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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

See what everones views are, what do you prefer looks or personality.

Me personally it's always personality, looks come second. Been with a few people who are gorgeous but there is no connection at all and been with a few people who now I would call my best friends.

What your views lets discuss LOL no doubt it'll be over run by somethig else......Kelly Brooke lol xx

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By *UNKIEMan  over a year ago

south east

I'm greedy i want the whole package

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"See what everones views are, what do you prefer looks or personality.

Me personally it's always personality, looks come second. Been with a few people who are gorgeous but there is no connection at all and been with a few people who now I would call my best friends.

What your views lets discuss LOL no doubt it'll be over run by somethig else......Kelly Brooke lol xx"

I say your spot on I have been with some gorgeous And they were like being with a dead fish It all about that click no click then it no good for me bud

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Anno m8

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By *riendly foeWoman  over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

When on here we go by looks because we see face pics first before anything...

Cannot judge personality just with a profile and a few messages.....

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By *oxy_minxWoman  over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Both here! Attraction first and foremost but there has to be a connection as well

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Probably shallow I know but looks usually pull you in first but there needs to be a personality present. Occasionally you find yourself attracted to somone you've known for a while because their personality has grown on you.

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By *riendly foeWoman  over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

I wouldnt say looks always come 2nd....

Have met guys with a fantastic personality and funny as....

But if im not attracted to his looks...Its never going to happen....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Both here! Attraction first and foremost but there has to be a connection as well "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

personality is 1st

then looks

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"When on here we go by looks because we see face pics first before anything...

Cannot judge personality just with a profile and a few messages....."

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By *andsCouple  over a year ago

Edin

Looks ..... thats what initially draws us to the people, dont want to marry then just shag them x

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By *ola cubesMan  over a year ago

coatbridge

weirdo here i dont even look at pics or cams spend ages getting to know people so for me its definatly personality by the time i see pics or meet already have a great idea about the person anyways

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By *ndykayMan  over a year ago

Falkirk

Looks are an attraction, however if there's no spark between me and a lady then it's not going to happen - so I think personality is probably more important but looks have to be in the mix too.

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By *andACouple  over a year ago

glasgow

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By *andACouple  over a year ago

glasgow

I've gotta say, whenever I see these threads on here I find the answers given by single guys is pretty different from my experience in the 'real world'.

Not that I'm suggesting there's an ulterior motive

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I've gotta say, whenever I see these threads on here I find the answers given by single guys is pretty different from my experience in the 'real world'.

Not that I'm suggesting there's an ulterior motive "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I've gotta say, whenever I see these threads on here I find the answers given by single guys is pretty different from my experience in the 'real world'.

Not that I'm suggesting there's an ulterior motive "

Like what I have been here over a year meet some women Done socials And by the way shag once So what are you suggesting to me guys

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By *andACouple  over a year ago

glasgow

Didn't think it would need spelt out but I'll give it a go

1) In my experience guys, especially where no strings sex is concerned, are unlikely to turn down a very attractive girl claiming that her personality isn't up to scratch.

2) Many guys will generally struggle to get meets on here due to the huge number of single guys and the ability of single fems and couples to be more selective.

3) Given point 2, it's interesting to note that females and couples seem to be more open about admitting how important looks/ physical attraction is.

4) Many guys want to avoid the possibility of being accused of being shallow and concerned only about looks. They also want to be seen as nice/ open minded/ approachable etc etc. These are qualities that may increase the possibility of meets.

5) This is a tricky one and may be controversial but....... many guys will lower their normal standards as far as looks are concerned, when it comes to meeting for NSA sex. They wouldn't date, or sometimes even be seen in public with, someone they would meet from fab for some nsa sex. Could post more about this one but at the end of the day if both parties are happy with the situation then it's not doing any harm.

* Disclaimer - Note at no point did the above points say 'all guys'

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By *oxy_minxWoman  over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Didn't think it would need spelt out but I'll give it a go

1) In my experience guys, especially where no strings sex is concerned, are unlikely to turn down a very attractive girl claiming that her personality isn't up to scratch.

2) Many guys will generally struggle to get meets on here due to the huge number of single guys and the ability of single fems and couples to be more selective.

3) Given point 2, it's interesting to note that females and couples seem to be more open about admitting how important looks/ physical attraction is.

4) Many guys want to avoid the possibility of being accused of being shallow and concerned only about looks. They also want to be seen as nice/ open minded/ approachable etc etc. These are qualities that may increase the possibility of meets.

5) This is a tricky one and may be controversial but....... many guys will lower their normal standards as far as looks are concerned, when it comes to meeting for NSA sex. They wouldn't date, or sometimes even be seen in public with, someone they would meet from fab for some nsa sex. Could post more about this one but at the end of the day if both parties are happy with the situation then it's not doing any harm.

* Disclaimer - Note at no point did the above points say 'all guys' "

I agree to all of the above!! And it has been admitted to me on more than one occasion

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Didn't think it would need spelt out but I'll give it a go

1) In my experience guys, especially where no strings sex is concerned, are unlikely to turn down a very attractive girl claiming that her personality isn't up to scratch.

2) Many guys will generally struggle to get meets on here due to the huge number of single guys and the ability of single fems and couples to be more selective.

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3) Given point 2, it's interesting to note that females and couples seem to be more open about admitting how important looks/ physical attraction is.

4) Many guys want to avoid the possibility of being accused of being shallow and concerned only about looks. They also want to be seen as nice/ open minded/ approachable etc etc. These are qualities that may increase the possibility of meets.

5) This is a tricky one and may be controversial but....... many guys will lower their normal standards as far as looks are concerned, when it comes to meeting for NSA sex. They wouldn't date, or sometimes even be seen in public with, someone they would meet from fab for some nsa sex. Could post more about this one but at the end of the day if both parties are happy with the situation then it's not doing any harm.

* Disclaimer - Note at no point did the above points say 'all guys' "

The last bit is fine with me. And all the others are fine to xx

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By *he Enigmatic MagnetMan  over a year ago

Glasgow West

If it came down to personality, Bru would be innudated with women!

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