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By *ohn890 OP Man
over a year ago
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Many new members seem to have joined herer with the misconception its a dating site,Im looking for meals,drinks,wined and dined etc.While i can see there is a social aspect to the site surely thats what the mainstream dating sites are for. As always im sure there will be many thoughts on this? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I guess some people don't like the cold hard clinical approach and would rather it felt a bit more like a dating experience, whether that necessarily means that they want anything more than a nice evening and some good sex is anyone's guess.
Disclaimer: I don't seek wining or dining myself, this is just wild speculation on my part! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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While I always meet socially first I don't expect to be wined and dined. Just a quick drink to make sure the person looks like their pictures and isn't a psychopath  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I thought most folk did coffee or drinks socially first.
Though not heard of wining and dining, other than by men passing through, staying at hotels with business.
Though yes there does seem to be some people that think its a dating site. |
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
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"I guess some people don't like the cold hard clinical approach and would rather it felt a bit more like a dating experience, whether that necessarily means that they want anything more than a nice evening and some good sex is anyone's guess.
Disclaimer: I don't seek wining or dining myself, this is just wild speculation on my part!"
Wanna meet up at KFC. Then? Lol  |
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
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"While I always meet socially first I don't expect to be wined and dined. Just a quick drink to make sure the person looks like their pictures and isn't a psychopath "
I agree. A social meet for a drink first is a great way to relax before getting naughty |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I guess some people don't like the cold hard clinical approach and would rather it felt a bit more like a dating experience, whether that necessarily means that they want anything more than a nice evening and some good sex is anyone's guess.
Disclaimer: I don't seek wining or dining myself, this is just wild speculation on my part!
Wanna meet up at KFC. Then? Lol "
If you're buying, I'm there!  |
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
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"While I always meet socially first I don't expect to be wined and dined. Just a quick drink to make sure the person looks like their pictures and isn't a psychopath "
I agree. A social meet for a drink first is a great way to relax before getting naughty |
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
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"I guess some people don't like the cold hard clinical approach and would rather it felt a bit more like a dating experience, whether that necessarily means that they want anything more than a nice evening and some good sex is anyone's guess.
Disclaimer: I don't seek wining or dining myself, this is just wild speculation on my part!
Wanna meet up at KFC. Then? Lol
If you're buying, I'm there! "
Only if you want to share a bargain bucket and bottle if Pepsi - I'm not made of money pmsl  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"While I always meet socially first I don't expect to be wined and dined. Just a quick drink to make sure the person looks like their pictures and isn't a psychopath
I agree. A social meet for a drink first is a great way to relax before getting naughty "
It does indeed, first meets can always be a little awkward. Alcohol also helps calm the nerves!!  |
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"I guess some people don't like the cold hard clinical approach and would rather it felt a bit more like a dating experience, whether that necessarily means that they want anything more than a nice evening and some good sex is anyone's guess.
Disclaimer: I don't seek wining or dining myself, this is just wild speculation on my part!
Wanna meet up at KFC. Then? Lol "
Oh I love KFC. When shall we meet hon? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I haven't seen any profiles like this, but if there are profiles like this, it's not something ive a problem with.
I'm all for live and let live. If I don't like something on a profile, I can always move on.
If these profiles are not timewasters and want fun at the end of it, then there's no harm done.
I think people can use this site in whatever way the wish, as long as they are not offence etc
If they are new, or have issues with accommodation or nerves, a more social aspect might be a route to pursue.
It might be their way to quality control too.
Given that lots of users cannot string a sentence together, some users might be looking for a bit more from a meet. If they have used other sites, they might be tired of the following:
Hows u babes
Wot u wearin
Wanna shag in ma car
Lots of the dating sites can be very expensive and not logistical.
Ultimately, I think new users could be welcomed instead of comparing what we are looking for against their profile. |
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
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"I haven't seen any profiles like this, but if there are profiles like this, it's not something ive a problem with.
I'm all for live and let live. If I don't like something on a profile, I can always move on.
If these profiles are not timewasters and want fun at the end of it, then there's no harm done.
I think people can use this site in whatever way the wish, as long as they are not offence etc
If they are new, or have issues with accommodation or nerves, a more social aspect might be a route to pursue.
It might be their way to quality control too.
Given that lots of users cannot string a sentence together, some users might be looking for a bit more from a meet. If they have used other sites, they might be tired of the following:
Hows u babes
Wot u wearin
Wanna shag in ma car
Lots of the dating sites can be very expensive and not logistical.
Ultimately, I think new users could be welcomed instead of comparing what we are looking for against their profile. "
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"I guess some people don't like the cold hard clinical approach and would rather it felt a bit more like a dating experience, whether that necessarily means that they want anything more than a nice evening and some good sex is anyone's guess.
Disclaimer: I don't seek wining or dining myself, this is just wild speculation on my part!
Wanna meet up at KFC. Then? Lol "
Class in a glass. |
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The fishy site has reduced age to +/- 14yrs either side of your age which is pants if you like them young or old.
Also took off the intimate encounter search.
Also added a report nudity button.
All in the hope from turning it back to a relationship site instead of the fuckfest it is  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I guess some people don't like the cold hard clinical approach and would rather it felt a bit more like a dating experience, whether that necessarily means that they want anything more than a nice evening and some good sex is anyone's guess.
Disclaimer: I don't seek wining or dining myself, this is just wild speculation on my part!
Wanna meet up at KFC. Then? Lol
If you're buying, I'm there!
Only if you want to share a bargain bucket and bottle if Pepsi - I'm not made of money pmsl "
I'm not coming unless I get a Milkybar Krushem! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I agree to a drink sometimes or just a chat even but seems people are getting confused a lot,Not scared friends will recognise you out with someone J in Aberdeen x ?"
Meeting someone for a drink is not a crime! |
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Im looking to be wined & dined...any takers? lol wealthy cougars most welcome! Please form an orderly line please ladies & no fighting...there's more than enough of me & all my split personalities to to round...sharing is caring after all haha x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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folks can use site any old way they want....personally i have spells where i just appreciate fem company with no swinging agenda...other times i do gear up for a fun swinging meet.
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What I've mostly been doing is meeting for a drink first then maybe taking it further. Too many nutters not to be careful and I'm all quite new to this so still learning.
Can buy me dinner as well if ya like |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What I've mostly been doing is meeting for a drink first then maybe taking it further. Too many nutters not to be careful and I'm all quite new to this so still learning.
Can buy me dinner as well if ya like"
wot bout coffee and cake |
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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago
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"I agree to a drink sometimes or just a chat even but seems people are getting confused a lot,Not scared friends will recognise you out with someone J in Aberdeen x ?"
Why would anyone be scared to be seen in public with a meet for a social drink?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if someone wants to meet for lunch, dinner, coffee, a drink, whatever.... its all about meeting new people and seeing how you get on with them,finding out each others interests,and seeing what develops. i have had meets without any of the above, also, with all of the above, and i'm definately not 'dating' |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This might be officially a swinging site, and people will have their ideas of what swinging is about, but the simple fact is that different people use this site for different reasons.
Swinging? Dating? Socialising? NSA? Whatever you're looking for is here, so why bother about other people, just you go get what YOU want.
Seemples! |
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By *z ThongzWoman
over a year ago
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Dont see the problem myself , have been on dating sites and there are obviously lots of people there strictly looking for sex , so why not use a swinging site to look for a date , absolutely nothing wrong with it , swinging might be something thats important to a person and therefore would be happy to date and find a partner who is also into swinging and therefore they have that covered without the awkwardness of broaching the subject later in a relationship . Live and let live |
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