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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do you think by belittling other people, it will make you feel better about your self I see a lot of this here By women and men We all got faults ,we not all got perfect body,s As in the real world there are nice ppl and nasty ppl So plz stop it now And let have a bit of in our life guys  |
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Im pretty sure it does go on but sometimes people are too sensitive and when a comment is made its not taken with the intention it was given ie in banter..some people do go out of their way to try and belittle but more often than not id say it just people being overly sensitive .
The written word never comes across in the same way as a face to face conversation where you can see facial expressions and here the tone in which its being said . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Im pretty sure it does go on but sometimes people are too sensitive and when a comment is made its not taken with the intention it was given ie in banter..some people do go out of their way to try and belittle but more often than not id say it just people being overly sensitive .
The written word never comes across in the same way as a face to face conversation where you can see facial expressions and here the tone in which its being said ."
Yes good point And I am the first to say I get thinks wrong But in other a dig is a dig xx And maybe as you have pointed out to the forum I am getting old lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Do you not think that by talking of 'belittling' people, could perhaps be doing it to yourself?
Some apologies can be really worthwhile, if it's aimed at decent people. Really, some people on here are really not worth bothering about. You seem decent to me. Don't put yourself down and apologise so often. If you do feel the need to apologise, it might be an idea to do it privately.
As for your post, I've said similiar things myself and just because it's not within the last few posts doesn't mean it doesn't exist. If at least two people say it, there must be some credence in it and it's nothing to do, with me, being too sensitive. It's just being aware of the way some people behave. (I know there is the report button but that can take time to work, understandably)
You do look fitter than some guys half your age. In other words, dont let some folk bother you. Try and keep a dignified silence. Just listen to the people who do like you and concentrate on that.
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"Do you not think that by talking of 'belittling' people, could perhaps be doing it to yourself?
Some apologies can be really worthwhile, if it's aimed at decent people. Really, some people on here are really not worth bothering about. You seem decent to me. Don't put yourself down and apologise so often. If you do feel the need to apologise, it might be an idea to do it privately.
As for your post, I've said similiar things myself and just because it's not within the last few posts doesn't mean it doesn't exist. If at least two people say it, there must be some credence in it and it's nothing to do, with me, being too sensitive. It's just being aware of the way some people behave. (I know there is the report button but that can take time to work, understandably)
You do look fitter than some guys half your age. In other words, dont let some folk bother you. Try and keep a dignified silence. Just listen to the people who do like you and concentrate on that.
Good luck "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Do you not think that by talking of 'belittling' people, could perhaps be doing it to yourself?
Some apologies can be really worthwhile, if it's aimed at decent people. Really, some people on here are really not worth bothering about. You seem decent to me. Don't put yourself down and apologise so often. If you do feel the need to apologise, it might be an idea to do it privately.
As for your post, I've said similiar things myself and just because it's not within the last few posts doesn't mean it doesn't exist. If at least two people say it, there must be some credence in it and it's nothing to do, with me, being too sensitive. It's just being aware of the way some people behave. (I know there is the report button but that can take time to work, understandably)
You do look fitter than some guys half your age. In other words, dont let some folk bother you. Try and keep a dignified silence. Just listen to the people who do like you and concentrate on that.
Good luck "
Thank you.for you nice words And I lot of them are right I do put myself down a lot Something I have try to work on But some days it just goes out the window But really thank you for your kind words xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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nice ?? "some people are really not worth bothering about" ?
my advice would be to post up your opinions...beware of trying to convey second hand opinions.
im nae detective... but the word "beliittling" jumped out at me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you not think that by talking of 'belittling' people, could perhaps be doing it to yourself?
Some apologies can be really worthwhile, if it's aimed at decent people. Really, some people on here are really not worth bothering about. You seem decent to me. Don't put yourself down and apologise so often. If you do feel the need to apologise, it might be an idea to do it privately.
