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Its finally time but im scared haha
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Finally able to make it to a cpls and fem night at cjs. Been unable to due to commitments but im so scared. I know its going to be the best place to meet likeminded people and not expecting anything just wanting to try something new!
Any tips for a first timer couple? We will be driving up 
Thanks lovely group |
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"Just treat it like a night out, try to be relaxed and engage with people.
Anything else is a bonus"
100% agree with this, if you go out expecting to play then that just sets up possible disappointment. Treat it as a night out and you can’t go wrong! Xx |
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"Finally able to make it to a cpls and fem night at cjs. Been unable to due to commitments but im so scared. I know its going to be the best place to meet likeminded people and not expecting anything just wanting to try something new!
Any tips for a first timer couple? We will be driving up
Thanks lovely group "
What is it you are scared of? |
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"Think its just the unknown and not knowing what happens 😂"
Okay, you won't be the only ones. And won't be the only newbies either. Everyone was new at some point. The thought will be worse than reality. It's pretty easy going and won't get pressure from anyone. It's just like being in a bar/club but with a difference |
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Okay so for not knowing what happens, the socialising is all downstairs. If you're VERY nervous and don't want to see anything or be part of anything, then don't go upstairs as this is where the playrooms are. However, you CAN just go and watch. No still means no, and you're still allowed to have preferences and boundaries. If someone isn't taking the hint, speak to a member of staff and they'll be removed.
You will be absolutely fine, and you'll have a great night. Everyone is so lovely. Which night are you going? This Friday?xx |
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"What do the ladies usually wear? Thats my next dilemma!!! Thank you for your replies everyone x"
Whatever you like. Some people go in like fetish/kink wear. But for the most part, just like a night out. On Saturday there, I actually wore 90s kinda baggy flared jeans and a see through crop top. Usually I wear a dress with nice underwear xx |
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"Was thinking a dress with some boots, not a fan of heels xx"
Yeah, I've done that too. Just wore like kinda chunky boots. I've also wore thigh high boots but those were a bad idea as it's roasting in CJs!! Lol. Feel free to drop me a message if you need to chat to someone xx |
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