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By (user no longer on site) OP 8 weeks ago
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Folks, are you like us and totally put off by female profiles that just sound angry, lots of attitude, like they think they are some kinda prize with a load of rules that just suggest, red flag? |
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By *ert999400Man 8 weeks ago
Glasgow/Edinburgh/Cardiff |
I agree some women think they are gods gift on here. Photos put me off.
This is a hook up site bur some women especially the ones who would not get a second look on vanilla street. Think they are the best thing since sliced bread. And they have a nerve to slag me off because im slightly disabled |
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"I agree some women think they are gods gift on here. Photos put me off.
This is a hook up site bur some women especially the ones who would not get a second look on vanilla street. Think they are the best thing since sliced bread. And they have a nerve to slag me off because im slightly disabled"
Disability should never be reason for abuse, it might mean they are not interested, but that’s no different than any other reason to reject, they wouldn’t get a second look isn’t a very nice thing to say either IMO |
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By *ert999400Man 8 weeks ago
Glasgow/Edinburgh/Cardiff |
"I agree some women think they are gods gift on here. Photos put me off.
This is a hook up site bur some women especially the ones who would not get a second look on vanilla street. Think they are the best thing since sliced bread. And they have a nerve to slag me off because im slightly disabled
Disability should never be reason for abuse, it might mean they are not interested, but that’s no different than any other reason to reject, they wouldn’t get a second look isn’t a very nice thing to say either IMO"
I don't agree
However we are both allowed our opinions.
My experience of this site is in your in a wheelchair or disabled you don't stand a chance. Read my profile and get back to me on DM |
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"I agree some women think they are gods gift on here. Photos put me off.
This is a hook up site bur some women especially the ones who would not get a second look on vanilla street. Think they are the best thing since sliced bread. And they have a nerve to slag me off because im slightly disabled
Disability should never be reason for abuse, it might mean they are not interested, but that’s no different than any other reason to reject, they wouldn’t get a second look isn’t a very nice thing to say either IMO
I don't agree
However we are both allowed our opinions.
My experience of this site is in your in a wheelchair or disabled you don't stand a chance. Read my profile and get back to me on DM"
No need to DM, we’re just all different, hope you get from the site what you’re looking for Paul
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"Spot on. Too many rules are a turn off, especially when someone adds an attitude to that."
And there’s lots of attitude from a mix of profiles, just no need really, no one owes anyone anything on here, but we can all play nice and be respectful, surely  |
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"Folks, are you like us and totally put off by female profiles that just sound angry, lots of attitude, like they think they are some kinda prize with a load of rules that just suggest, red flag?"
Best of it is the ones that's all high mighty wanting you read and follow every rule before message and start the convo with not just a hello .. the page is full of her just her pussy .. |
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"I agree some women think they are gods gift on here. Photos put me off.
This is a hook up site bur some women especially the ones who would not get a second look on vanilla street. Think they are the best thing since sliced bread. And they have a nerve to slag me off because im slightly disabled"
Well how to appeal to women. Maybe they don't fancy you. No matter how many looks they do or don't get on the street.
Fuck sake we don't need to drop out knickers to every entitled guy on here! |
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"I agree some women think they are gods gift on here. Photos put me off.
This is a hook up site bur some women especially the ones who would not get a second look on vanilla street. Think they are the best thing since sliced bread. And they have a nerve to slag me off because im slightly disabled
Well how to appeal to women. Maybe they don't fancy you. No matter how many looks they do or don't get on the street.
Fuck sake we don't need to drop out knickers to every entitled guy on here!"
Drop them….  |
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"I agree some women think they are gods gift on here. Photos put me off.
This is a hook up site bur some women especially the ones who would not get a second look on vanilla street. Think they are the best thing since sliced bread. And they have a nerve to slag me off because im slightly disabled
Well how to appeal to women. Maybe they don't fancy you. No matter how many looks they do or don't get on the street.