As for your post, I've said similiar things myself and just because it's not within the last few posts doesn't mean it doesn't exist. If at least two people say it, there must be some credence in it and it's nothing to do, with me, being too sensitive. It's just being aware of the way some people behave. (I know there is the report button but that can take time to work, understandably)
You do look fitter than some guys half your age. In other words, dont let some folk bother you. Try and keep a dignified silence. Just listen to the people who do like you and concentrate on that.
Good luck Thank you.for you nice words And I lot of them are right I do put myself down a lot Something I have try to work on But some days it just goes out the window But really thank you for your kind words xxx"
You are welcome. I can be nice, if I'm dealing with nice people. As for putting yourself down, don't- there are plenty on here who can do that for you. Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Inherently the ones that give usually can't take. Personally I don't give a f**k cos if you reach out and touch the screen that's all it is ..... These rooms arent real life usually filled with shallow self indulgenf ppl with the exception of a very few.  |
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"Inherently the ones that give usually can't take. Personally I don't give a f**k cos if you reach out and touch the screen that's all it is ..... These rooms arent real life usually filled with shallow self indulgenf ppl with the exception of a very few. "
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
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If you cant handle the forums then maybe its time to step away and take a break.....
Why let people you dont know and are never going to meet get to you??
Most love the "banter"....but there are a select few that just cant take it....  |
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"If you cant handle the forums then maybe its time to step away and take a break.....
Why let people you dont know and are never going to meet get to you??
Most love the "banter"....but there are a select few that just cant take it.... "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you cant handle the forums then maybe its time to step away and take a break.....
Why let people you dont know and are never going to meet get to you??
Most love the "banter"....but there are a select few that just cant take it.... "
couldnt have put it better |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If you cant handle the forums then maybe its time to step away and take a break.....
Why let people you dont know and are never going to meet get to you??
Most love the "banter"....but there are a select few that just cant take it.... "
Who me I would not say that me But that up you Foe lol xxx |
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
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" Who me I would not say that me But that up you Foe lol xxx"
It is a general statement to anyone using the forums....
And yes, I would say that is you....and as you said, its up to me read others the way I see it and not how others tell me to see it.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you cant handle the forums then maybe its time to step away and take a break.....
Why let people you dont know and are never going to meet get to you??
Most love the "banter"....but there are a select few that just cant take it.... "
I can see your point of view about stepping back, but why should someone 'step away', especially if that person has not done something wrong. It would only give some people more arrogance and confidence about targeting and having digs at someone.
My opinions are based on 5 years of using fab and not what has happened today or yesterday. I'd love to have a completely uncensored hour or two that would allow me to name and shame, and not be so restricted by trying to be polite all the time and really have a big ding-dong with some people.
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
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I can see your point of view about stepping back, but why should someone 'step away', especially if that person has not done something wrong. It would only give some people more arrogance and confidence about targeting and having digs at someone.
My opinions are based on 5 years of using fab and not what has happened today or yesterday. I'd love to have a completely uncensored hour or two that would allow me to name and shame, and not be so restricted by trying to be polite all the time and really have a big ding-dong with some people.
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I would be the first to say "Dont let them win" IF someone was being given a hard time on here!
But as I have said before on numerous occasions, I have not seen any "belittling, abusive behaviour" towards anyone on here that hasnt been dealt with by admin/mods...
Im talking about the sensitive souls that cant take the harmless banter that goes on in here.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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5 year user here to and times change some get braver some use their cliques to gang up on some and when its given back they are the poor souls!
Sometimes just reading forums and seeing who is belittling who isnt all as it seems ,most happen out with and end as a song and dance on here .
I only ever say in here what i would say to ones face ,sometimes it comes across as wrong but thats text for you .
As for doing nothing wrong there is a few that try to pull the wool over everyones eyes and make this seem the case ,one day they will be faced in person and made to look like the fools they are  |
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
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"5 year user here to and times change some get braver some use their cliques to gang up on some and when its given back they are the poor souls!
