Wonder if there are any other couples on here in an open relationship, where the guy struggles to make connections with single women or others in open trelationships?
I've been honest and polite on both our couple and my solo profile, but I think most women probably think I'm a liar, cheat, or, as I've been called...a scumbag 😂
Guess it's hard enough for guys on here (pardon the pun) who aren't attached. |
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By *exsaCouple 4 weeks ago
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Yes hubby and I are open and he finds it twice as heard to meet women. You can kind of understand why women will be weary as you cant take people at face value but keep plugging away and youll probably end up finding a fellow open relationship person. |
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"Yes hubby and I are open and he finds it twice as heard to meet women. You can kind of understand why women will be weary as you cant take people at face value but keep plugging away and youll probably end up finding a fellow open relationship person. "
And I guess you'll be inundated like my partner? |
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Unless he's exceptional, a celebrity or star, a man will always, always struggle in an open relationship. She can have meets with dozens of folk, before he even receives a reply to any messages.
Surely this is common sense. |
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By *olinb1Man 3 weeks ago
Edinburgh |
I’ve recently lost my wife of 33years together and now find it hard to talk to never meet new people on here, confidence totally smashed to bits where before I was the confident 1 when arranging meets and talking to others x |
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I was on here as a couples profile and it lasted 2 weeks..turns out I'm a jealous jock, was almost impossible for me to talk to someone the ex got all the attention and if you did talk to a "couples" profile it was always the man talking and interested in one person only |
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From another view point in the scenario - of the female that meets a “hot husband”!
I get loads of intrigue type questions from those who don’t or can’t believe it to be real.
However, as the ‘other female’, it’s a very very unique and well trusted set up with all 3 involved. Unspoken rules that have just respectfully evolved- I don’t instigate the meets, I don’t overly message and I never outstay my welcome in their home.
I often get other couples message, but in this type of “hot husband” scenario I’m 100x fussier than meeting a single guy. Every part of the dynamic with all involved has to be spot on!
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