I have been having fun with a married lady for a few months and have fallen for her. We have had chats and she acknowldeges we are good together but she has young children so doesn't want to jeapordise what she has.
She wants to carry on our fun but I have really fallen for her and want to continue having fun but I also want more. I think I should cut and run before it gets too deep. She knows how I feel about her.
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
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If she doesn't want more, it sounds like your just going to be hurt in the long run. She sounds a bit like wanting her cake and eating it.
Ultimately only you know what your tolerance is - but if she loves someone else, and is always going to go back to her husband and family, can you take the pain of being her bit on the side and a secret? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No good can ever come from having an affair with someone who is married and has young kids! Do you really want her to leave and be with you??
Cut and run, loads more pebbles on the beach   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Play with fire and you will get burned. cut and run you will get over her and who knows she may get back ontrack with her family and husband once your out of her life! |
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By *ane DTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Walk away not just her husband whos going to get hurt if she decides to walk out on him .
Step out of the box for a second and see the bigger picture ...good luck xxx   "
I agree - walk, you know it makes sense. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My profile states I have a thing for married women
However, I only play with them where ground rules are CLEARLY SET.
NO TIES. It's purely sex, nothing else.
We all have reasons to be here and vast majority if them are for FUN with no strings
She ain't going to leave him mate so cut loose and walk away.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tough one
Only u know what the right thing to do is buddy.
It's not about how u feel. Got to consider she has a family
It's about doing the right thing for her and her kids. Got to put your feelings to one side
If you can truely get a grip on how u feel then I dont séé why it can't continue as just fun. But if u cant and can't accept u cant have her then walk away on good grounds mate as hard as it may be. Youll get over her |
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"Walk away not just her husband whos going to get hurt if she decides to walk out on him .
Step out of the box for a second and see the bigger picture ...good luck xxx
I agree - walk, you know it makes sense."
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