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When do you stop.....terms of numbers?
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I love watching my Mrs having sex with strange men while I watch and then join in.
We started doing around 2 years ago and it was a slow burner to start with, loads of no show men etc but it got better and better.
Having watched my Mrs have sex now with around 25 men since we started....is it time to stop?
What is enough ? |
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If you’re asking the question on the forum, pretty sure that’s answered it. If there’s any doubts call it a day before you resent it. Yes you both might still be saying you’re happy but if it’s getting questioned it’s really time to sit down and have a heart to heart and find out where you both stand! Also it’s not a numbers game this lifestyle we’re not all young idiots putting “notches on the bedposts”
Hopefully you can figure it out soon
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By *innMan 5 weeks ago
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"If you’re asking the question on the forum, pretty sure that’s answered it. If there’s any doubts call it a day before you resent it. Yes you both might still be saying you’re happy but if it’s getting questioned it’s really time to sit down and have a heart to heart and find out where you both stand! Also it’s not a numbers game this lifestyle we’re not all young idiots putting “notches on the bedposts”
Hopefully you can figure it out soon
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This is a good answer and it’s good to see a thread that isnt littered with stupid replies and “banter” that doesn’t add to the subject. |
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"If you’re asking the question on the forum, pretty sure that’s answered it. If there’s any doubts call it a day before you resent it. Yes you both might still be saying you’re happy but if it’s getting questioned it’s really time to sit down and have a heart to heart and find out where you both stand! Also it’s not a numbers game this lifestyle we’re not all young idiots putting “notches on the bedposts”
Hopefully you can figure it out soon
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Great reply talk it through X … personally I’d rather play again with people who I’ve had great times with where the dynamic gets even better rather than add ongoing ‘numbers’ but that’s me speaking from single perspective |
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As long as it remains exciting for you BOTH... Then carry on.
I once like the idea of gangbangs, and liked to watch. But, I've come around to wanting one to one, so much more intimate. We change as we grow. |
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"I love watching my Mrs having sex with strange men while I watch and then join in.
We started doing around 2 years ago and it was a slow burner to start with, loads of no show men etc but it got better and better.
Having watched my Mrs have sex now with around 25 men since we started....is it time to stop?
What is enough ?"
Are you talking about stopping with your Mrs (wife) or with the 3 women you meet with ? |
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"I love watching my Mrs having sex with strange men while I watch and then join in.
We started doing around 2 years ago and it was a slow burner to start with, loads of no show men etc but it got better and better.
Having watched my Mrs have sex now with around 25 men since we started....is it time to stop?
What is enough ?Are you talking about stopping with your Mrs (wife) or with the 3 women you meet with ?"
Touché
To echo what's already been said, the fact that you have asked the question he in the forum makes me wonder if there is some doubt there for you, your wife, or both of you. Better to have that conversation now than it potentially go completely pear shaped. Hopefully you find a resolution. |
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I really don't get why grown adults would want to keep score or "bodycount" . If you both enjoy it and still having fun with it then that's all that matters , if not then it's time to have a serious discussion about it. Tallying up the conquests seems rather infantile. In my opinion (and only mine I don't speak for anyone else) ,when scores are totted up it's far to easy to use them as a weapon . |
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"I love watching my Mrs having sex with strange men while I watch and then join in.
We started doing around 2 years ago and it was a slow burner to start with, loads of no show men etc but it got better and better.
Having watched my Mrs have sex now with around 25 men since we started....is it time to stop?
What is enough ?"
Don’t stop till we have played together lol .. if the fun stops for one of you then that’s time to stop. |
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By *opeyXWoman 5 weeks ago
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"I really don't get why grown adults would want to keep score or "bodycount" . If you both enjoy it and still having fun with it then that's all that matters , if not then it's time to have a serious discussion about it. Tallying up the conquests seems rather infantile. In my opinion (and only mine I don't speak for anyone else) ,when scores are totted up it's far to easy to use them as a weapon . "
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"I love watching my Mrs having sex with strange men while I watch and then join in.
We started doing around 2 years ago and it was a slow burner to start with, loads of no show men etc but it got better and better.
Having watched my Mrs have sex now with around 25 men since we started....is it time to stop?
What is enough ?"
There is no right or wrong answer
As a couple you should both be making the decisions
Is it the amount of different guys
Is one wanting it more that other
What is the reason you are asking x |
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Id love to attend your fun tonite Scots Boost
"I love watching my Mrs having sex with strange men while I watch and then join in.
We started doing around 2 years ago and it was a slow burner to start with, loads of no show men etc but it got better and better.
Having watched my Mrs have sex now with around 25 men since we started....is it time to stop?
What is enough ?"
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