people still try to inject a bit of fun into the forums but even that gets rubbished now

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By *riendly foeWoman  over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

I swear you lot are using different forums from me and not telling me!!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I swear you lot are using different forums from me and not telling me!!!

"

totally agree , guess there's not enough of the lets kiss my ass threads for some , or is it just that some have lost their forum flirting appeal

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By *UNKIEMan  over a year ago

south east

Good morning pervs and pervettes ....i love the forums (the good the bad and the downright ugly) ..always a giggle and can be useful in finding out who NOT to meet

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Good morning pervs and pervettes ....i love the forums (the good the bad and the downright ugly) ..always a giggle and can be useful in finding out who NOT to meet "

End of the story lol

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By *riendly foeWoman  over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"Good morning pervs and pervettes ....i love the forums (the good the bad and the downright ugly) ..always a giggle and can be useful in finding out who NOT to meet "

Im running out of ones id want to meet lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

gone from 2 days i see no much has a change then

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman  over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Good morning pervs and pervettes ....i love the forums (the good the bad and the downright ugly) ..always a giggle and can be useful in finding out who NOT to meet "

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By *cottishsexgoddess OP   Woman  over a year ago

Glenrothes


"Good morning pervs and pervettes ....i love the forums (the good the bad and the downright ugly) ..always a giggle and can be useful in finding out who NOT to meet "

That is so true Bunkie! Plus you also see who is hot, hot, HOT!

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By *riendly foeWoman  over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


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That is so true Bunkie! Plus you also see who is hot, hot, HOT! "

Again!!!

What forums you reading???

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The golden rule of forums should be "If you've nothing nice to say it's best to say nothing at all"

Who wants to speak to people who are moaning and whinging all the time, far less shag them?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

That is so true Bunkie! Plus you also see who is hot, hot, HOT!

Again!!!

What forums you reading??? "

these ones silly!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The golden rule of forums should be "If you've nothing nice to say it's best to say nothing at all"

Who wants to speak to people who are moaning and whinging all the time, far less shag them?"

loads do,to have a difference of opinion is a good thing to just post to get on the good side of the ass lickers is the ones i avoid

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The golden rule of forums should be "If you've nothing nice to say it's best to say nothing at all"

Who wants to speak to people who are moaning and whinging all the time, far less shag them?loads do,to have a difference of opinion is a good thing to just post to get on the good side of the ass lickers is the ones i avoid "

Aye, but there's a difference between intelligently debating and continually moaning.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The golden rule of forums should be "If you've nothing nice to say it's best to say nothing at all"

Who wants to speak to people who are moaning and whinging all the time, far less shag them?loads do,to have a difference of opinion is a good thing to just post to get on the good side of the ass lickers is the ones i avoid

Aye, but there's a difference between intelligently debating and continually moaning."

i would rather meet a moaner than a bore though ,makes to more noise in the bedroom

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By *riendly foeWoman  over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


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these ones silly!! "

I need to get myself to spec savers then

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By *cottishsexgoddess OP   Woman  over a year ago

Glenrothes


"

That is so true Bunkie! Plus you also see who is hot, hot, HOT!

Again!!!

What forums you reading??? "

I go wandering round the forums and have seen some lovely body shots which I just HAVE to compliment! I end up speaking to some rather yummy guys. Shame they are so bloody far away! lol

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By *eatherWoman  over a year ago

glasgow

Right i had a wee moan this morning in my pm ive removed it.Yes come on folks lets nbe happy make love and die happy well maybe no die but let be soo soo sooo sooo HAPPYX

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By *cottishsexgoddess OP   Woman  over a year ago

Glenrothes

[Removed by poster at 24/06/13 10:09:23]

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By *cottishsexgoddess OP   Woman  over a year ago

Glenrothes


"Right i had a wee moan this morning in my pm ive removed it.Yes come on folks lets nbe happy make love and die happy well maybe no die but let be soo soo sooo sooo HAPPYX"

How's the blister Heather? lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The golden rule of forums should be "If you've nothing nice to say it's best to say nothing at all"

Who wants to speak to people who are moaning and whinging all the time, far less shag them?loads do,to have a difference of opinion is a good thing to just post to get on the good side of the ass lickers is the ones i avoid "

is there ass lickers in here

( drops pants) lol

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By *riendly foeWoman  over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Im all for a good old fashioned debate, difference of opinions and good banter...