Fuck sake we don't need to drop out knickers to every entitled guy on here!"
Drop them go on  |
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"I agree some women think they are gods gift on here. Photos put me off.
This is a hook up site bur some women especially the ones who would not get a second look on vanilla street. Think they are the best thing since sliced bread. And they have a nerve to slag me off because im slightly disabled
Well how to appeal to women. Maybe they don't fancy you. No matter how many looks they do or don't get on the street.
Fuck sake we don't need to drop out knickers to every entitled guy on here!
Drop them…. "
I'll drop you any more of yer cheek 🤣🤣 |
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"Folks, are you like us and totally put off by female profiles that just sound angry, lots of attitude, like they think they are some kinda prize with a load of rules that just suggest, red flag?"
I didn't used to have so many on my profile but I find that, as time goes on, I get messages from folk hundreds of miles away, or who have a preconceived idea about my marriage etc etc and so it's easier for me to put it on my profile so that men can read it and know why I'm not replying. It's almost like an apology in advance, and explains that I'm not being rude, nasty or ignorant, I'm simply sticking by the ideals I have set out on my profile. Hope this helps to have a different POV x |
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"Folks, are you like us and totally put off by female profiles that just sound angry, lots of attitude, like they think they are some kinda prize with a load of rules that just suggest, red flag?
I didn't used to have so many on my profile but I find that, as time goes on, I get messages from folk hundreds of miles away, or who have a preconceived idea about my marriage etc etc and so it's easier for me to put it on my profile so that men can read it and know why I'm not replying. It's almost like an apology in advance, and explains that I'm not being rude, nasty or ignorant, I'm simply sticking by the ideals I have set out on my profile. Hope this helps to have a different POV x"
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Ive had various different things on my profile and sometimes have had to be blunt and direct due to the vulgar and sometimes degrading messages ive recieved. |
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"I agree some women think they are gods gift on here. Photos put me off.
This is a hook up site bur some women especially the ones who would not get a second look on vanilla street. Think they are the best thing since sliced bread. And they have a nerve to slag me off because im slightly disabled
Well how to appeal to women. Maybe they don't fancy you. No matter how many looks they do or don't get on the street.
Fuck sake we don't need to drop out knickers to every entitled guy on here!
Drop them….
I'll drop you any more of yer cheek 🤣🤣"
Gonna stop dropping them every time you see me, last time was in the veg aisle in Tesco (had to remind you it wasn’t the vag aisle), I didn’t know what to say  |
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Such as life we have many people with many on here with many of types personalities. We do understand why woman need to be more direct at times.
sometimes of course it’s easy to interpret the written word as more harsh as sometimes people come across better in real life than the written form and vice versa and for both sexes there will be those that are arrogant.
Of course at times what we write gets ignored but it’s part and parcel of this site no point getting angry all just strangers on the internet. |
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I try to be as honest as possible in my profile and try to answer all messages but when people clearly do not read profile then gets very frustrating and I do find myself just ignoring more and more messages
There has to be respect on both sides but it getting harder every week |
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"Folks, are you like us and totally put off by female profiles that just sound angry, lots of attitude, like they think they are some kinda prize with a load of rules that just suggest, red flag?"
I think guys on here have the sence to avoid these types of profiles however there are some desperate ones who jump through the hoops if they think it will get them anywhere.
I have read a few myself over the years and just shook my head at some of the demands women put on thier profiles.
The ones just now with fab my photo to get me on page one to get a meet is just crazy surley guys don't truly believe that these women are going to shag every guy who fabs their photos!? |
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Although I agree that some people think they are above the rest I think that guys confuse the utter frustration that comes with being a female or couple on fab with rudeness. Some of the messages we’ve had from guys on fab are ridiculous and rude and being honest 90% of messages are nonsense.
Ranging from -
Hey doll your hubby obviously can’t satisfy you so how’s about I come fuck you.
I’m free now for 20 minutes can we meet?