Sometimes just reading forums and seeing who is belittling who isnt all as it seems ,most happen out with and end as a song and dance on here .
I only ever say in here what i would say to ones face ,sometimes it comes across as wrong but thats text for you .
As for doing nothing wrong there is a few that try to pull the wool over everyones eyes and make this seem the case ,one day they will be faced in person and made to look like the fools they are "
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By (user no longer on site)
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" If that is the case we be better packing up and going home There is some nice ppl on here and some not Just the same in real life We all have good and bad day But that just what I think guys. 
Two day,s a go I would have made a flirty remark now to you But now I feel uneasy about doing so xxx
Ok so what have I done to make you feel like that? Nothing I still dream of you I won't last I be flirting again soon it in my blood It never leaves And when I see a beautiful young woman It all come out And you match my every need xxx"
I thought I had done something wrong to justify the I'm not flirting with you x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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" Who me I would not say that me But that up you Foe lol xxx
It is a general statement to anyone using the forums....
And yes, I would say that is you....and as you said, its up to me read others the way I see it and not how others tell me to see it...."
Don't you worry about me Foe I will hold my own with any man or woman here We don't really get on that well but that fine with me If other people can stand up when they are wrong it would be a better place I will take banner all day long But some people cross the line And if you don't see it you better get to spec savers xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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" If that is the case we be better packing up and going home There is some nice ppl on here and some not Just the same in real life We all have good and bad day But that just what I think guys.
Two day,s a go I would have made a flirty remark now to you But now I feel uneasy about doing so xxx
Ok so what have I done to make you feel like that? Nothing I still dream of you I won't last I be flirting again soon it in my blood It never leaves And when I see a beautiful young woman It all come out And you match my every need xxx
I thought I had done something wrong to justify the I'm not flirting with you x"
I would run over hot coal to flirt with you What man would not xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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i could understand this belittling...abusive claim,,,if there was a prime recent stand out example of it anywhere. there is'nt. Yet as per...folk load it up with daft agreement and put bells on to something that currently is not in existance!
Think its called creating an arguement out of nothing. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"i could understand this belittling...abusive claim,,,if there was a prime recent stand out example of it anywhere. there is'nt. Yet as per...folk load it up with daft agreement and put bells on to something that currently is not in existance!
Think its called creating an arguement out of nothing."
Well as I said in a other thread Mine is sorted with the person That the way I do thing I am not saying I am right or wrong Or people can bitch behind people back That not me And everything is fine now bud |
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
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"Don't you worry about me Foe I will hold my own with any man or woman here We don't really get on that well but that fine with me If other people can stand up when they are wrong it would be a better place I will take banner all day long But some people cross the line And if you don't see it you better get to spec savers xxxx"
Im not worried about you in any way shape or form...
And my eyesight is fine TY... |
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By *riendly foeWoman
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"i could understand this belittling...abusive claim,,,if there was a prime recent stand out example of it anywhere. there is'nt. Yet as per...folk load it up with daft agreement and put bells on to something that currently is not in existance!
Think its called creating an arguement out of nothing."
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Why is there this thread, and the all sorted thread by the same OP. Now, as the kiss and make up rhread came last, is there really any resolution here, or are. people just keeping this going for a moan or an argument, or is it the dreaded attention seeking? Whatever the reason, it's getting very tedious. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Why is there this thread, and the all sorted thread by the same OP. Now, as the kiss and make up rhread came last, is there really any resolution here, or are. people just keeping this going for a moan or an argument, or is it the dreaded attention seeking? Whatever the reason, it's getting very tedious."
Think you just post on it mate if you don't like it pass it by That what I do
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By (user no longer on site)
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" If that is the case we be better packing up and going home There is some nice ppl on here and some not Just the same in real life We all have good and bad day But that just what I think guys.
