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By *ohn890 OP Man
over a year ago
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A number of profiles i notice ask for a pic on first message or they will delete! However do not display one themselves.
Is it not a bit rich to ask for a face pic when the profile they display has an ass for instance but no other way of telling who the person is on the profile ?
I have no pic displayed other than in private which i send after chatting but first message really? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I generally won't reply to messages without a face pic purely cause I find it really awkward a few messages down the line if they're not my type. I think it's best to get the face pic exchange out of the way early... If I message someone first, I always attach my face picture. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A number of profiles i notice ask for a pic on first message or they will delete! However do not display one themselves.
Is it not a bit rich to ask for a face pic when the profile they display has an ass for instance but no other way of telling who the person is on the profile ?
I have no pic displayed other than in private which i send after chatting but first message really?"
Without being in the know I would say that being a guy you will have much more chance of a reply if you have a pic up.
In lead to believe most women and couples can get never ending e-mails daily so I'd hazard a guess that without any pics your message could get deleted without even being read.
For what it's worth even having pics up doesn't guarantee a reply
Although having a face like a well skelped arse isn't helping my cause
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A number of profiles i notice ask for a pic on first message or they will delete! However do not display one themselves.
Is it not a bit rich to ask for a face pic when the profile they display has an ass for instance but no other way of telling who the person is on the profile ?
I have no pic displayed other than in private which i send after chatting but first message really?"
I think women are probably quite right to ask for face pics asap.
If they are getting lots of mail all at once then messages with a non cock pic helps them to decide who to meet or answer.
Some people like to be discreet and safe and it's impractical for every women to have her face pic on public display. Especially with some men who are not right in the head or vindictive if women don't drop their panties asap to them.
I'd imagine most women have face pics or enough showing for one to have a good idea of what they look like.
Single women, usually younger women, have kids at home and need to be extra safe and discreet with childcare. Single men and divorced guys have this issue less often.
I expect most women have a life and dont want to spend time answering the same questions all day, every day from strangers. Especially when they discover 20 mails down the line the guy admits he had no pics, excuses: I'm married. No pics on this pc etc
Almost every guy over 35 just lies about their age on here. They chat for x amount of time then the guy is 20 yrs older than what he says he is or has a fake pic.
It seems to me, what some women on their profile say is: I am offering myself to you, I am this age, that build if u want this offer then make the first good move by sending me a face pic.
I can appreciate your point of view but it seems acceptable to me what some women want. |
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
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I have never been one to demand a face pics with first message or I will ignore....
I will quickly check the profile, if all seems ok and im not put off by something there, I will ask for one....
There is no point in starting a conversation with a view to a meet if there is no attraction....
Simple.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im actually shocked at the amount of men/women that lie about their ages on here....
THAT or they look feckin awful for their age  "
It went the other way for me today. To cut a long story short, I was asked if I was 18/19. It happened outside. Nothing to do with online stuff. Asked if I was that age, that did shock me lol |
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A profile that demands to see a face pic, but with no public pics, not even one that even the FBI couldn't identify them from, they can go bugger themselves. Too many people with a big ticket for themselves, and a cynical way with it.
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
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"A profile that demands to see a face pic, but with no public pics, not even one that even the FBI couldn't identify them from, they can go bugger themselves. Too many people with a big ticket for themselves, and a cynical way with it.
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How do you know they dont have one in private though? |
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Come on, even an arse pic, We're not talking about a portrait by David Bailey!
One profile pic that shows you are human(oid), that's not a lot to ask. You can have as many privates as you like, if no one can see them, what right does anyone demand to see my face, if they won't even show their bum/knees/belly button? |
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"Because their bum/knee/belly button would stop you ever mailing them?? "
Well, I wouldn't mail them if I couldn't see a pic, and they had such an attitude, even if I met all their meet requirements. |
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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago
glasgow |
"A number of profiles i notice ask for a pic on first message or they will delete! However do not display one themselves.
Is it not a bit rich to ask for a face pic when the profile they display has an ass for instance but no other way of telling who the person is on the profile ?
I have no pic displayed other than in private which i send after chatting but first message really?"
Well just don't message them.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always want to see a face pic. Probably cos i have pics up that i can send. If they don't have them on site i always think they got something to hide. It's no rocket science to set pics to private and excuses like job or people knowing them don't wash with me |
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