I have no intention in meeting, let alone shagging, some guy that is too scared to comment in case others dont agree with him....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


".i would rather meet a moaner than a bore though ,makes to more noise in the bedroom "

What about when they start criticising your curtains?

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By *cottishsexgoddess OP   Woman  over a year ago

Glenrothes


"The golden rule of forums should be "If you've nothing nice to say it's best to say nothing at all"

Who wants to speak to people who are moaning and whinging all the time, far less shag them?loads do,to have a difference of opinion is a good thing to just post to get on the good side of the ass lickers is the ones i avoid is there ass lickers in here

( drops pants) lol "

Keep them on - especially the tight white ones

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The golden rule of forums should be "If you've nothing nice to say it's best to say nothing at all"

Who wants to speak to people who are moaning and whinging all the time, far less shag them?loads do,to have a difference of opinion is a good thing to just post to get on the good side of the ass lickers is the ones i avoid is there ass lickers in here

( drops pants) lol

Keep them on - especially the tight white ones "

is it the hairy bum lol

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By *riendly foeWoman  over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"is there ass lickers in here

( drops pants) lol

Keep them on - especially the tight white ones "

Yes Bruiser.....PLEASE keep them on

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By *UNKIEMan  over a year ago

south east


"Im all for a good old fashioned debate, difference of opinions and good banter...

I have no intention in meeting, let alone shagging, some guy that is too scared to comment in case others dont agree with him...."

Never had a problem with people voicing their opinions ....just the 1's that are hell bent on stirring trouble for the fun of it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Im all for a good old fashioned debate, difference of opinions and good banter...

I have no intention in meeting, let alone shagging, some guy that is too scared to comment in case others dont agree with him....

Never had a problem with people voicing their opinions ....just the 1's that are hell bent on stirring trouble for the fun of it "

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By *cottishsexgoddess OP   Woman  over a year ago

Glenrothes


"The golden rule of forums should be "If you've nothing nice to say it's best to say nothing at all"

Who wants to speak to people who are moaning and whinging all the time, far less shag them?loads do,to have a difference of opinion is a good thing to just post to get on the good side of the ass lickers is the ones i avoid is there ass lickers in here

( drops pants) lol

Keep them on - especially the tight white ones is it the hairy bum lol "

lol. No I just have a thing for tight white or black boxers on a nice body xx

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By *riendly foeWoman  over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"

Never had a problem with people voicing their opinions ....just the 1's that are hell bent on stirring trouble for the fun of it "

They only stir up trouble if others let them....

People bite, and thats what they want!

You want to put out a fire....Piss all over it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I've loads of tight boxers, but that's because the body is no so nice any more

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman  over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Im all for a good old fashioned debate, difference of opinions and good banter...

I have no intention in meeting, let alone shagging, some guy that is too scared to comment in case others dont agree with him....

Never had a problem with people voicing their opinions ....just the 1's that are hell bent on stirring trouble for the fun of it "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

Never had a problem with people voicing their opinions ....just the 1's that are hell bent on stirring trouble for the fun of it

They only stir up trouble if others let them....

People bite, and thats what they want!

You want to put out a fire....Piss all over it "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

sweeteness and light here sending out snogs n gropes xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

Never had a problem with people voicing their opinions ....just the 1's that are hell bent on stirring trouble for the fun of it

They only stir up trouble if others let them....

People bite, and thats what they want!