Two day,s a go I would have made a flirty remark now to you But now I feel uneasy about doing so xxx
Ok so what have I done to make you feel like that? Nothing I still dream of you I won't last I be flirting again soon it in my blood It never leaves And when I see a beautiful young woman It all come out And you match my every need xxx
I thought I had done something wrong to justify the I'm not flirting with you xI would run over hot coal to flirt with you What man would not xxxx"
Thank you. Your flirting seems to be coming back. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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" If that is the case we be better packing up and going home There is some nice ppl on here and some not Just the same in real life We all have good and bad day But that just what I think guys.
Two day,s a go I would have made a flirty remark now to you But now I feel uneasy about doing so xxx
Ok so what have I done to make you feel like that? Nothing I still dream of you I won't last I be flirting again soon it in my blood It never leaves And when I see a beautiful young woman It all come out And you match my every need xxx
I thought I had done something wrong to justify the I'm not flirting with you xI would run over hot coal to flirt with you What man would not xxxx
Thank you. Your flirting seems to be coming back. "
slowly Think it you making my heart beat again and butterfly in my stomach That what you do to me xxxx |
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I would run over hot coal to flirt with you What man would not xxxx
Thank you. Your flirting seems to be coming back. slowly Think it you making my heart beat again and butterfly in my stomach That what you do to me xxxx "
Ok Romeo your getting too good now x |
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I would run over hot coal to flirt with you What man would not xxxx
Thank you. Your flirting seems to be coming back. slowly Think it you making my heart beat again and butterfly in my stomach That what you do to me xxxx
Ok Romeo your getting too good now x"
Not nearly as good as I can be lol xxx Your a good sport And a beautiful looking young woman Your man is very luck he,s got you to look at every day xxxx |
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"Why is there this thread.... it's getting very tedious.
Well said that man "
The guy is perfectly entitled to post whatever he likes as often as he likes (as long as its within the rules)
Can you imagine what it would be like if we all see posts we don't like, don't understand, or not interested in, and everyone said 'why is there this post....it's getting very tedious'. (I would be here 24/7 questioning peoples right and choice)
If you don't like it and have nothing to add - why don't you start your own post. Then give us the chance to say "why is this post here....it's very tedious'. |
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"Why is there this thread.... it's getting very tedious.
Well said that man
The guy is perfectly entitled to post whatever he likes as often as he likes (as long as its within the rules)
Can you imagine what it would be like if we all see posts we don't like, don't understand, or not interested in, and everyone said 'why is there this post....it's getting very tedious'. (I would be here 24/7 questioning peoples right and choice)
If you don't like it and have nothing to add - why don't you start your own post. Then give us the chance to say "why is this post here....it's very tedious'."
Thank you |
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"Why is there this thread.... it's getting very tedious.
Well said that man
The guy is perfectly entitled to post whatever he likes as often as he likes (as long as its within the rules)
Can you imagine what it would be like if we all see posts we don't like, don't understand, or not interested in, and everyone said 'why is there this post....it's getting very tedious'. (I would be here 24/7 questioning peoples right and choice)
If you don't like it and have nothing to add - why don't you start your own post. Then give us the chance to say "why is this post here....it's very tedious'. Thank you "
Cheers. Just another example of someone sitting on the sidelines, doing nothing, then winging.