Randoms that just say “can I ask you a question” then the question turns out to be do you like big dicks.
It’s hard not to be frustrated and come across as rude when you get these types of messages 20-30 times every day.
On the other hand when we have met good guys we have made long term connections and had a lot of fun so it’s worth it in the long run.
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"Absolutely put off by these women who in reality wouldn’t get a second look at a nightclub at 2:50am.
But here they are thinking they’re Gods gift because the ration of men to women is 100/1.
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If you're still in the club at 2.50am I'm doubting you got many 2nd looks either 🤷♀️🤣 |
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"I agree some women think they are gods gift on here. Photos put me off.
This is a hook up site bur some women especially the ones who would not get a second look on vanilla street. Think they are the best thing since sliced bread. And they have a nerve to slag me off because im slightly disabled
Well how to appeal to women. Maybe they don't fancy you. No matter how many looks they do or don't get on the street.
Fuck sake we don't need to drop out knickers to every entitled guy on here!
Drop them….
I'll drop you any more of yer cheek 🤣🤣
Gonna stop dropping them every time you see me, last time was in the veg aisle in Tesco (had to remind you it wasn’t the vag aisle), I didn’t know what to say "
I was surprised to find you in the veg isle. Normally bump into you in the cheese isle🤪 |
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"I agree some women think they are gods gift on here. Photos put me off.
This is a hook up site bur some women especially the ones who would not get a second look on vanilla street. Think they are the best thing since sliced bread. And they have a nerve to slag me off because im slightly disabled
Well how to appeal to women. Maybe they don't fancy you. No matter how many looks they do or don't get on the street.
Fuck sake we don't need to drop out knickers to every entitled guy on here!
Drop them….
I'll drop you any more of yer cheek 🤣🤣
Gonna stop dropping them every time you see me, last time was in the veg aisle in Tesco (had to remind you it wasn’t the vag aisle), I didn’t know what to say
I was surprised to find you in the veg isle. Normally bump into you in the cheese isle🤪"
Haha very true |
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"I agree some women think they are gods gift on here. Photos put me off.
This is a hook up site bur some women especially the ones who would not get a second look on vanilla street. Think they are the best thing since sliced bread. And they have a nerve to slag me off because im slightly disabled
Disability should never be reason for abuse, it might mean they are not interested, but that’s no different than any other reason to reject, they wouldn’t get a second look isn’t a very nice thing to say either IMO"
I completely agree with this!!!
I've never understood why people on here make comments like this.
So you're approaching people who you think should be grateful for your attention?!
It doesn't work that way.
Nobody deserves abusive messages just because they don't fit their preference but equally your attitude isn't the greatest if the above is your thoughts process. |
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So i must be in the up my own arse category as my profile is riddled with do's and donts ..
However it's transparent and saves time when explaining "what I'm looking for on here" as it's probably the most asked question i get just behind the "hi how's you" .
Funny concept women are allowed to have preferences should that be in looks , personality , attitudes and above all who they want to meet . Why should it be we're expected to abandon that because we are on here .
As far as not getting a look in on "vanilla street" that just comes across as sour grapes . Some folk really cannae handle rejection and that's usually the basis for the woe is me posts .
Try being a woman on this site getting the mails we get . Taking abuse (usually after being showered with insincere compliments).
I'll stick to keeping my profile do's and donts that way everyone knows where they stand . |
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By *b2002Man 7 weeks ago
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Dont think theres anything wrong with a woman saying what they are looking for. The only thing that annoys me on here are the fake profiles punting premium websites or fake profiles where its clearly a guy pretending to be a woman or using pictures from America etc (guys american taps and sockets look different, if you’ve got a clue you can tell from 1 pic). |
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"So i must be in the up my own arse category as my profile is riddled with do's and donts ..
However it's transparent and saves time when explaining "what I'm looking for on here" as it's probably the most asked question i get just behind the "hi how's you" .