You want to put out a fire....Piss all over it "

i have came across who have tried but failed miserable to stir up trouble

why well obviously they dont like me

tough.

am here to stay;

if you dont like that then, well you no what to do

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The golden rule of forums should be "If you've nothing nice to say it's best to say nothing at all"

Who wants to speak to people who are moaning and whinging all the time, far less shag them?loads do,to have a difference of opinion is a good thing to just post to get on the good side of the ass lickers is the ones i avoid is there ass lickers in here

( drops pants) lol "

loads of them ,i would rather lick ass in person though

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


".i would rather meet a moaner than a bore though ,makes to more noise in the bedroom

What about when they start criticising your curtains? "

no curtains in the bedroom

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By *UNKIEMan  over a year ago

south east


"

They only stir up trouble if others let them....

People bite, and thats what they want!

You want to put out a fire....Piss all over it "

Your all about peeing this morning ....is there something you wanna tell us

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By *riendly foeWoman  over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"

i have came across who have tried but failed miserable to stir up trouble

why well obviously they dont like me

tough.

am here to stay;

if you dont like that then, well you no what to do

"

So what if people dont like you...

Their problem, not yours

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

happy to come and measure ye fer curtains xxxx

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By *riendly foeWoman  over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"

They only stir up trouble if others let them....

People bite, and thats what they want!

You want to put out a fire....Piss all over it

Your all about peeing this morning ....is there something you wanna tell us "

Yeah.....I really need to pee

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By *UNKIEMan  over a year ago

south east


"

Yeah.....I really need to pee "

Ahh the dreaded girlie bladder

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By *riendly foeWoman  over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"

Yeah.....I really need to pee

Ahh the dreaded girlie bladder "

The dreaded 40+ bladder

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

Never had a problem with people voicing their opinions ....just the 1's that are hell bent on stirring trouble for the fun of it

They only stir up trouble if others let them....

People bite, and thats what they want!

You want to put out a fire....Piss all over it "

never seen you as the watersports type

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By *riendly foeWoman  over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"

never seen you as the watersports type "

Im not very good at it....

Cant quite get the balance...squatting, pulling knickers to side and trying to avoid splash back on the ankles....its not easy!

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By *UNKIEMan  over a year ago

south east


"

never seen you as the watersports type

Im not very good at it....

Cant quite get the balance...squatting, pulling knickers to side and trying to avoid splash back on the ankles....its not easy! "

Is it wrong i gound that slightly arousing

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By *riendly foeWoman  over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"

never seen you as the watersports type

Im not very good at it....

Cant quite get the balance...squatting, pulling knickers to side and trying to avoid splash back on the ankles....its not easy!

Is it wrong i gound that slightly arousing "

LOL.....Very!!!

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By *UNKIEMan  over a year ago

south east


"

never seen you as the watersports type

Im not very good at it....

Cant quite get the balance...squatting, pulling knickers to side and trying to avoid splash back on the ankles....its not easy!

Is it wrong i gound that slightly arousing

LOL.....Very!!! "

oops

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By *cottishsexgoddess OP   Woman  over a year ago

Glenrothes


"

never seen you as the watersports type

Im not very good at it....

Cant quite get the balance...squatting, pulling knickers to side and trying to avoid splash back on the ankles....its not easy!

Is it wrong i gound that slightly arousing

LOL.....Very!!!

oops "

Oops indeed lmao

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Is going on with the Forum? When I first joined nearly 3 years ago, I used to get a good giggle at most of the threads in the forum. Regrettably, in the last few months, I have noticed more irritation, vindictive sniping and "look at me" threads than happy, fun threads. Even the ones that start out as happy, fun, silly threads get hijacked by the snippy brigade. There are a few stalwarts who inject some sense and fun back in, but over all, it's getting really dire. Come on Fabsters, get back to fun, laughter and, if you have to, reasoned debate and stop the sniping, bitching and back stabbing. We are, after all, all grown ups - allegedly!!!