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I would run over hot coal to flirt with you What man would not xxxx
Thank you. Your flirting seems to be coming back. slowly Think it you making my heart beat again and butterfly in my stomach That what you do to me xxxx
Ok Romeo your getting too good now xNot nearly as good as I can be lol xxx Your a good sport And a beautiful looking young woman Your man is very luck he,s got you to look at every day xxxx"
You haven't seen me in the morning  |
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I would run over hot coal to flirt with you What man would not xxxx
Thank you. Your flirting seems to be coming back. slowly Think it you making my heart beat again and butterfly in my stomach That what you do to me xxxx
Ok Romeo your getting too good now xNot nearly as good as I can be lol xxx Your a good sport And a beautiful looking young woman Your man is very luck he,s got you to look at every day xxxx
You haven't seen me in the morning "
I tend to think ayrshire woman are rather nice in the morning but mind thats only and i mean only my opinion |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I would run over hot coal to flirt with you What man would not xxxx
Thank you. Your flirting seems to be coming back. slowly Think it you making my heart beat again and butterfly in my stomach That what you do to me xxxx
Ok Romeo your getting too good now xNot nearly as good as I can be lol xxx Your a good sport And a beautiful looking young woman Your man is very luck he,s got you to look at every day xxxx
You haven't seen me in the morning "
Now your teasing me You would be like a ray of sunshine in the morning xxxx |
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I would run over hot coal to flirt with you What man would not xxxx
Thank you. Your flirting seems to be coming back. slowly Think it you making my heart beat again and butterfly in my stomach That what you do to me xxxx
Ok Romeo your getting too good now xNot nearly as good as I can be lol xxx Your a good sport And a beautiful looking young woman Your man is very luck he,s got you to look at every day xxxx
You haven't seen me in the morning
I tend to think ayrshire woman are rather nice in the morning but mind thats only and i mean only my opinion "
I don't speak until I have had a shower so I suppose it could be nice |
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I would run over hot coal to flirt with you What man would not xxxx
Thank you. Your flirting seems to be coming back. slowly Think it you making my heart beat again and butterfly in my stomach That what you do to me xxxx
Ok Romeo your getting too good now xNot nearly as good as I can be lol xxx Your a good sport And a beautiful looking young woman Your man is very luck he,s got you to look at every day xxxx
You haven't seen me in the morning Now your teasing me You would be like a ray of sunshine in the morning xxxx"
More like death rays  |
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I would run over hot coal to flirt with you What man would not xxxx
Thank you. Your flirting seems to be coming back. slowly Think it you making my heart beat again and butterfly in my stomach That what you do to me xxxx
Ok Romeo your getting too good now xNot nearly as good as I can be lol xxx Your a good sport And a beautiful looking young woman Your man is very luck he,s got you to look at every day xxxx
You haven't seen me in the morning
I tend to think ayrshire woman are rather nice in the morning but mind thats only and i mean only my opinion
I don't speak until I have had a shower so I suppose it could be nice "
Thats does work both ways only my opinion |
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I tend to think ayrshire woman are rather nice in the morning but mind thats only and i mean only my opinion
Thats does work both ways only my opinion "
What's the only my opinion disclaimer for? |
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I would run over hot coal to flirt with you What man would not xxxx
Thank you. Your flirting seems to be coming back. slowly Think it you making my heart beat again and butterfly in my stomach That what you do to me xxxx
Ok Romeo your getting too good now xNot nearly as good as I can be lol xxx Your a good sport And a beautiful looking young woman Your man is very luck he,s got you to look at every day xxxx
You haven't seen me in the morning Now your teasing me You would be like a ray of sunshine in the morning xxxx
More like death rays "
Well that would be some way to go My last nite on earth spent with a lovely lady Now that would heaven xxxx |
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I tend to think ayrshire woman are rather nice in the morning but mind thats only and i mean only my opinion
Thats does work both ways only my opinion
What's the only my opinion disclaimer for? "
Just incase people think i cant speak for myself as i am normally banished to the sidelines |
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"Why is there this thread.... it's getting very tedious.
Well said that man
The guy is perfectly entitled to post whatever he likes as often as he likes (as long as its within the rules)
Can you imagine what it would be like if we all see posts we don't like, don't understand, or not interested in, and everyone said 'why is there this post....it's getting very tedious'. (I would be here 24/7 questioning peoples right and choice)
If you don't like it and have nothing to add - why don't you start your own post. Then give us the chance to say "why is this post here....it's very tedious'. Thank you
Cheers. Just another example of someone sitting on the sidelines, doing nothing, then winging.
If I see injustice, I strike out at it! "
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