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are all men unable to contain themselves?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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ok have a dilemia here, a friend of mine was in a relationship with a male who decided to dump her as she was looking for cpls that wanted just female on female fun , this involved the male only to watch. he recently ended their relationship cause he cant handle the thought of another man watching as his beliefs are all men want to paw at the females. she hasnt done anything with males since entering this relationship or even looked for other meets. what is ppls thoughts on this |
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
In a crisp poke on the A814 |
As I dont know the ins an out of their relationship...cant really comment!
How long were they together?
Did he want couples for full swing or just another female?
Was he just not happy with another male watching?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As I dont know the ins an out of their relationship...cant really comment!
How long were they together?
Did he want couples for full swing or just another female?
Was he just not happy with another male watching?
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he didnt want her meeting cpls even if it was just the females that was having the fun as she is bi-sexual and its a part he cant fufil, she didnt mind if male watched |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If he was happy with her with another female then why would the guys need to be there surely she can have the fun with a fem without anyone watching.....  "
she wasnt allowed to even meet females from cpls |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ahhh did he think it was ok for himself to watch you with some other guys wife  "
his thing is he can watch females but in his eyes other men cant just watch,and this isnt about me its about a friend hun |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As I dont know the ins an out of their relationship...cant really comment!
How long were they together?
Did he want couples for full swing or just another female?
Was he just not happy with another male watching?
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not that long hun, but he said he didnt mind her meeting single females but not females from cpls as this would mean the other male would want to fuck her.
he even threw things up in her face that happened before they got together, she hasnt met anybody since they got together and he turned round and says he cant stand the thought of other men near her but how can she be accused of something that she hasnt done? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP, my simple mind is struggling a little to take in all the issues here, but what I do see, rightly or wrongly, is a guy who appears to be doing quite a bit of dictating and attempting to control?
If I'm right, alarm bells should be starting to ring for your friend!   |
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perhaps she is not quite telling you the truth and the point was he didnt feel secure enough at the time for her to be meeting males for sexual fun as this may be possibly what she was looking for |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe I've read this wrong but I just don't think swinging should ever affect a relationship for the simple fact you shouldn't want to do something that makes your partner unhappy. If Mr told me he was uncomfortable with something then I would stop it, no questions asked. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe a new relationship isn't the place to be thinking of having sexual relations with anyone else if neither of them were secure with the other person being intimate with the other sex. Just my thoughts  a couple need to be committed to one another if things are going to work, not considering looking for extras over and above  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe I've read this wrong but I just don't think swinging should ever affect a relationship for the simple fact you shouldn't want to do something that makes your partner unhappy. If Mr told me he was uncomfortable with something then I would stop it, no questions asked. "
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"Maybe I've read this wrong but I just don't think swinging should ever affect a relationship for the simple fact you shouldn't want to do something that makes your partner unhappy. If Mr told me he was uncomfortable with something then I would stop it, no questions asked. "
Totally agree  be same for us! |
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I don't know the circumstances between the two, but personally, if I were in a new "relationship" with someone, I think I would want to let that settle first, before deciding what to do from a swinging point of view. If, however, it was part of a FB couple, which I am, then, what he does on his own and vice versa for me, shouldn't come into it. If anything, I find it a massive turn on knowing he is with someone else |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A newish relationship.
They reached a point, where they discovered they were incompatible as a couple. Just as well it was early on in the relationship.
Move on, keep up the search  |
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