Oh and a Happy Monday morning to you all. "

It's a nice post coming from someone who seems to be nice too. Well said.

I can't help but think though that while its nice I can't see it changing things. If people are not nice, and enjoy putting others down, your threat isn't going to change their character- which I'm sure isn't your intention.

It's a nice idea, to take a post out like this or to spread the love, but maybe another thing that might be an idea is that if some of us see someone getting an unfair hard time to step in and say something? Not really to get involved but a few objective words.

Forum abuse might be like witnessing a crime in the street. Seeing it, doing nothing then complaining about it afterwards. (I know you can ignore and it's just a screen etc)

I'm not asking for help for me, but when I do get it, it does mean a lot, that a total stranger is prepared to go against a lot of others and speak out, which the op has done for me. (thanks again!!)

I don't want to go to any socials etc. I like the fact that it's only people I meet for 121s that know what I look like. I'm sure if some people meet me they might be less quick for digs. Similarly, I have supported some people that I have met on here and other people I've not met.

I know the forums should be about fun but I don't take part in, morning roll calls etc. I'd rather talk about other things and have less clinical debates that haven't been done to death lots of times before.

There's nothing wrong with disagreeing with someone but I think some people do it just too aggressively, when there isn't any need to be so aggressive.

Does anyone else have any ideas that if we see something wrong we should say something too or just let someone fight their own battles themselves and get their forum friends involved? (I know there's the report button which has its place)

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman  over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Is going on with the Forum? When I first joined nearly 3 years ago, I used to get a good giggle at most of the threads in the forum. Regrettably, in the last few months, I have noticed more irritation, vindictive sniping and "look at me" threads than happy, fun threads. Even the ones that start out as happy, fun, silly threads get hijacked by the snippy brigade. There are a few stalwarts who inject some sense and fun back in, but over all, it's getting really dire. Come on Fabsters, get back to fun, laughter and, if you have to, reasoned debate and stop the sniping, bitching and back stabbing. We are, after all, all grown ups - allegedly!!!

Oh and a Happy Monday morning to you all.

It's a nice post coming from someone who seems to be nice too. Well said.

I can't help but think though that while its nice I can't see it changing things. If people are not nice, and enjoy putting others down, your threat isn't going to change their character- which I'm sure isn't your intention.

It's a nice idea, to take a post out like this or to spread the love, but maybe another thing that might be an idea is that if some of us see someone getting an unfair hard time to step in and say something? Not really to get involved but a few objective words.

Forum abuse might be like witnessing a crime in the street. Seeing it, doing nothing then complaining about it afterwards. (I know you can ignore and it's just a screen etc)

I'm not asking for help for me, but when I do get it, it does mean a lot, that a total stranger is prepared to go against a lot of others and speak out, which the op has done for me. (thanks again!!)

I don't want to go to any socials etc. I like the fact that it's only people I meet for 121s that know what I look like. I'm sure if some people meet me they might be less quick for digs. Similarly, I have supported some people that I have met on here and other people I've not met.

I know the forums should be about fun but I don't take part in, morning roll calls etc. I'd rather talk about other things and have less clinical debates that haven't been done to death lots of times before.

There's nothing wrong with disagreeing with someone but I think some people do it just too aggressively, when there isn't any need to be so aggressive.

Does anyone else have any ideas that if we see something wrong we should say something too or just let someone fight their own battles themselves and get their forum friends involved? (I know there's the report button which has its place) "

I totally agree with all you have said, there are lots of people on here who take the moral high ground and spend most of their day shooting down other people who are just trying to have a bit of FUN.

If I saw someone on the forums like you said being personally attacked unfairly by another user yes I would step in and I also wouldn't hesitate to report that user too the report button is there for a reason and more people need to learn to use it when they see this happening .

