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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well think after all the male attention over past few weeks I should turn to the "dark" side lol
More meets coming my way if I do 
Have any of you straight ppl pondered about this?
Thoughts people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ever day even if it says straight on profile. Theres one guy who you have to give 10/10 for trying reckons if I go with him it's not gay but horny fun pmsl  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ever day even if it says straight on profile. Theres one guy who you have to give 10/10 for trying reckons if I go with him it's not gay but horny fun pmsl |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Ever day even if it says straight on profile. Theres one guy who you have to give 10/10 for trying reckons if I go with him it's not gay but horny fun pmsl "
Lol just "hrny" fun ....I like it  |
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
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Do I find women sexually attractive?..NO
Have I played with women in a couples situation....YES! But only when he is fucking HER, not me.....
Am I straight?...YES!
Do I care what others think??...You decide!
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
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"Well think after all the male attention over past few weeks I should turn to the "dark" side lol
More meets coming my way if I do
Have any of you straight ppl pondered about this?
Thoughts people "
Ehhhhh NAW  |
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"To me - attraction just isn't gender specific.
If someone has 'that' effect on you, - well - excellent , be it mental, physical or sexual - follow it if circumstances allow.  "
Entirely!!!!!!!!!!!! |
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Thanks guys
I know it perhaps seems a naive way to look at things, but - really - in life - do more of what makes you happy
Right - off out to sit in the sun . I've got a pile of reading to do for work, and I'm fortunate enough to be able to go find somewhere nice to go and do it.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Thanks guys
I know it perhaps seems a naive way to look at things, but - really - in life - do more of what makes you happy
Right - off out to sit in the sun . I've got a pile of reading to do for work, and I'm fortunate enough to be able to go find somewhere nice to go and do it.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's quite flattering I suppose to get the messages that say...
" I know your straight but I'm free and looking to suck cock "
At least I know the option is there haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To me - attraction just isn't gender specific.
If someone has 'that' effect on you, - well - excellent , be it mental, physical or sexual - follow it if circumstances allow. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've been trying to put on my sensible head for over an hour now trying to respond the OPs post & some if the comments.
As I see it one user pretty much hit the nail on the head. For me fun is fun with any gender so long as there is a connection, be it physical or mentally. I've been privileged to be many a curious guys "first" & met some really good folk in the process. I've also explored in MFMs where there's been some mutual playing & the participants, despite their usual preferences, have felt comfortable to try new things. Thank god for curious minds & knocking down preconceptions.
Does playing with a woman alter my preference & make me straight or Bi - no, I don't think so. I still love & adore my better half & that remains the case. However my forays online & in Meets do mean I don't decry anyone whether they are happy in their little labelled preference or if they like & enjoy expanding horizons. I've tried many things sexually & know some if it is just not for me. That's down to your own choice & preference.
Exploring with folk you feel comfortable with wont automatically mean you wish to repeat it with just anyone. It might be a one-off or something you feel ok about with one or two individuals you like on a more regular basis.
I won't repeat all the (Kinsey & such) theories which I have mentioned previously in similar threads. If folk are interested in that they can search the threads or use Google. What can intrigue me is the amount of folk who would never venture from a particular standpoint visiting such threads regularly. It's honestly quite fascinating, but then there's nowt as queer as folk.
Whatever people's preferences, just enjoy, be safe & happy Fabbing. There's a lot of choice.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I've been trying to put on my sensible head for over an hour now trying to respond the OPs post & some if the comments.
As I see it one user pretty much hit the nail on the head. For me fun is fun with any gender so long as there is a connection, be it physical or mentally. I've been privileged to be many a curious guys "first" & met some really good folk in the process. I've also explored in MFMs where there's been some mutual playing & the participants, despite their usual preferences, have felt comfortable to try new things. Thank god for curious minds & knocking down preconceptions.
Does playing with a woman alter my preference & make me straight or Bi - no, I don't think so. I still love & adore my better half & that remains the case. However my forays online & in Meets do mean I don't decry anyone whether they are happy in their little labelled preference or if they like & enjoy expanding horizons. I've tried many things sexually & know some if it is just not for me. That's down to your own choice & preference.
Exploring with folk you feel comfortable with wont automatically mean you wish to repeat it with just anyone. It might be a one-off or something you feel ok about with one or two individuals you like on a more regular basis.
I won't repeat all the (Kinsey & such) theories which I have mentioned previously in similar threads. If folk are interested in that they can search the threads or use Google. What can intrigue me is the amount of folk who would never venture from a particular standpoint visiting such threads regularly. It's honestly quite fascinating, but then there's nowt as queer as folk.
Whatever people's preferences, just enjoy, be safe & happy Fabbing. There's a lot of choice.
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I'd rather be in good company that happens to be the same gender as myself, than alone and thinking 'I wish I wasn't alone'...
I consider myself bisexual as I've had sex with men, never had a boyfriend and to date that's not due to anything other than haven't met a guy I felt I could be with, but if I did, I'd have to play it out - would be bizarre not to. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'd rather be in good company that happens to be the same gender as myself, than alone and thinking 'I wish I wasn't alone'...
I consider myself bisexual as I've had sex with men, never had a boyfriend and to date that's not due to anything other than haven't met a guy I felt I could be with, but if I did, I'd have to play it out - would be bizarre not to."
Thx for discussing your thoughts |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd rather be in good company that happens to be the same gender as myself, than alone and thinking 'I wish I wasn't alone'...
I consider myself bisexual as I've had sex with men, never had a boyfriend and to date that's not due to anything other than haven't met a guy I felt I could be with, but if I did, I'd have to play it out - would be bizarre not to."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Right well I've decided I'm going to take the plunge and go for it so will keep you all posted
Good luck. Hope it turns out well for ya dude. "
Me too I'm excited but rather nervous |
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. I've thought about the dark side a few times but getting a ff meet is as hard as some of you man getting a solo meet 
