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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
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I thought a private message was a message sent from one person to another so that no one else can see it - that assuming that the two people sharing the private message are the only ones with access to that mail  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I thought a private message was a message sent from one person to another so that no one else can see it - that assuming that the two people sharing the private message are the only ones with access to that mail "
So should the said message be passed onto a third party ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A message that is private between the sender and receiver. But then u have to trust the receiver to keep the message private. If it was unsolicited and abusive I wouldn't hesitate forwarding it straight to admin.   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"A message that is private between the sender and receiver. But then u have to trust the receiver to keep the message private. If it was unsolicited and abusive I wouldn't hesitate forwarding it straight to admin. "
How about another site member ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A message that is private between the sender and receiver. But then u have to trust the receiver to keep the message private. If it was unsolicited and abusive I wouldn't hesitate forwarding it straight to admin. How about another site member ?"
Depends on circumstances and who the sender was. But I wouldn't ever say anything in a message about someone that I wouldn't say to their face. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My understanding is you have been fucked over, happens to us all at some point.
How you deal with it is up to you but what's happened is done now so chin up and learn from it.  "
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think anyone thats experienced the domino effect on here, will be very familiar with this situation, Domino effect is: you upset one and before you know it 100 have decided they are upset with you.
Respect and genuinely nice?
I have that, but those who struggle with these two things generally wont be available to see or refer to on here, on a forum.
As an example, i read and pondered if it was a good or bad idea to comment on a thread about being honest about your stated age on profile the other day, aware i had to word my response carefully.I tried, dared myself to comment on it, yet still came out of it looking older than i am,lol.
More than anything, its nonsense like that that peeves me with forum-land, you comment, your read and instantly your judged and indeed labelled.
So no wonder theres just 1% comment in forums, when all there is, is a high risk of being read wrong, missunderstood and percieved to be worse than you yourself ever thought you could be!! |
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Sadly thats life Aston,but a lot of the so called domino effects come from people who create them themselfs by trying to bring in outside influances that have nothing to do with the situation thats going on too.
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"I think anyone thats experienced the domino effect on here, will be very familiar with this situation, Domino effect is: you upset one and before you know it 100 have decided they are upset with you.
Respect and genuinely nice?
I have that, but those who struggle with these two things generally wont be available to see or refer to on here, on a forum.
As an example, i read and pondered if it was a good or bad idea to comment on a thread about being honest about your stated age on profile the other day, aware i had to word my response carefully.I tried, dared myself to comment on it, yet still came out of it looking older than i am,lol.
More than anything, its nonsense like that that peeves me with forum-land, you comment, your read and instantly your judged and indeed labelled.
So no wonder theres just 1% comment in forums, when all there is, is a high risk of being read wrong, missunderstood and percieved to be worse than you yourself ever thought you could be!!"
Very true |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sadly thats life Aston,but a lot of the so called domino effects come from people who create them themselfs by trying to bring in outside influances that have nothing to do with the situation thats going on too.
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I dont invite outside influences, when im chatting 1 to 1 with someone for example, i assume thats what im doing. |
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"Sadly thats life Aston,but a lot of the so called domino effects come from people who create them themselfs by trying to bring in outside influances that have nothing to do with the situation thats going on too.
I dont invite outside influences, when im chatting 1 to 1 with someone for example, i assume thats what im doing."
Im pretty sure you know what i ment by that comment |
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"Sadly thats life Aston,but a lot of the so called domino effects come from people who create them themselfs by trying to bring in outside influances that have nothing to do with the situation thats going on too.
I dont invite outside influences, when im chatting 1 to 1 with someone for example, i assume thats what im doing.Im pretty sure you know what i ment by that comment "
Totally,, |
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"Sadly thats life Aston,but a lot of the so called domino effects come from people who create them themselfs by trying to bring in outside influances that have nothing to do with the situation thats going on too.
I dont invite outside influences, when im chatting 1 to 1 with someone for example, i assume thats what im doing.Im pretty sure you know what i ment by that comment Totally,,"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sadly thats life Aston,but a lot of the so called domino effects come from people who create them themselfs by trying to bring in outside influances that have nothing to do with the situation thats going on too.
I dont invite outside influences, when im chatting 1 to 1 with someone for example, i assume thats what im doing.Im pretty sure you know what i ment by that comment Totally,, "
Well its the forums after all, everyne can read em,,,lol,, |
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
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More than anything, its nonsense like that that peeves me with forum-land, you comment, your read and instantly your judged and indeed labelled.
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Why does it bother you so much?
Do you really care that much what so few think? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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More than anything, its nonsense like that that peeves me with forum-land, you comment, your read and instantly your judged and indeed labelled.
Why does it bother you so much?
Do you really care that much what so few think?"
Nope, carefull editing of whats said kinda trips me up though, wee snippets of part of whats stated. |
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"Sadly thats life Aston,but a lot of the so called domino effects come from people who create them themselfs by trying to bring in outside influances that have nothing to do with the situation thats going on too.
I dont invite outside influences, when im chatting 1 to 1 with someone for example, i assume thats what im doing.Im pretty sure you know what i ment by that comment Totally,, Well its the forums after all, everyne can read em,,,lol,,"
The sure can its a good job they cant see what goes on in pms eh |
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
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More than anything, its nonsense like that that peeves me with forum-land, you comment, your read and instantly your judged and indeed labelled.
Why does it bother you so much?
Do you really care that much what so few think?Nope, carefull editing of whats said kinda trips me up though, wee snippets of part of whats stated."
I read the whole statement...
Im just asking why it bothers you if people judge or label you on ANYTHING you say in here....
Say what you like, fk what others may think...OR do you care what others think?
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By (user no longer on site)
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More than anything, its nonsense like that that peeves me with forum-land, you comment, your read and instantly your judged and indeed labelled.
Why does it bother you so much?
Do you really care that much what so few think?Nope, carefull editing of whats said kinda trips me up though, wee snippets of part of whats stated.
I read the whole statement...
Im just asking why it bothers you if people judge or label you on ANYTHING you say in here....
Say what you like, fk what others may think...OR do you care what others think?
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On here, on,,,,here just on HERE.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think anyone thats experienced the domino effect on here, will be very familiar with this situation, Domino effect is: you upset one and before you know it 100 have decided they are upset with you.
Respect and genuinely nice?
I have that, but those who struggle with these two things generally wont be available to see or refer to on here, on a forum.
As an example, i read and pondered if it was a good or bad idea to comment on a thread about being honest about your stated age on profile the other day, aware i had to word my response carefully.I tried, dared myself to comment on it, yet still came out of it looking older than i am,lol.
More than anything, its nonsense like that that peeves me with forum-land, you comment, your read and instantly your judged and indeed labelled.
So no wonder theres just 1% comment in forums, when all there is, is a high risk of being read wrong, missunderstood and percieved to be worse than you yourself ever thought you could be!!"
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