Funny concept women are allowed to have preferences should that be in looks , personality , attitudes and above all who they want to meet . Why should it be we're expected to abandon that because we are on here .
As far as not getting a look in on "vanilla street" that just comes across as sour grapes . Some folk really cannae handle rejection and that's usually the basis for the woe is me posts .
Try being a woman on this site getting the mails we get . Taking abuse (usually after being showered with insincere compliments).
I'll stick to keeping my profile do's and donts that way everyone knows where they stand . "
To be honest the way your profile set out, I like. Able too read it like aye we like that, we like that too so on. Although the banter/patter is up for debate!! |
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I totally understand why women in here have a large list of requirements on their profil, basically to help filter out the people they are not interested in in meeting and a few arse holes who won't take no for an answer.
But it also puts the nice guys off it looks your going to pure fucking hard work. |
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"Folks, are you like us and totally put off by female profiles that just sound angry, lots of attitude, like they think they are some kinda prize with a load of rules that just suggest, red flag?"
simp culture caused many females to have imo a skewed view of reality andany firmly believe that everything revolves around themselves my personal favorite is do not contact me without a recent face pic fro a profile that only shows a pair of tits |
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"Folks, are you like us and totally put off by female profiles that just sound angry, lots of attitude, like they think they are some kinda prize with a load of rules that just suggest, red flag?simp culture caused many females to have imo a skewed view of reality andany firmly believe that everything revolves around themselves my personal favorite is do not contact me without a recent face pic fro a profile that only shows a pair of tits "
I can assure i dont believe anything revolves around me, if someone contacts me id expect a recent facepic just like id send one if i contacted someone first.
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There's I would say at least a quarter of single lady profiles are angry basically a list of don't dos and slagging off men attempts to be courteous by asking how they are etc .. I just usually end up leaving a private note to the effect in case they change their profile it's just a hint as too a difficult person to perhaps avoid.. |
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"I agree some women think they are gods gift on here. Photos put me off.
This is a hook up site bur some women especially the ones who would not get a second look on vanilla street. Think they are the best thing since sliced bread. And they have a nerve to slag me off because im slightly disabled"
Not every one views this as a hook up site, some want to get to know each other beyond just hooking up or one off encounters. This site is different things to different people. No one should slag you for having a disability though. |
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Also how is it a woman can clearly articulate what they want and what they won't settle for ,to be seen as aggression . Why should we be grateful with what someone else deems appropriate to what we get . We can be on site and know what we want and be perfectly pleasant whilst articulating that . Sometimes written text is hard to convey the meaning behind it . No one on here affects me enough to be aggressive towards .Seems like a classic male emasculation brought about by their own insecurities .
Everyone has a choice in who they interact with and what their boundaries are . However i don't agree with anyone being abused on here ,but there's a block and a report button for that reason . |
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My profile is quite blunt because I’m looking for someone specific to my needs.
I’d say there is nothing wrong say and knowing what you are looking for and setting your boundaries.
What I’d say is a bigger problem is people who read profiles and don’t respect them . “Just chancing my arm”
I respond to everyone who messages me and alway polite unless you aren’t x
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"Also how is it a woman can clearly articulate what they want and what they won't settle for ,to be seen as aggression . Why should we be grateful with what someone else deems appropriate to what we get . We can be on site and know what we want and be perfectly pleasant whilst articulating that . Sometimes written text is hard to convey the meaning behind it . No one on here affects me enough to be aggressive towards .Seems like a classic male emasculation brought about by their own insecurities .
Everyone has a choice in who they interact with and what their boundaries are . However i don't agree with anyone being abused on here ,but there's a block and a report button for that reason . "
This exactly 💜💜💜 |
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"Folks, are you like us and totally put off by female profiles that just sound angry, lots of attitude, like they think they are some kinda prize with a load of rules that just suggest, red flag?