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By *cottishsexgoddess OP   Woman  over a year ago

Glenrothes

The biggest problem with typing your thoughts etc, is that the tone and inflection never comes across. Unless you know someone having met them either 1-1 or at socials, you have no idea what that person is like or how they talk. I have seen some comments that could be taken badly, but knowing the person concerned, takes the sting out. This media can be great for reaching out to people, as do others, but they can also cause untold misery and hurt, whether intentional or otherwise. I just felt that recently, some threads contained constant digs at others because of past upsets/slights etc. I take the view that if something rotten has happened, it's best to maintain a dignified silence and move on. And on that note, I will take my own advice and shut up! lol

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By *cottishsexgoddess OP   Woman  over a year ago

Glenrothes


"Is going on with the Forum? When I first joined nearly 3 years ago, I used to get a good giggle at most of the threads in the forum. Regrettably, in the last few months, I have noticed more irritation, vindictive sniping and "look at me" threads than happy, fun threads. Even the ones that start out as happy, fun, silly threads get hijacked by the snippy brigade. There are a few stalwarts who inject some sense and fun back in, but over all, it's getting really dire. Come on Fabsters, get back to fun, laughter and, if you have to, reasoned debate and stop the sniping, bitching and back stabbing. We are, after all, all grown ups - allegedly!!!

Oh and a Happy Monday morning to you all.

It's a nice post coming from someone who seems to be nice too. Well said.

I can't help but think though that while its nice I can't see it changing things. If people are not nice, and enjoy putting others down, your threat isn't going to change their character- which I'm sure isn't your intention.

It's a nice idea, to take a post out like this or to spread the love, but maybe another thing that might be an idea is that if some of us see someone getting an unfair hard time to step in and say something? Not really to get involved but a few objective words.

Forum abuse might be like witnessing a crime in the street. Seeing it, doing nothing then complaining about it afterwards. (I know you can ignore and it's just a screen etc)

I'm not asking for help for me, but when I do get it, it does mean a lot, that a total stranger is prepared to go against a lot of others and speak out, which the op has done for me. (thanks again!!)

I don't want to go to any socials etc. I like the fact that it's only people I meet for 121s that know what I look like. I'm sure if some people meet me they might be less quick for digs. Similarly, I have supported some people that I have met on here and other people I've not met.

I know the forums should be about fun but I don't take part in, morning roll calls etc. I'd rather talk about other things and have less clinical debates that haven't been done to death lots of times before.

There's nothing wrong with disagreeing with someone but I think some people do it just too aggressively, when there isn't any need to be so aggressive.

Does anyone else have any ideas that if we see something wrong we should say something too or just let someone fight their own battles themselves and get their forum friends involved? (I know there's the report button which has its place) I totally agree with all you have said, there are lots of people on here who take the moral high ground and spend most of their day shooting down other people who are just trying to have a bit of FUN.

If I saw someone on the forums like you said being personally attacked unfairly by another user yes I would step in and I also wouldn't hesitate to report that user too the report button is there for a reason and more people need to learn to use it when they see this happening . "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The biggest problem with typing your thoughts etc, is that the tone and inflection never comes across. Unless you know someone having met them either 1-1 or at socials, you have no idea what that person is like or how they talk. I have seen some comments that could be taken badly, but knowing the person concerned, takes the sting out. This media can be great for reaching out to people, as do others, but they can also cause untold misery and hurt, whether intentional or otherwise. I just felt that recently, some threads contained constant digs at others because of past upsets/slights etc. I take the view that if something rotten has happened, it's best to maintain a dignified silence and move on. And on that note, I will take my own advice and shut up! lol"
well said

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

never seen you as the watersports type

Im not very good at it....

Cant quite get the balance...squatting, pulling knickers to side and trying to avoid splash back on the ankles....its not easy!

