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I'd love some men to answer me this ...
I am often in conversation with men who then bring up that they don't think I'll "like" their size as they deem it to be on the smaller scale. Whatever that scale is.
Do they say this for attention?
Or do they genuinely think they are too small?
I have had many sizes and I didn't even think about a different dick?
I've yet to come across a "micro penis" - think I'd have fun regardless of sizes.
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"A lot of men get obsessed with their size I think a lot do think they need to be bigger to satisfy a woman it’s not something that bothers me but I’ve been with the same woman for a long time (mr)"
It's a shame that they feel like this.
I've never been disappointed by a size and I am sure if it really were small I'd still make sure to have fun  |
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"A lot of men get obsessed with their size I think a lot do think they need to be bigger to satisfy a woman it’s not something that bothers me but I’ve been with the same woman for a long time (mr)
It's a shame that they feel like this.
I've never been disappointed by a size and I am sure if it really were small I'd still make sure to have fun "
Your inbox is going to be filled with messages from men that think they have small dicks 😂 |
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I have only had one occasion where it really was too small and, ironically, he never worried about it being too small. It was one of those instances where I genuinely had to hold myself back from saying, "Is it in yet?" I would never, in my life, have said anything to him though as I just feel like there's no point as it's not something he can change so why would I bring it up, other than to be hurtful xx |
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"A lot of men get obsessed with their size I think a lot do think they need to be bigger to satisfy a woman it’s not something that bothers me but I’ve been with the same woman for a long time (mr)
It's a shame that they feel like this.
I've never been disappointed by a size and I am sure if it really were small I'd still make sure to have fun
Your inbox is going to be filled with messages from men that think they have small dicks 😂"
Hahaha thankfully it's quiet on here today! Xx |
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"I have only had one occasion where it really was too small and, ironically, he never worried about it being too small. It was one of those instances where I genuinely had to hold myself back from saying, "Is it in yet?" I would never, in my life, have said anything to him though as I just feel like there's no point as it's not something he can change so why would I bring it up, other than to be hurtful xx"
And I think this is how we should be if this was to happen, like you say absolutely no reason to be hurtful. Xx |
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Hmmm , it’s tough and not an easy thing for a guy to gauge really , ie , if it’s smaller , well, unless it’s the size of a mouse’s nipple, then they’re definitely being honest .
I’ve always just said I was average , mostly as it’s pretty awkward to compare sizes in the changing rooms , honest don’t know what the guys issue was , it’s not like we crossed swords , was just a quick pic .
I think there are a few guys who will give you that lines so they can then give you the big reveal and you’re meant to lavish them with cock praise and arrange to meet there and then … |
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"I have only had one occasion where it really was too small and, ironically, he never worried about it being too small. It was one of those instances where I genuinely had to hold myself back from saying, "Is it in yet?" I would never, in my life, have said anything to him though as I just feel like there's no point as it's not something he can change so why would I bring it up, other than to be hurtful xx
And I think this is how we should be if this was to happen, like you say absolutely no reason to be hurtful. Xx"
Absolutely agree. It's not something the guy could change about himself, it wasn't as if I was saying to him, "Aw see if you move it this way, that will feel better..." that would be fair enough but if it's something someone can't change about themselves, I don't think we have any right to comment on it xx |
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"I'd love some men to answer me this ...
I am often in conversation with men who then bring up that they don't think I'll "like" their size as they deem it to be on the smaller scale. Whatever that scale is.
When you're on sites like this it can play negatively to blokes and girls. Blokes worry about their size as, well look what the next blokes got. Girls often worry about their body image and why would they pick me.
For us it's about the connection with the person and being body positive.
Do they say this for attention?
Or do they genuinely think they are too small?
I have had many sizes and I didn't even think about a different dick?
I've yet to come across a "micro penis" - think I'd have fun regardless of sizes.
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"I think some just say it as there fishing for a compliment. On the other hand more to the point, what are they insinuating about you?  "
I would love to know, what are they insinuating? I've never thought anything underhand was going on but now you've got me thinking I've been naive on that lol xx |
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"I think some just say it as there fishing for a compliment. On the other hand more to the point, what are they insinuating about you?
I would love to know, what are they insinuating? I've never thought anything underhand was going on but now you've got me thinking I've been naive on that lol xx"
That's what I am wondering 🙈🤣 |
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"I have big size dick and i am very happy with that…who’s like big dicks"
I think we were more kinda discussing smaller than average, particularly with regards to showing that we're respectful of that. I think you've maybe misread the room a wee bit. Let us celebrate the guys who aren't as well endowed for a wee while. I'm sure it's very impressive and I hope it isn't coming across rude but yeah, I think maybe your large cock can take a wee bit of a backseat for this thread. |
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"I have big size dick and i am very happy with that…who’s like big dicks
I think we were more kinda discussing smaller than average, particularly with regards to showing that we're respectful of that. I think you've maybe misread the room a wee bit. Let us celebrate the guys who aren't as well endowed for a wee while. I'm sure it's very impressive and I hope it isn't coming across rude but yeah, I think maybe your large cock can take a wee bit of a backseat for this thread."
