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Timewaster - How do you class one
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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HOW DO YOU CLASS SOMEONE AS A TIMEWASTER.
Chatted to a girl, got on well and she made the moves to arrange a meet.
She wanted me to hers at 11am on a monday, so gave her my mobi and said i'd text her. Left meeting at 10.30 sent text to let her know I was free and she told me she would be 3 hours late, which I couldn't make.
So she arranged that she wanted me over wed morn at 10am.
So I messaged her on tuesday to tell her i'll just wait on her text.
Later that night she was online and ignored my message, thats when suspected probs. Butii continued to give her the benefit.
But alas comes 10am weds, no text arrived, nadda, nothing
later, sent her an email to say that I was waiting but she deleted the mail
So what yo think folks, is she a timewaster or not??
And I didnt even mention Lurpak
lol
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"HOW DO YOU CLASS SOMEONE AS A TIMEWASTER.
Chatted to a girl, got on well and she made the moves to arrange a meet.
She wanted me to hers at 11am on a monday, so gave her my mobi and said i'd text her. Left meeting at 10.30 sent text to let her know I was free and she told me she would be 3 hours late, which I couldn't make.
So she arranged that she wanted me over wed morn at 10am.
So I messaged her on tuesday to tell her i'll just wait on her text.
Later that night she was online and ignored my message, thats when suspected probs. Butii continued to give her the benefit.
But alas comes 10am weds, no text arrived, nadda, nothing
later, sent her an email to say that I was waiting but she deleted the mail
So what yo think folks, is she a timewaster or not??
And I didnt even mention Lurpak
lol
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sounds to me like a timewaster anyone who makes arrangements to meet then not follow it thro is wasting your time and effort in chatting to them when you could have been arranging to meet someone more genuine . |
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"HOW DO YOU CLASS SOMEONE AS A TIMEWASTER.
Chatted to a girl, got on well and she made the moves to arrange a meet.
She wanted me to hers at 11am on a monday, so gave her my mobi and said i'd text her. Left meeting at 10.30 sent text to let her know I was free and she told me she would be 3 hours late, which I couldn't make.
So she arranged that she wanted me over wed morn at 10am.
So I messaged her on tuesday to tell her i'll just wait on her text.
Later that night she was online and ignored my message, thats when suspected probs. Butii continued to give her the benefit.
But alas comes 10am weds, no text arrived, nadda, nothing
later, sent her an email to say that I was waiting but she deleted the mail
So what yo think folks, is she a timewaster or not??
And I didnt even mention Lurpak
lol
sounds to me like a timewaster anyone who makes arrangements to meet then not follow it thro is wasting your time and effort in chatting to them when you could have been arranging to meet someone more genuine ."
Agreed!
Complete waste of your time.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Didn't think timewasters had class.
Do they take a class in timewasting?
I'm all for Spreadable Lurpak.
Was she a I Can't Believe It's Not Butter kinda girl maybe?
In answer to your question tho... (Serious bit)... It's up to you to decide, horsey. If you like her try again, if you think timewaster then take a ticket & shout NEXT.
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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago
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I told you Pete that I would never meet you again after you turned up at my house at 3am in the snow demanding coffee and hacking my vids on my lappy.
You brought it on yourself,!! Plus you never brought the Lurpack man and his trumpet... you know I wanted a 3sum!!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Surprised he never figured it out himself "
Oh i did figure it out myself
But im deffo not one of the timewasters so I went along, wasnt much out of my time, went to the local shops near her and got......
bread for my lurpak |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Surprised he never figured it out himself
Oh i did figure it out myself
But im deffo not one of the timewasters so I went along, wasnt much out of my time, went to the local shops near her and got......
bread for my lurpak"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"HOW DO YOU CLASS SOMEONE AS A TIMEWASTER.
Chatted to a girl, got on well and she made the moves to arrange a meet.
She wanted me to hers at 11am on a monday, so gave her my mobi and said i'd text her. Left meeting at 10.30 sent text to let her know I was free and she told me she would be 3 hours late, which I couldn't make.
So she arranged that she wanted me over wed morn at 10am.
So I messaged her on tuesday to tell her i'll just wait on her text.
Later that night she was online and ignored my message, thats when suspected probs. Butii continued to give her the benefit.
But alas comes 10am weds, no text arrived, nadda, nothing
later, sent her an email to say that I was waiting but she deleted the mail
So what yo think folks, is she a timewaster or not??
And I didnt even mention Lurpak
lol
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If reading it correctly, you maybe arranged all the day before via messages on here? Exchanged mobile numbers on here, but did you text each other same time just to confirm numbers given were correct? Or as it reads, you leaft texting to say you could make the 11am meet untill 10.30am? 30 mins before meet time?
Did you put a doubt over your availability by saying you would be at a meeting same morning maybe?
Apologies if i've read that detail wrong, just a theory. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"HOW DO YOU CLASS SOMEONE AS A TIMEWASTER.
Chatted to a girl, got on well and she made the moves to arrange a meet.
She wanted me to hers at 11am on a monday, so gave her my mobi and said i'd text her. Left meeting at 10.30 sent text to let her know I was free and she told me she would be 3 hours late, which I couldn't make.
So she arranged that she wanted me over wed morn at 10am.
So I messaged her on tuesday to tell her i'll just wait on her text.
Later that night she was online and ignored my message, thats when suspected probs. Butii continued to give her the benefit.
But alas comes 10am weds, no text arrived, nadda, nothing
later, sent her an email to say that I was waiting but she deleted the mail
So what yo think folks, is she a timewaster or not??
And I didnt even mention Lurpak
lol
If reading it correctly, you maybe arranged all the day before via messages on here? Exchanged mobile numbers on here, but did you text each other same time just to confirm numbers given were correct? Or as it reads, you leaft texting to say you could make the 11am meet untill 10.30am? 30 mins before meet time?
Did you put a doubt over your availability by saying you would be at a meeting same morning maybe?
Apologies if i've read that detail wrong, just a theory."
yeah arrangements were all done days before but extra text was sent near the time.
A meet was arranged 2 days before
On that day before I would text her and let her know when i was free.
So on the day, finsihed 30 minutes before and texted her. She then replied that she wants free fur 3 hours.
Then she text to arrange wed at 10.
So said yes, next day sent message on fab to let her know id wait on her message at 10 to see her.
A few hours later after message sent she was online and ignored message.
Then next day no text
Yip shes a timewaster and think it was intentional
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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theres a lot to be said for simply doing/ deciding nothing about a situation like that. pointless to message and remind them of meet...but saying and doing nothing sometimes solves it.
people get busy....distracted...swamped by messages...could be that simple. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not how I would arrange a meet!
But if I had said 11am only to be told they would be 3 hours late...I would have said, no then just left it at that....
I wouldnt have chased it up..."
I didnt chase it up
She asked to rearange and know problems can happen
but then after the not turning up, that was it |
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