Is it wrong i gound that slightly arousing "

wot he said lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman  over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"The biggest problem with typing your thoughts etc, is that the tone and inflection never comes across. Unless you know someone having met them either 1-1 or at socials, you have no idea what that person is like or how they talk. I have seen some comments that could be taken badly, but knowing the person concerned, takes the sting out. This media can be great for reaching out to people, as do others, but they can also cause untold misery and hurt, whether intentional or otherwise. I just felt that recently, some threads contained constant digs at others because of past upsets/slights etc. I take the view that if something rotten has happened, it's best to maintain a dignified silence and move on. And on that note, I will take my own advice and shut up! lol"
That's the whole point dess, many say they don't see it going on but maybe that's because they don't know the history behind some users who have maybe had a wee falling out and one side tries to have constant digs at people through the forums because thay cant do it in pms because they have blocked each other to most it looks like just banter but as I said if you don't know the history then ul never know .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I swear you lot are using different forums from me and not telling me!!!

totally agree , guess there's not enough of the lets kiss my ass threads for some , or is it just that some have lost their forum flirting appeal "

Find if some folk just do what they are claiming, place would miraculously be fine.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You just can't change people. It the way we are. We just need handle things better But a really good thread goddess x

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By *he Enigmatic MagnetMan  over a year ago

Glasgow West

There are none so blind, as those who will not see.

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By *ustcutieWoman  over a year ago

edinburgh

Ok so who wants a shag

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Ok so who wants a shag "
My dream came true

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By *riendly foeWoman  over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"There are none so blind, as those who will not see."

And there are others staring at screen wondering WTF???

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By *UNKIEMan  over a year ago

south east

WTF???

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By *cottishsexgoddess OP   Woman  over a year ago

Glenrothes


"WTF??? "

I've got the giggles now!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"WTF??? "
WTF???

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Very rarely post in the forums now, just have a quick skim through them. Have noticed a lot of people who used to post don't bother anymore. Most threads get "hijacked" by the same folk, and in our opinion it has just become tedious. Feel it would be better if folk just stuck to threads there interested in, rather than commenting on everything just for the sake of it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The biggest problem with typing your thoughts etc, is that the tone and inflection never comes across. Unless you know someone having met them either 1-1 or at socials, you have no idea what that person is like or how they talk. I have seen some comments that could be taken badly, but knowing the person concerned, takes the sting out. This media can be great for reaching out to people, as do others, but they can also cause untold misery and hurt, whether intentional or otherwise. I just felt that recently, some threads contained constant digs at others because of past upsets/slights etc. I take the view that if something rotten has happened, it's best to maintain a dignified silence and move on. And on that note, I will take my own advice and shut up! lolThat's the whole point dess, many say they don't see it going on but maybe that's because they don't know the history behind some users who have maybe had a wee falling out and one side tries to have constant digs at people through the forums because thay cant do it in pms because they have blocked each other to most it looks like just banter but as I said if you don't know the history then ul never know ."

I will admit, I've only been abusive just once. I never used the report button when I first joined - just lack of experience. I did lose my temper with one guy who had a slight dig but it was like the straw that broke the camels back. Even with someone who can be abusive, sometimes we might not see the background of it or how much someone is provoked.

Anyway, lesson learned. Use the report button. Second lesson, correct someone once then keep a dignified silence.

As long as there is a core group or a few people with manners and respect, then it might make the forums worthwhile regardless of the others and the moral police.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Can't we all just hug it out & have a wee slice of cake? "

Nice

kisses for you!!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Can't we all just hug it out & have a wee slice of cake?

Nice

kisses for you!!!"

Why don't put a wee love spell on.the forum Then we would all love each. Just miss out Foe just in case she fall for me Bokkkk pmsl We can sing the wee song. I put a spell on you lol

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By *riendly foeWoman  over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Rohypnol wouldnt make me fall for you....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Rohypnol wouldnt make me fall for you.... "
Great return your starting to melt I think Or you just getting wet looking at me pmsl lol

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By *riendly foeWoman  over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Yip....wet myself reading all your posts....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yip....wet myself reading all your posts.... "
Your on.a roll to nite Must be all your bananas you eating You are eating them.lol xx

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By *riendly foeWoman  over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

I have my one banana a day.....but not on a roll....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I have my one banana a day.....but not on a roll.... "
You lucky girl Do you stop talk when it in your mouth by chance lol

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By *riendly foeWoman  over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

When have you ever heard me talk??