Haha. Well said Mrs.
I think guys are more hung up on their size that women ever are.
My thoughts are you meet folk who fit you well and others not so much. None of it is about the size.
Oh and mist guys who profess to have big dicks... well they usually are big dicks🙄
#not what every woman wants. 🤷♀️ |
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"I have big size dick and i am very happy with that…who’s like big dicks
I think we were more kinda discussing smaller than average, particularly with regards to showing that we're respectful of that. I think you've maybe misread the room a wee bit. Let us celebrate the guys who aren't as well endowed for a wee while. I'm sure it's very impressive and I hope it isn't coming across rude but yeah, I think maybe your large cock can take a wee bit of a backseat for this thread.
Haha. Well said Mrs.
I think guys are more hung up on their size that women ever are.
My thoughts are you meet folk who fit you well and others not so much. None of it is about the size.
Oh and mist guys who profess to have big dicks... well they usually are big dicks🙄
#not what every woman wants. 🤷♀️"
I 100% agree. It's a much bigger deal to guys than women. I've never been having fun with someone and wished I had someone else's cock instead lol. It's all about having fun in the moment and who you're with, rather than worrying about size xx |
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Used to work with a guy who’s boaby size was a topic of gossip after he slept with one of the girls. Boys knob was like something you’d did on the ocean floor hiding in the sand waiting to pounce on an unaware fishy.
He often complained it was too big and women really couldn’t take it. Genuinely felt bad for the guy when I heard some of the thing he’d share.
But regardless of that, I have dibs on the transplant if he croaks it early |
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"I have big size dick and i am very happy with that…who’s like big dicks
I think we were more kinda discussing smaller than average, particularly with regards to showing that we're respectful of that. I think you've maybe misread the room a wee bit. Let us celebrate the guys who aren't as well endowed for a wee while. I'm sure it's very impressive and I hope it isn't coming across rude but yeah, I think maybe your large cock can take a wee bit of a backseat for this thread.
Haha. Well said Mrs.
I think guys are more hung up on their size that women ever are.
My thoughts are you meet folk who fit you well and others not so much. None of it is about the size.
Oh and mist guys who profess to have big dicks... well they usually are big dicks🙄
#not what every woman wants. 🤷♀️"
Here Here 👏❤️ |
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"I'm what you'd call a grower rather than a shower lol. Have had bouts of insecurity getting stripped before at 'full mast' but generally find woman to be kind lol"
Nobody cares - I think this thread shows that. Women will have fun regardless. 😘 Don't let any insecurities hold you back x |
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"Am not the biggest or smallest probably bigger than average but men do have a thing about having a big cock coz they think that's what woman want hence the obsession "
Possibly, it's a turn off when they talk about size tbh x |
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From a males point of view it can be a confidence thing sometimes u have messaged cpls or fems and size gets brought into which can start to effect a man that rejections become normal so they bring it up early just to be ready to be rejected x |
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"From a males point of view it can be a confidence thing sometimes u have messaged cpls or fems and size gets brought into which can start to effect a man that rejections become normal so they bring it up early just to be ready to be rejected x"
Yeah more than likely a confidence thing then. I was once called a catfish cause some guy got me mixed up with someone else so I always make sure men are aware I am a bigger girl and will always send images that show. I guess it's a complete confidence thing x |
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"Am not the biggest or smallest probably bigger than average but men do have a thing about having a big cock coz they think that's what woman want hence the obsession
Possibly, it's a turn off when they talk about size tbh x"
U think ? |
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"Am not the biggest or smallest probably bigger than average but men do have a thing about having a big cock coz they think that's what woman want hence the obsession
Possibly, it's a turn off when they talk about size tbh x
U think ? "
Only when it's constantly the only thing they care about x |
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I always class myself as average in truth I’ve nae idea what average actually is. Last 3 woman I’ve been with have said I’m big but that could be blowing smoke up my arse coz am good at the sex stuff. I’d think porn or profiles that state looking for big cocks only probably what makes guys hung up so much on here about it. |
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"I always class myself as average in truth I’ve nae idea what average actually is. Last 3 woman I’ve been with have said I’m big but that could be blowing smoke up my arse coz am good at the sex stuff. I’d think porn or profiles that state looking for big cocks only probably what makes guys hung up so much on here about it. "
I think the porn industry has alot to answer for x |
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I'm average size at best and have never had any complaints. However, I bought a Penis extender which gives me an extra bit of girth and 2 inches in length. I will never forget they way my wife moaned "oh my god" as I slid inside her. The tone of her voice was loaded with pleasure. |
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By *avie65Man 1 week ago
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I think I have an average sized fella but I have been told it’s a fair size. Could it be subjective depending on the size of the hand that is holding it and other factors when it comes to penetration. |
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Never really considered it until I joined the site.
