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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well , been a while since I posted.
I am what you would class as TOP, this does not not mean I am mean ,bitchy or selfish so why do people think as TOP has to be any of those? SheesH ,normal is what I am !!!! I like to spank,whip & cane people ,cause that's what my sadistic side needs and I the ying to your yang !
Who really thinks a TOP has to mean,cruel and princess ???? ??  |
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"Well , been a while since I posted.
I am what you would class as TOP, this does not not mean I am mean ,bitchy or selfish so why do people think as TOP has to be any of those? SheesH ,normal is what I am !!!! I like to spank,whip & cane people ,cause that's what my sadistic side needs and I the ying to your yang !
Who really thinks a TOP has to mean,cruel and princess ???? ?? "
I think you mean DOMME? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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No . I donot class myself as a Domme , I class myself as a TOP . I am not a Mistress or Dominatrix . People donot seem to understand the difference on here ! I have a very nice sadistic side to my nature ,it pleases me to cause pain . I donot think anyone is beneath me . I am the ying to their yang  Everyone needs an opposite surely ???? |
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"No . I donot class myself as a Domme , I class myself as a TOP . I am not a Mistress or Dominatrix . People donot seem to understand the difference on here ! I have a very nice sadistic side to my nature ,it pleases me to cause pain . I donot think anyone is beneath me . I am the ying to their yang Everyone needs an opposite surely ????"
Domme, as a contraction of Dominatrix? Had the connection escaped you?
As Foe says, Top & Bottom are primarily gay/bi male terms. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No . I donot class myself as a Domme , I class myself as a TOP . I am not a Mistress or Dominatrix . People donot seem to understand the difference on here ! I have a very nice sadistic side to my nature ,it pleases me to cause pain . I donot think anyone is beneath me . I am the ying to their yang Everyone needs an opposite surely ????
Domme, as a contraction of Dominatrix? Had the connection escaped you?
As Foe says, Top & Bottom are primarily gay/bi male terms."
Aww, but I want to be classed as versatile... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Why do people think TOPS have to be men and gay ? I am who I am , not a bitch ,not a domme ,just someone who enjoys the delight of causing a bit of pain and whatever else comes my way .I have a sadistic side ( don't all women in one way or another ?) I like men to be men ,but if they have a masochistic side all the better  Afterall all you guys really know who is the boss !!! |
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
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"Why do people think TOPS have to be men and gay ?"
Because a TOP is a person who engages in the penetrative role in sexual intercourse....
Your into sadomasochism....thats completely different.... |
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"Why do people think TOPS have to be men and gay ? I am who I am , not a bitch ,not a domme ,just someone who enjoys the delight of causing a bit of pain and whatever else comes my way .I have a sadistic side ( don't all women in one way or another ?) I like men to be men ,but if they have a masochistic side all the better Afterall all you guys really know who is the boss !!! "
You just seem to want a different vocabulary from everyone else. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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WoW , don't you just love the little boxes people put you into ! I do also own a few strapons of various sizes so therefore if I want to I CAN penetrate !
Hate to say it but the internet really has managed to make people misunderstand so much ! |
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
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Put it this way....
IF i was into what you are describing, id much prefer the box of sadomasochism than TOP.....
If you want to be a TOP, you be one...
But dont get annoyed when people dont understand what you mean...
Im going with what the internet tells me, that its a gay/bi male thing...Penned by gay/bi men.... |
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I know some women with dominant side and tendencies that prefer to use top as their orientation, some just kinkster-it's a personal view of how you feel what describes you. Yes top and bottom are most commonly referred to in the gay and bi sense but it can and is used in other contexts too in the kink community. |
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"WoW , don't you just love the little boxes people put you into ! I do also own a few strapons of various sizes so therefore if I want to I CAN penetrate !
Hate to say it but the internet really has managed to make people misunderstand so much ! "
Thank the Great God of Fab for the block button. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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This place is full of people who don't know what's going on ....or for that matter what's not going on ...cor blimey ! An' i'm not even english hahhah.
Just enjoy what you enjoy and stop putting people in boxes . It's tiresome !
I am what I am and I need no excuses - name that song !!!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Everyone can be what they want to be - surely that's the joy of LIFE !!!!
Never known so many people who say
they're open-minded but really are not !
Fck I can hear Depeche Mode calling - so openminded ! Give them a go !!!  |
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"This place is full of people who don't know what's going on ....or for that matter what's not going on ...cor blimey ! An' i'm not even english hahhah.
Just enjoy what you enjoy and stop putting people in boxes . It's tiresome !
I am what I am and I need no excuses - name that song !!!!! "
You were the one who defined yourself and put yourself into a box. |
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