Best of it is the ones that's all high mighty wanting you read and follow every rule before message and start the convo with not just a hello .. the page is full of her just her pussy .."
Are you slut shaming women for sharing pics on a sex site. I love to share my pics but it does not mean I’m going to sleep with everyone that looks at them.
Always happy to chat with respectful people but I have my own set of needs and wants and just because you’ve seen my pussy doesn’t mean you get to disregard them! |
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By *sWyldWoman 7 weeks ago
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Prime example tonight .
I've received several messages from a blank profile, outside of my age preferences. Each message asking what I look like (he doesn't show any pics or attaches any thing other than one of his dick)
When I politely respond I won't show because he doesn't need to know.
He continues to message ignoring my preferences and my clear disinterest.
I respond explaining this and the fact it then leaves me wondering what other preferences or boundaries be would choose to ignore.
Only to receive abuse.
It's no wonder we have ranty profiles.
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"Prime example tonight .
I've received several messages from a blank profile, outside of my age preferences. Each message asking what I look like (he doesn't show any pics or attaches any thing other than one of his dick)
When I politely respond I won't show because he doesn't need to know.
He continues to message ignoring my preferences and my clear disinterest.
I respond explaining this and the fact it then leaves me wondering what other preferences or boundaries be would choose to ignore.
Only to receive abuse.
It's no wonder we have ranty profiles.
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if he’s outside your age preference why not just use age filters ? |
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By *sWyldWoman 7 weeks ago
Edinburgh |
"Prime example tonight .
I've received several messages from a blank profile, outside of my age preferences. Each message asking what I look like (he doesn't show any pics or attaches any thing other than one of his dick)
When I politely respond I won't show because he doesn't need to know.
He continues to message ignoring my preferences and my clear disinterest.
I respond explaining this and the fact it then leaves me wondering what other preferences or boundaries be would choose to ignore.
Only to receive abuse.
It's no wonder we have ranty profiles.
if he’s outside your age preference why not just use age filters ? "
I actually have regular interactions with people from the forums so I don't have them set in that way |
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"Absolutely put off by these women who in reality wouldn’t get a second look at a nightclub at 2:50am.
But here they are thinking they’re Gods gift because the ration of men to women is 100/1.
If you're still in the club at 2.50am I'm doubting you got many 2nd looks either 🤷♀️🤣"
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Why shouldn’t women have rules on here? I wouldn’t message a profile that isn’t looking for women so why do men message me? My profile clearly states what I’m looking for and not looking for, it’s not hard to read a profile before sending a message 🙄 I delete every message that immediately shows they haven’t read my profile which is 95% of messages I receive 😂😂 |
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By *ee69Man 7 weeks ago
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"If you don't like the look or sound of someone from their profile, don't contact them, pretty plain and simple really."
Sounds about right , lots a different types of profiles as there is folks |
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"If you don't like the look or sound of someone from their profile, don't contact them, pretty plain and simple really."
Absolutely agree. I don't like what I read on some people's profiles, I make a wee note on the profile to remind me, and then I don't contact them. We don't need a running commentary from folk who don't like us that they don't like us lmao! There's one guy, in particular, on here who has done it to a lot of women I know, and passes comment and judgement on our profiles as if we cared for his opinion lol. Don't like it? Don't message me! Lol xx |
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"Folks, are you like us and totally put off by female profiles that just sound angry, lots of attitude, like they think they are some kinda prize with a load of rules that just suggest, red flag?
No I'm definitely not shaming anyone , would be a bit of hypocritical been on a site and slut shaming people calm down karen
Best of it is the ones that's all high mighty wanting you read and follow every rule before message and start the convo with not just a hello .. the page is full of her just her pussy ..
Are you slut shaming women for sharing pics on a sex site. I love to share my pics but it does not mean I’m going to sleep with everyone that looks at them.
Always happy to chat with respectful people but I have my own set of needs and wants and just because you’ve seen my pussy doesn’t mean you get to disregard them!"
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