But zounds! Looks like there are some absolute weapons out there. And also lots of couples/fems specifying well endowed or very well endowed (what's the difference!?)
I would guess men mostly bringing it up with you in case it is something you care about, rather than any massive personal hang ups. |
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By *ert999400Man 1 week ago
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"Never really considered it until I joined the site.
But zounds! Looks like there are some absolute weapons out there. And also lots of couples/fems specifying well endowed or very well endowed (what's the difference!?)
I would guess men mostly bringing it up with you in case it is something you care about, rather than any massive personal hang ups. "
I'm a size ten scandal, but more of a 8 in normal shoes... hope that clears up the size war. |
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All you ever read about is size matters that is why guys worry about it so much,but I always remember my older brother telling me it's not how big your ship is but how it sails, I might not be the biggest but it's about enjoying your partner. |
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"All you ever read about is size matters that is why guys worry about it so much,but I always remember my older brother telling me it's not how big your ship is but how it sails, I might not be the biggest but it's about enjoying your partner."
Porn doesn't help this with the likes of "Size Queens" and those types of genres. Not that there's anything wrong with women who prefer a larger cock. But then the porn industry ridicules men with smaller cocks. Cucking them, humiliating them, punishing them etc. So the message they're sending is that bigger cocks are better, more dominant, more enjoyable where smaller cocks are for losers, cucks and subs. And again, there's nothing wrong with the men who enjoy that feeling if they are smaller, but it's detrimental to those men who are already self conscious about it xx |
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"I have big size dick and i am very happy with that…who’s like big dicks
I think we were more kinda discussing smaller than average, particularly with regards to showing that we're respectful of that. I think you've maybe misread the room a wee bit. Let us celebrate the guys who aren't as well endowed for a wee while. I'm sure it's very impressive and I hope it isn't coming across rude but yeah, I think maybe your large cock can take a wee bit of a backseat for this thread."
Nicely put .polite yet reverts back to the thread ..Well done ! |
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"I think some just say it as there fishing for a compliment. On the other hand more to the point, what are they insinuating about you?
I would love to know, what are they insinuating? I've never thought anything underhand was going on but now you've got me thinking I've been naive on that lol xx"
Sorry for being so cynical, always think the worst.  |
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"I'd love some men to answer me this ...
I am often in conversation with men who then bring up that they don't think I'll "like" their size as they deem it to be on the smaller scale. Whatever that scale is.
Do they say this for attention?
Or do they genuinely think they are too small?
I have had many sizes and I didn't even think about a different dick?
I've yet to come across a "micro penis" - think I'd have fun regardless of sizes.
🥰♥️"
Seen in a few posts about cock sizes where people will put “mine is small” when clearly it isnt think to get people to click and look at pics maybe ?
Size is something your born with and can’t do much to change so learn to fight with the sword you have and if the lady is satisfied what else matters ?
And true done women don’t like the huge ones
And like with a lot of things in life even if you think you are big there will always be someone with one a bit bigger 🍆 |
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"This thread is a breath of fresh air. Nice to hear these perspectives 👌"
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I couldn't agree more. In amongst the thorns and the hornets of the forums - this thread, however, is a rare butterfly of utmost delight. 🦋 |
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"I have big size dick and i am very happy with that…who’s like big dicks
I think we were more kinda discussing smaller than average, particularly with regards to showing that we're respectful of that. I think you've maybe misread the room a wee bit. Let us celebrate the guys who aren't as well endowed for a wee while. I'm sure it's very impressive and I hope it isn't coming across rude but yeah, I think maybe your large cock can take a wee bit of a backseat for this thread.
Nicely put .polite yet reverts back to the thread ..Well done !"
I absolutely didn't want to come across rude but I just felt like well endowed gents have their fun in the sun all the time, so it's time to celebrate all shapes and sizes, particularly our average and below gents!! Thanks for being lovely 😊 |
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"I think some just say it as there fishing for a compliment. On the other hand more to the point, what are they insinuating about you?
I would love to know, what are they insinuating? I've never thought anything underhand was going on but now you've got me thinking I've been naive on that lol xx
Sorry for being so cynical, always think the worst. "
No, don't apologise. I just genuinely don't know what you mean and would love to know lol. I've had a few men tell me they're not very big when they're pretty decent and now I'd love to know what they might have been insinuating about me lol. Maybe I've got some conversations to be having lmao!xx |
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"The biggest sex organ is between the ears ! .. if all they have is a cock I'm not interested . Seduction happens in a meeting of minds not what size of cock someone has . "
I love this!! Absolutely spot on! 💜💜 |
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