Quiet as a mouse when im logged in here

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"When have you ever heard me talk??

Quiet as a mouse when im logged in here "

Never my ears could not take that for long lol I love the wee faces now lol.

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By *ustlovesexMan  over a year ago

Wishaw

I dunno what all the fuss is about.

I quite like women moaning, esp if I'm the cause.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I dunno what all the fuss is about.

I quite like women moaning, esp if I'm the cause. "

I take you like S and M then lol

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By *ohnny4playMan  over a year ago

Kinross


"Very rarely post in the forums now, just have a quick skim through them. Have noticed a lot of people who used to post don't bother anymore. Most threads get "hijacked" by the same folk, and in our opinion it has just become tedious. Feel it would be better if folk just stuck to threads there interested in, rather than commenting on everything just for the sake of it. "

I also used to be on more, but like you now get tired of it all and shy away from adding fuel to fires that should never have started from a difference of opinion. So consequently seldom comment.

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By *eatherWoman  over a year ago

glasgow

my blisters burst just thought i would let everyone know know its no what this thread is about but some one asked earlier

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By *ola cubesMan  over a year ago

coatbridge

refrains from comment those who know me know my views thats what counts

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Has the sipping stopped and the fun began? If so I'll raise my head and say hi all I'm only here for the fun part...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Has the sipping stopped and the fun began? If so I'll raise my head and say hi all I'm only here for the fun part... "

Or sniping .. Lol

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By *cottishsexgoddess OP   Woman  over a year ago

Glenrothes


"Has the sipping stopped and the fun began? If so I'll raise my head and say hi all I'm only here for the fun part... "

Sipping? Who has the cocktails then? I'm just in the mood for one

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Very rarely post in the forums now, just have a quick skim through them. Have noticed a lot of people who used to post don't bother anymore. Most threads get "hijacked" by the same folk, and in our opinion it has just become tedious. Feel it would be better if folk just stuck to threads there interested in, rather than commenting on everything just for the sake of it. "
I been here on and off for about 2 years I don't really see a change here Last year at this time we had two groups of women who bitch to each other all the time We had shag kiss or what ever going then People leave the site new people come in. The forum is what you make it. Don't side at the side and moan get back on post some threads. A thread starts and no one can really tell were it will lead that is just the way it goes It not change check back look at old threads. And join back in xxxx The main player here are just the same as every year guys

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" Why don't put a wee love spell on.the forum Then we would all love each. Just miss out Foe just in case she fall for me Bokkkk pmsl We can sing the wee song. I put a spell on you lol "

Never do love spells. LOL (I watched to many "twilight zone" episodes.)

Seriously....just like we need night and day, so do we need good and bad.

examples of bad show us wot we dont want to be like and to feel sorry for those that hurt inside and feel the need to share that hurt.

It give us an opportunity to reflect on ourselves on a daily basis....and hopeful seek self improvement.

Like "Love and Hate", Sun and Moon, Light and Dark, angels and demons, summer and winter.....we always need both in our lives.

(do I sound like Obi wan Kenobi or more like Yoda.....He is at least green)

Kisses,

Nessarosa

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By *cottishsexgoddess OP   Woman  over a year ago

Glenrothes

Thanks to all who contributed to this thread and in such a positive, non bitchy, sniping way. I was encouraged and had a few giggles too. Happy Fabbing to all xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Been handcuffed to a bed the past 2 days,, might have something to do with it, owww sore wrists !!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Thanks to all who contributed to this thread and in such a positive, non bitchy, sniping way. I was encouraged and had a few giggles too. Happy Fabbing to all xxxxx"

Pleasure. Thank you for posting it. X

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