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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi just wanted opinions on meeting for fun , we have went down the meet for social no fun route first but wonder is it best to throw ourselves into deep end as finding time for meets is tight as it is .  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a couple....
The best ones have been without socials first....
Face pics, quick chat....go for it!
But only you can decide which is better for you both  "
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By *andsCouple
over a year ago
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"As a couple....
The best ones have been without socials first....
Face pics, quick chat....go for it!
But only you can decide which is better for you both "
I agree .... having done both we now tend to stick to this, we don't want to be best pals with people and know their life stories just mutual fun. Good luck on what you decide x |
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"As a couple we only ever meet up for fun straight away. Mostly because we don't get the chance very often to arrange meets. "
spot on! Im the same...the whole point of the site is to engage in some "fab swinging" if social times are had & friendships made along the way then all the better but it's ultimately a somewhat secondary ultimatum of the site...although you wouldnt think so by the attitude of some folk who find it offensive that one should be on a swinging site for swinging lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a couple we only ever meet up for fun straight away. Mostly because we don't get the chance very often to arrange meets. spot on! Im the same...the whole point of the site is to engage in some "fab swinging" if social times are had & friendships made along the way then all the better but it's ultimately a somewhat secondary ultimatum of the site...although you wouldnt think so by the attitude of some folk who find it offensive that one should be on a swinging site for swinging lol"
Then that just a shag site as i see it bud  |
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"We started out thinking friendship route would be nice but things tend to stray away from fun when you do . "
friendship is nice...but your right that if the focus becomes more about friendship than about fun then it can somewhat defeat the purpose of the site ...it's all about having am effective balance to suit the individuals involved  x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We started out thinking friendship route would be nice but things tend to stray away from fun when you do . friendship is nice...but your right that if the focus becomes more about friendship than about fun then it can somewhat defeat the purpose of the site ...it's all about having am effective balance to suit the individuals involved x"
May I ask...what.."Swinging" means to you? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Very true , in the end this is a swinging site yet find a lot of people offended by mentioning sex ! Were happily married and after a little extra excitement .I'm sure 99% of genuine couples on here are after the same thing ?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Answer as a couple was what we wanted thanks . We understand if someone is swinging as single female for example there is greater security risks for meeting etc . |
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