I have had sex and played with people I consider good friends, it's relaxed and fun it's not unusual in the circles I move in  It's just an extension of friendship in another way.
There's also people I've been drawn to - want to become friendly with AND have sex. That's exciting and fun - finding out about new people - mentally & physically.
There's been the odd random - but don't really get enough out of that. There has to be a connection - of some type - otherwise it's just not worth the effort.
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"I have had sex and played with people I consider good friends, it's relaxed and fun it's not unusual in the circles I move in It's just an extension of friendship in another way.
There's also people I've been drawn to - want to become friendly with AND have sex. That's exciting and fun - finding out about new people - mentally & physically.
There's been the odd random - but don't really get enough out of that. There has to be a connection - of some type - otherwise it's just not worth the effort.
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Yes the group of people I grew up with were very much like that.
After a hard working week we would wind down in someone's flat ands enjoy a quiet beer or smoke some weird shit and relax
We became very close knit group and yes there were a lot if "benefits"
None of us were involved in partnership/relationships with each other. Just a group of mates who hung around together went to gigs, parties and we slept with each other. There were no hang ups or inhibitions and if anyone stepped out of line we closed as a group and pulled their head in
We were a very close 'family' maybe a bit hippyish for some.
Most of us still live in the same neighbourhood and meet up for coffee etc. one or two did eventually get married to each other
But it can work.
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